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Emotions are undoubtedly an integral part of a woman's life. When we are young, we are full of fairytale longings for love, longing to find our own prince or princess. As we age, we navigate the ocean of emotions and experience all kinds of twists and turns. Even as the years go by, we still miss the good times and relationships that we once had.
When it comes to emotion, it is not a disparagement, but a reflection of the richness and variety of life. Feelings are one of the most beautiful parts of life, and believing in love is also believing in the beauty and possibility of life.
However, even though we are all in pursuit of love, different people deal with it differently and therefore get diametrically opposite results.
Some women are inseparable from emotional ties throughout their lives. They are fully engaged in love, and when separated, their hearts are like knives. Even after the pain, they will still quickly jump into a new relationship, looking forward to their next relationship. For them, emotions are more important than the sky. However, what about the end result? People who don't love them will still leave without hesitation, and those who once loved them often dislike their "love brains". They lower their own value, in exchange for the contempt of men and their own depravity. This passage brings us to reflection, perhapsIn the process of pursuing love, we should cherish ourselves more, not easily lower our worth, but stick to our bottom line. We need to learn to protect ourselves and love ourselves in order to truly find love that is worth cherishing.
In addition, there are some women who are not in a hurry to chase love. They always look calm and unhurried, and they are not shocked by love. When love comes, they will accept it calmly, but they will never lose themselves for it, and they will never let their emotions dictate their lives.
In the eyes of men, they may seem a little indifferent, because they will not talk about love all the time, and they will not put love in the first place in life. It's hard to influence their decisions with emotion. However, it is this calm attitude that makes men more and more fascinated.
Some people may ask or have already noticed:Why are men so obsessed with what they can't get? In fact, this can be explained by a number of theories in psychology, of which there are two main theories:
1.Scarcity Principle:This theory argues that men tend to cherish and pursue items or opportunities that are scarce or difficult to obtain. When something becomes scarce, men's needs and desires increase.
2.Challenge & Reward Theory:This theory states that men are generally more willing to put in the effort to pursue challenging goals, and that the sense of reward is stronger when they successfully overcome obstacles. Therefore, when a man senses that a certain woman is not easily pursued, he will see her as a challenge and will have a greater satisfaction in winning her heart.
Men themselves are a group full of contradictions. They long to have a gentle and virtuous wife, but if they really meet someone who sees them as the only in life.
1. Women who are fully engaged, but they may feel depressed and bored. Because such a relationship lacks a sense of challenge and mystery, and loses the joy of conquest. On the contrary, it is those women who are mysterious and elusive that can stimulate their interests and desires even more. They may blame some women for being too cold, or some women for not being submissive enough, but they also have to admit that such women are the most attractive.
Therefore, women should learn to maintain a proper sense of distance and not allow themselves to get too caught up in the emotional vortex. Only in this way can you truly win the respect and pursuit of men.
It can also be found from many examples in life:The more affectionate a woman is, the more memorable it is for men. What can thin affection bring to women?
When it comes to thin love, it is inevitably reminiscent of Jane Eyre, the heroine of the famous English literary book "Jane Eyre". Jane Eyre's life was destined to maintain a special distance from emotion. Jane Eyre's beginnings were not very bright, and she was abused from an early age, being treated like a servant by her relatives. In the midst of the pressure and injustice she faces, it is easy to choose to become a victim. However, she made a different choice. When she comes to teach at Thornfield Manor, she meets her master, Rochester. It was an opportunity for her to be tempted, but she didn't succumb to the emotional stirring easily. Even with a feeling for Rochester, she kept her sane distance. After learning Rochester's true identity, she firmly refused even if he proposed to him. Jane Eyre understands that her life can only be controlled by herself, and she will not be easily swayed by her emotions. She is well aware that the protection of herself is far more important than the impulse of emotion. Even though such a choice may make her appear cold, she is unwilling to fall victim to others, let alone lose her independence and dignity.
She knows that she is the most trustworthy person in this world. Therefore, she chose to be independent and chose to protect herself. This sober cognition has made her a rare female character, showing real tenacity and courage.
In ancient China, the aristocratic woman Wang Zhaojun met the general Huo Quai, just like a bright star suddenly flashing in the dark night sky, so she was determined to seize this rare opportunity. If it were someone else, they might constantly appear by Huo Quzhi's side, using sweet words to please him, trying to win his heart. However, Wang Zhaojun is not an easily emotional woman, she pursues a true dignity and self-reliance, so she will not be easily swayed by feelings. It is precisely because of this attitude that she has become an unforgettable existence in Huo Quzhi's heart.
Wang Zhaojun clearly understood that Huo Quzhi was a brave and fearless general, and as long as she showed an overly pandering posture, he would probably treat her as a temporary plaything. In order to win Huo Quzhi's heart, Wang Zhaojun must maintain her independence and dignity, and even if he tries to get close many times, she will not give in easily. In this process, Huo Quzhi gradually developed sincere feelings for Wang Zhaojun, and finally in an accident, the two came together. Huo Quzhi is well aware of Wang Zhaojun's tenacity and self-reliance, and his independent personality and characteristics that are not easily swayed by emotions make him admire. Although he used to be a hero on the battlefield, in front of Wang Zhaojun, he felt a kind of warmth and calm, which he had never experienced on the battlefield. However, Wang Zhaojun is not a person who shows her emotions easily, she maintains a cold attitude towards Huo Quzhi and does not want to be swayed by feelings. She is well aware that the reality of life is more important than any romantic love. As a result, she tries to maintain her independence and dignity, even in the process of getting along with Huo Quai.
However, as time passed, Huo Quzhi found that his feelings for Wang Zhaojun became deeper and deeper. He begins to realize that their relationship goes far beyond any battle and conquest he's ever experienced. He began to cherish every moment of time with Wang Zhaojun, hoping to protect her forever and let her live a stable and happy life. In the end, at a critical juncture, Wang Zhaojun showed her firm side and saved Huo Qu from danger. At this moment, Huo Quzhi was deeply grateful for her courage and wisdom, and his love for her was strengthened. So, after many difficulties and dangers, they finally came together to face the challenges and difficulties of the future together. This extraordinary love story has become a moving legend in ancient history.
I would like to conclude by saying:Love is beautiful, but it's not all there is to a woman's life. If you give up everything for love, you will have nothing left when love is gone. Therefore, women should first pursue practical things in order to achieve their own perfection and independence, in order to be qualified to enjoy the sweetness of love to the fullest.