Ni Weizhen analyzes the deep brotherhood
In order to take care of his sister, Ni Weimin even had to help his sister solve difficulties when he didn't even have time to eat. This is the price he paid and the reason why his relationship with his eldest brother has become estranged.
Yibei's ** depicts Ni Weizhen's selfishness and self-interest, she has relied on her eldest brother since she was a child, but she looks down on him because of her status when she grows up. However, Ni Weimin is the real giver and sacrificer, he used his own efforts to make his mother live a comfortable life, even if he was in the most difficult situation, he did not hesitate to pay for his family.
In contrast, his family turned a blind eye to his efforts and even took them for granted. This makes us reflect on what is true filial piety, what is real giving, and have we ever truly appreciated the people around us?
Ni Weimin is a kind person, he has done a lot for his family, but he has never been recognized by them. His parents are always partial to other children and will even ignore him.
He was considered the most honest person in his family, and his family always used his kindness and selflessness to achieve their own ends. His wife had told him that all he had on his mind was the family, and that his sister and brother were doing better than him.
His situation is distressing, but his kindness and selflessness are touching.
Because of his selfless dedication, everyone gradually ignored him. When his younger siblings grew up, his younger sister often ignored the presence of the eldest brother. She said: "This dress is left over from your brother's wear, so I will give it to you, look at our husband and mother, how shabby it is to wear the clothes given by others." ”
Although Ni Weiqiang has some ego, his wife is very knowledgeable. Chunmei and her husband have better conditions, she will often buy clothes for her sister-in-law, and the suit that Wei Qiang does not wear will also be given to her eldest brother.
However, for Ni Weizhen, she will only blindly ask for it, without any return. She always believes that the eldest brother is good to her because he has helped her parents reduce the pressure and fulfilled the responsibilities of the eldest brother, so she does not need to be grateful, let alone reciprocate.
At the end of the day, all she sees is herself.
She is convinced that even if she is cold to her eldest brother, her eldest brother will not leave her. However, the eldest brother's life is not satisfactory, and she is worried that his family will trouble her because of past grievances, so she tries to avoid contact with the eldest brother's family.
In order to take care of his sick mother, Ni Weimin even considered working internally in order to take better care of his mother.
Two children, one pursues freedom, only cares about himself, regardless of his mother's plight; One talks about taking care of his mother, but in fact puts his own interests first.
Their behavior makes people sigh, although Chunmei decided to take care of her mother by herself, Ni Weimin is still trying to get her home, and Ni Weizhen expressed support on the surface after hearing that her second sister-in-law took her over, but in her heart she just politely and hypocritically said, "When you need someone, call me **".
The behavior of these children makes people think deeply, filial piety can not only stay in words, but also needs to be reflected in actual actions.
Ni Weimin's filial piety did not win the favor of the old lady, but caused Erhu's worries. He was worried that Ni Weizhen would occupy the house because the old lady did not make a will.
However, Ni Weimin was adamantly opposed to making a will, because he was unwilling to destroy the relationship between siblings because of interests, even though his conditions were not good.
Ni Weizhen knows in her heart that she knows the character of her eldest brother, if she doesn't let go of the old house, the eldest brother will never be stalked. And in this family, she was the most bullied, and the family discussed marrying her off and vacating the old house so that her great-grandson would have a place to live.
However, although the old lady was biased, she also knew that this kind of behavior was unfair to Ni Weizhen.
No matter how hard the eldest family's life is, she won't care. "Whatever" is just shirking responsibility, the second family can't rob it, and the boss has a weak personality and can't compete with Ni Weizhen for the house, so the house is naturally owned by Ni Weizhen.
This is obviously bullying Ni Weimin's kindness. Yang Jiang once said: "You must not only have the upbringing of not harming others, but also have the courage not to be hurt by others."
If there is no one to protect you, then you have to learn to keep your edge in kindness and create a sense of security for yourself. As the saying goes, "The weak are bullied." ”
Your mother is sick, you two are going to divorce again, and the old lady can't live with her former daughter-in-law, and the house is empty. We have passed, not only to solve your family's house problem, but also to let the old lady have a stable home. ”
Isn't there another grandson, Sinan? Doesn't he like Sinan very much? ”
Ni Weimin is well aware of his mother's partiality, but he chooses to be tolerant. He is like a hard-working old scalper, silently paying for his family. However, when things go wrong, it's always him who is blamed because he never fights back.
For the first time, Mrs. Ni was hospitalized for Ni Weizhen's poor care, but no one accused her of negligence. However, when the old lady was sleeping because Wu Erhu was not taking good care of her, it caused Chunmei's anger.
Chunmei blames Erhu for driving the nanny away and not taking good care of the old lady.
Erhu knew that her husband was weak and her family would not give him face, so although she was usually very strong, she didn't dare to refute this matter. She knew it wasn't a good idea to show her eyes in front of her children and sister.
Moderate honesty is a basic principle of being human, but being too honest can make you stupid. "Even if it's a sibling, you have to step up when you need it, otherwise you'll only get someone else to get an inch.