In recent years, late marriage has become a common phenomenon, like a "youth marathon", where everyone runs leisurely on the track and does not seem to be in a hurry to rush to the finish line. According to the latest statistics, the unmarried rate of 30-year-olds in China's cities has exceeded 30%, which really makes those parents who are urging marriage anxious.
In the streets and alleys of the city, you can always meet a group of unmarried men and women who are jokingly called "leftover men and women". They don't seem to be in a hurry about marriage, and they don't want to compromise. However, as they grow older, the pressure from parents and society increases, which makes this group of "leftover men and women" feel a little at a loss.
So, why is this happening? On the one hand, with the development of the economy and social progress, people's living standards continue to improve, and the requirements for marriage are getting higher and higher. Everyone is reluctant to marry for the sake of getting married, preferring to wait for the right person to appear. On the other hand, the pace of life of modern people is getting faster and faster, and the pressure of work is also increasing, which makes many people have no time and energy to find their other half.
Of course, marrying late does not mean not marrying. In fact, although many people marry later, their married life is very happy. Late marriage also gives people more time and space to get to know themselves and find the most suitable person for them.
And for those who have not yet entered the marriage hall, we have to remind them not to be swayed by social pressure and family urging, let alone to get married for the sake of marriage. Believing in your choice and waiting for the most suitable person to show up is the most important thing. At the same time, we must also respect everyone's choice, whether they choose to marry early or later, it is their own choice, and they should be respected and supported.