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In the broad and profound Chinese culture, the wisdom of the ancestors is like a bright pearl, which still shines after thousands of years.
There is such a saying, it is like a mirror, reflecting our inner world; It is like a key that opens the door of wisdom for us. This sentence is: "Lack of wisdom and suspicion, lack of authority and anger, and lack of quantity and resentment." ”
1. Suspicious: Lack of wisdom and suspicion
Lack of wisdom and suspicion", this is the advice of our ancestors to us. People who are not intelligent are often prone to falling into doubts, as if the whole world is full of conspiracies and traps. They are suspicious of people and things, as if everyone is a potential enemy.
Like a knight in heavy armor, they are always vigilant, but this vigilance deprives them of the opportunity to get in touch with the world. Their world is grey because they see everything with a skeptical eye.
True wisdom, however, is not skepticism about the world, but understanding and tolerance of the world. As the ancients said: "Great wisdom is foolishness, great ingenuity is clumsy." ”
A truly wise person knows how to face the world with a peaceful mind and look at others with an understanding eye. They know that the world is not all dark, as long as we look for it with our hearts, the sun will always shine after the storm.
2. Angry: Lack of power and anger
Wei is not enough to be angry", this is the warning of our ancestors to us. People who lack authority tend to get angry. They try to hide their inner weakness with anger and establish their majesty with anger.
However, anger does not bring true majesty. Like a roaring lion, although his voice is loud, it is difficult to hide the fear in his heart. True majesty comes from inner firmness and calmness, not outward anger and roaring.
Our ancestors told us: "Tolerance is great, and no desire is rigid." "A truly dignified person knows how to tolerate the mistakes of others with a tolerant attitude and resolve conflicts with a peaceful tone.
They know that anger doesn't solve the problem, it only complicates it. Therefore, they choose to use wisdom to defuse anger and majesty to earn respect.
3. Resentment: insufficient amount and many grievances
The amount is not enough and there are many grievances", this is the reminder of our ancestors to us. People who don't measure enough are often prone to resentment. They complain about the injustice of fate, about the faults of others, as if the whole world owes them an account.
However, complaining doesn't change the situation, it only makes the mood worse. Like a traveler stuck in a swamp, they keep complaining about mud and thorns, but forget to find the direction of the way out.
The ancestors told us: "The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and strain their muscles and bones." "In life, there will always be difficulties and setbacks. People who are truly measured know how to face challenges with a positive attitude and overcome difficulties with tenacity.
They know that complaining won't solve the problem, it will only put themselves in a deeper predicament. Therefore, they choose to face reality with courage and find a way out with wisdom.
Conclusion:
When we enter the triple realm of "lack of wisdom and suspicion, lack of authority and anger, and lack of resentment", we seem to have experienced an inner baptism. We understand the true meaning of wisdom: it is not only the understanding and tolerance of the world, but also the cultivation and sublimation of the heart.
In this world full of challenges and opportunities, let us look at everything with a wise eye and face challenges with a peaceful mind. Let's learn to understand others, tolerate mistakes, and cherish the present. Because only in this way can we truly live our lives and live wonderfully.
Finally, may we all find our own strength in the wisdom proverbs of our ancestors; May we all be the ones who are strong and wise in heart; May our path of life be broadened by wisdom and more harmonious by understanding.