Recently, I saw such a story on the Internet, and I don't know if it's true or not.
I hope it's just copywriting, if it's true, I hope she coaxes the man first, and after escaping from the man's house, break up!
Here's the thing, the girl (Henan) and her boyfriend (a remote and poor place in Gansu) have known and fallen in love for three years, and this year is her first visit to the boy's hometown and the first time she visits the boy's parents.
The girl said".I don't care about the distance, I don't care if his family is rich, I think it will be fine in the future.
The first day the girl went to the boy's house, it was already evening, and his parents gave her a warm welcome.
The next day, the girl accompanied her boyfriend to go to relatives, before leaving to go to relatives' houses, the boy's parents stuffed a red envelope to the girl, the boy said it should be "600 yuan", meaning 66 Shun, but the girl opened it was "1000 yuan", the boy showed a very shocked expression, the girl asked what was wrong, and the boy said it was okay!
On the third day, the boy's eldest sister came home and asked the girl some questions about "whether the family agrees or not", and the girl didn't take it to heart, she knew that it was normal to be asked, and it was a process that had to be experienced!
On the fourth day, the boy's third sister came back with her two sons, and the two children liked the girl very much, and when the meal was about to start, the boy said to the girl, "The meal is almost ready", which meant that he wanted the girl to serve the meal, and the girl didn't say anything to do it. (On the third day, the girl began to serve food, sweep the floor, and mop the floor).
On the fifth day,The boy said to the girl, "I can sleep until 12 o'clock, but you can't sleep until 12 o'clock", and on the same day, the girl was ready to grab the ticket to go back, but the highway was closed, and she couldn't go for the time being!
On the sixth day, the boy repeated to the girl, "I'm okay to wake up late, but you can't", and the two quarreled, and the girl wanted to cry and leave her boyfriend's house.
But it was snowing all the time, and she didn't know when she would be able to leave.
Until today, 7 days have passed, and she has not updated her content, and I don't know if she has left.
I really hope that she escaped from the man's house.
I think,Maybe it is a good thing for a girl to go through such an experience and see the true face of a boy before she gets married!
At the moment, the problem that the girl needs to solve is to leave the man's house!
First of all, stabilize the emotions of the man and the man's family, don't contradict him, and don't show an expression of "disgust" with him or his family, bear with them first, and coax them!
Secondly,If the local environmental conditions allow, leave his house, go to the county to find a hotel to live in, and then wait for the high-speed opening or train opening, buy a ticket to go home!
Finally, after leaving the man's house, return the red envelope of the man's parents to them by transfer or other means!
After returning to your own home, you must cut off all *** with the man and "remember the ugly side of the other party", don't soften your heart because of a few good words from the other party, otherwise everything you encounter now and in the future is deserved!
The most immature manifestation of an adult is to forgive as soon as he is happy, the good side may be pretending, but the bad side is definitely real!
I would like to remind the majority of sisters:"You need to be cautious in love, especially in long-distance relationships", if you feel wrong, control your emotions, deal with it rationally, and turn back in time!
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Ou Xiaoxi, I hope that through my words, I will take you to experience the "warmth and coldness" of the world.
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