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There will always be some regrets in life, and these regrets may just be the arrangement of fate, and fate has not arrived, so they can't get their wish; Perhaps it was our own choice that we went in the wrong direction, and the road we walked was full of regrets.
As adults, we should learn to let go of those untimely regrets because life needs to go on and we need to take responsibility for our own lives. Every relationship, whether it is a husband and wife relationship or a lover, when there are more and more perfunctory and disagreements, fate may have come to an end.
On the road of long-distance love, perfunctory is often accumulated slowly. Maybe at first we are full of joy, but time will dilute everything. When indifference and perfunctory become the norm, disappointment and soreness follow, and we may not love each other anymore, but we have learned to let go.
Just like Xiao Xuan and her husband, more than ten years of love have reached the palace of marriage, but in exchange for mutual dislike and perfunctory. The disappointments accumulated into the complaints in my heart, and finally became an insurmountable gap between the two people.
True love is to care for each other day and night, and not to make each other feel lonely and indifferent. When we begin to forget each other's needs and start perfunctory with each other, love will quietly leave.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, disagreements are inevitable. But as the differences grow, the distance between them grows farther and farther apart. The example of Circle Circle and her boyfriend is a vivid case, because of the choice of a movie, the differences between the two people gradually evolved into irreconcilable contradictions.
In love, the most important thing is not to blindly stick to your own position, but to be able to consider the problem from the other person's perspective and listen to the other person's needs attentively. Only by treating each other sincerely and tolerating each other's shortcomings can love last for a long time.
On the road of marriage and love, we need to learn to manage with our hearts, respect each other's choices, and understand each other's needs. Because of love, what is needed is tolerance and understanding, and what is needed is sincere care and care for each other.
Perhaps, in this world, there is no perfect love, only people who know how to tolerate and cherish. Whether perfunctory or disagreeable, as long as we are willing to manage with our hearts, we can make love bloom for a long time.
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