February**Dynamic Incentive Program In our lives, there are always some people who make us feel confused and confused. There is such a girl, graduated from a prestigious university, with an enviable academic background and a future. However, in the two years after graduating, instead of making money, she fell into debt. Behind all this, she constantly weaves lies to make the people around her believe the truth.
The girl used to tell her family and friends that she had a stable job and good relationships with colleagues, but these were all fake. She has never participated in the work, and has been dreaming of making a fortune outside. She squandered and expanded by borrowing, overdrawing on credit cards, renting a storefront and renting an apartment, etc., which eventually led to an unmanageable situation.
After the family found out about the girl's secret, they kept her under close supervision and checked her pay stub every month. After getting along with their boyfriend, the family let their guard down. However, when she was about to get married a year later, the girl quit her job again, rented a high-end apartment, bought several computers, and had dozens of credit cards and hundreds of thousands of arrears by her side. When asked what she does, she doesn't understand.
The girl's lying behavior was shocking and incomprehensible. Why is she so free and indifferent when she can lie?Didn't she realize that her actions would cause harm to others?Or does she think she can go on and never be discovered?
In fact, the girl's lying behavior stems from the emptiness and insecurity in her heart. She longs for success and wealth, but is unwilling to work hard to achieve her dreams. She chose a shortcut, which ended up being a failure and going into debt. In order to maintain her image and face, she constantly weaves lies, but eventually loses the trust and respect of the people around her.
For family and friends, it was hard for them to believe that the girl was the one they once knew. Graduates of prestigious universities have a bright future and prospects, but they ruined their lives because of lying and deception. They began to reflect on the impact of the educational and social environment on girls, thinking about how to prevent similar things from happening again.
The girl's story is also a wake-up call. We should always be vigilant about our actions and words and not make bad decisions out of the heat of the moment or vanity. At the same time, we should also respect the feelings and thoughts of others, and not use lies and deception to maintain our own image and face. Only through sincere efforts and struggles can we win the trust and respect of others and move towards a successful life path.
Blunt Sensibility: Calmly face the frustrations and pains of life.
Reading "The Unbearable Lightness of Life" has a feeling: the lightness and heaviness of life.