Dai Xiao man was dining in the restaurant and was reminded by the clerk to take it off, which was unacceptable!
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Controversy: The restaurant asks mourners to remove their clothes.
According to one netizen, while he was eating at a restaurant, a waiter asked him to take off his filial piety clothes, which sparked heated discussions online. The netizen thought that the restaurant manager's behavior was disrespectful and also questioned the manager's relationship with the adjacent table, believing that it was a personal issue. ** Show, the manager turns to the adjacent table to toast while reminding them of the need to wear linen and filial piety. The restaurant replied that it was just a kind reminder and not mandatory. The incident sparked different opinions among netizens, with some supporting the restaurant's approach, arguing that Dai Xiao should not enter a public place; There are also those who think that the practice of restaurants is too excessive and that there should not be too many restrictions in public places. The development of events also led to an in-depth discussion about Chinese etiquette and customs.
The restaurant manager's practice of asking the wearer to take off the filial piety dress has caused a lot of controversy. On the one hand, proponents argue that Chinese have a strong sense of etiquette, respect traditions, and that wearing filial piety clothes in public will cause distress to others, so restaurants warn that it is reasonable to take off filial piety clothes. In addition, some netizens believe that going to someone else's house as a guest, Dai Xiao is regarded as disrespectful to the owner, so it should also be removed in public places. Opponents argue that restaurants are public places, that these customs should not be considered or taboo, and that those who wear filial piety have the right to eat in restaurants, so the practice of restaurants is excessive.
Some industry insiders also expressed their opinions on the practice of restaurant managers reminding customers who wear filial piety clothes to take off their filial piety clothes. They said that although there are sometimes cases where white and festive events are received at the same time, everyone does not interfere with each other and respects each other's customs. The restaurant manager's reminder is a commitment that takes into account the feelings of all customers.
The custom of wearing linen and filial piety and the restrictions of public places.
The Chinese have always attached importance to the tradition of honoring their elders"Filial piety"to express grief and respect for a deceased loved one. In traditional culture, when a person enters the door of someone else's house, he must take off his filial piety clothes, that is, he must take off his filial piety in front of others. This traditional rule has been passed down from generation to generation, reflecting the respect that Chinese have for their elders.
However, there are currently restrictions on the use of filial piety clothes in public places. Many people believe that public places are relatively busy and noisy environments for people to socialize, eat, or work, and therefore have an impact on the emotional and psychological state of the person wearing filial piety. In addition, some people believe that Dai Xiao embodies family mourning and the death of relatives, which will bring sadness and anxiety to others. Therefore, asking a person wearing filial piety to take off his filial clothes in public is considered to be respectful of others.
In this context, some entrepreneurs have also formulated some relevant regulations according to the characteristics of public places. Some catering, entertainment venues, etc., require filial piety to be taken away when receiving filial piety, so as not to cause nuisance to other consumers. They believe that this is done to maintain the harmonious atmosphere and comfort of consumers throughout the premises, as well as to respect the rights and interests of filial piety holders and other consumers.
However, there are also those who believe that public places should not restrict and prohibit filial sons and grandchildren. They believe that those who fulfill filial piety have the right to express their grief and respect in public places, and that restricting filial piety is an infringement of individual rights. Some people believe that understanding and respect for filial piety should be strengthened through education and communication, rather than restrictions and prohibitions.
The conflict between traditional Chinese etiquette and customs and modern society.
The Chinese's emphasis on etiquette and traditional customs can be traced back to ancient feudal society. At that time, there was a strict hierarchy in society, and people paid great attention to etiquette and respect for their elders. These ideas and customs have developed in Chinese society for thousands of years and have become part of Chinese culture.
However, with the development of modern society and the pluralism of values, there is a certain conflict between traditional etiquette and modern society. On the one hand, many people believe that traditional etiquette and customs are treasures of Chinese culture and should be inherited and inherited. They believe that these customs represent the Chinese's respect and importance for family, friendship and social relations, and are the cornerstone of Chinese social harmony and stability.
On the other hand, there are also those who believe that traditional etiquette is no longer applicable to certain occasions and circumstances in modern society. For example, in public places, workplaces, or foreign countries, people may not be able to understand and accept these customs, and may even feel confused and uncomfortable. At this point, there is a conflict between the individual's traditional customs and attitudes and social norms and values. In this context, a balance needs to be struck between respecting tradition and embracing modernity in order to reach a consensus that benefits the majority.
Summary. Wearing linen and wearing filial piety is a traditional Chinese custom to show respect and remembrance for deceased loved ones. However, there are also some restrictions and controversies regarding wearing linen and filial piety in public places. On the one hand, many people believe that wearing linen and filial piety in public places should not have too many restrictions and taboos, and it is a manifestation of individual rights. On the other hand, there are also some businesses and consumers who believe that wearing filial piety in public places will cause distress and discomfort to others, so they caution people that removing the word filial piety is a respect and maintenance of the place and the overall atmosphere. In this case, it is necessary to find a balance between traditional ceremonial practices and modern social norms, as well as to understand and respect the customs and values of others.
This incident reflects the conflict between traditional Chinese etiquette and customs and modern society. China is an ancient cultural country with a long history, and etiquette and traditional customs are deeply ingrained in the daily life of Chinese. However, with the development and change of society, some traditional customs may no longer adapt to the changes and pluralistic values of modern society. Therefore, when we encounter similar situations in public, we should understand and respect the customs and concepts of others, and strive to understand each other and seek common ground while reserving differences. Most importantly, while respecting traditions, we must also adapt and accommodate the changes in modern society in order to build an inclusive and harmonious social environment.
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