Zhang Ailing once revealed: The power of love can make people forget the flow of time, and the passage of time can also dilute the memory of love. In real life,"The seven-year itch"The phenomenon is widely circulated in songs"Love has seen people's hearts for a long time"The melodious melody verifies the subtle and profound relationship between time and love. Time is both the litmus test of love and its potential erode.
Love that can't withstand time will deteriorate one day
recalled that when the first season of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" was on the air, Chen He's appearance as a guest caused a boiling point, and the topic of boycotting Chen He's sister on the wave soared in popularity on Weibo, and the number of readings easily exceeded 100 million. The source of all this reversal is that he ended his marriage to Miss Layla, who had been in a 13-year relationship, and made a new relationship public.
13 years of long-distance love, not everyone is fortunate to experience, but this pair of beautiful people finally went to a strange road, which can't help but make people sigh and sigh. After going around for several years, they still couldn't get to the end together, just like the touching words: they can get through the hardships together, but they can't survive the dull and silent days.
This scene is similar to the picture sketched by director Wong Kar-wai in the movie "Chongqing Forest": "I don't know when everything has an expiration date, the saury will rot, the canned meat will fail, and even the plastic wrap will have an expiration date." I'm starting to wonder, what else in this world doesn't expire? Indeed, when passionate love blends into trivial life, when the spark of passion calms down, when the novelty quietly fades, when the years pass silently, some love can't resist the washing of time after all, and gradually loses the brightness of the past, quietly moving towards the edge of expiration.
True love is not afraid of the test of time
Photographer Jiao Bo has sparked heated discussions on the Internet, he spent 30 years and captured 1More than 20,000 frames of moments, in order to affectionately record the simple but deep and heavy love of the parents. This dedication has touched countless Chinese people, and he has been nominated for moving Chinese figures. Under the camera, the two elders, like thousands of ordinary couples, have experienced sweet intertwined trivialities and occasional disputes in ordinary life, and they have spent 72 years of spring and autumn among the green mountains and green waters, always loving as before, like newlyweds.
Although the two elders have now passed away, the years they have spent together in the white head still warms countless hearts in the world. In them, the "seven-year itch" has become a mere rumor, and the "ten-year pain" is no longer convincing. They spend time together, not only to withstand the storms of life, but also to become more and more closely connected in the baptism of the long years, deducing the sincere commitment of "one life and one couple". Their stories profoundly reveal that true love is like gold tempered by time, even if the years go by, it can wash away the lead and become more dazzling. At the same time, it also reminds us that those emotions that are easily worn out by daily life are not the essence of true love.
Whether two people are true love or not, time is the best answer
When we are immersed in love, we are often haunted by worries and can't help but ask if the other person is sincere. However, it is better to leave it all to time and let it be the most impartial arbiter. Life is actually iron-faced and selfless, people's hearts are changeable, the deep affection at the moment may be real, and the back of the future is also real. If you are unfortunate enough to encounter such a situation, you don't need to be too sad, it just means that the soul mate who will spend your life with you has not yet appeared. After all, emotional matters may be able to confuse each other temporarily, but they cannot deceive the discernment of time. Only those who truly love you will accompany you through the long road of life and welcome the baptism of time together.
All we can do is to go all out, face the challenges of the years together, and wait patiently for the answers given by time. I hope that everyone can meet the unswerving partner, although from the prosperity to the ordinary, but in the intermingling of life to find peace of mind and warmth. Time is silent, but all doubts are answered; The years are silent, but they witness all the true feelings. Let love precipitate in the long river of time, and firmly believe that all the efforts and experiences will find their home.