It is not entirely accurate to say that a woman's heart is as unpredictable as a needle under the sea! Because men's minds are also ever-changing, sometimes even they can't understand themselves! What they don't want to say, no matter what method you use, it won't help!
When someone comes to give you some advice, at most it can only be regarded as the person who helps you look at the big picture, and finally solves the problem and really wakes up, is yourself. In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, there are some things that men always want to hide, and these are actually the little Jiujiu in their hearts! Let me tell you what these little secrets are! I hope you don't make those hot faces and cold butts again!
1.The image of his ideal lover in his mind.
When we ask a man what characteristics the girl he likes should have, many people think that they will directly say the girl in front of them.
But in reality? Deep down in their hearts, they have a unique set of judging criteria! Whether it's appearance, education, family background, etc., they have already studied it in depth!
Even if they yearn for such a beautiful love, but the reality is not as they wish; The days with you are good are good, but the image of the ideal lover in their hearts will definitely be much better than now!
This is the nature of men, they may not be particularly valued after they have acquired it, but they are often prone to forgetting the new, and even when you have an argument or you tell him that you don't love him anymore, they will only pay lip service to it.
In the same way, we women also look forward to meeting the ideal prince charming, and in the hearts of men, there will always be a dream goddess. However, since this is just an unattainable dream, when you ask him what his ideal lover is, he will only tell you firmly that you are the most perfect one!
However, in daily life, you may find that he does not pay much attention to you, and he ignores your joys and sorrows, and only pretends to care about you very much.
Therefore, in the process of dating, we must not always struggle to find out whether the man sincerely loves us, or whether he thinks that we are the ideal partner in his mind.
Even if you ask many times, you still can't find his true answer, it's better to grasp the feeling of being cared for in front of you, and he can treat you sincerely, which is the greatest love.
2.About the number of his predecessors and the comparison of their appearance.
You ask your boyfriend how many girl friends he has had, or how they look, and compare who is more beautiful or her.
When we talk about these topics, if there are guys who are frankenough to blurt out the truth, they are either too realistic or too stupid. If he said the truth, it would probably not be long before he collapsed in the next second.
If he has a large number of girlfriends he has talked to before, you may think that he is distracted, or even think that he is not practical enough; On the contrary, if the number he mentions is very small, you will think that he has no skills, why can't he talk about love?
Given that the two of us have fate after all, why cling to the past grievances and hatreds? Life is supposed to move forward bravely, focusing on the future, rather than constantly recalling the past, which is meaningless compared to the distant past events and characters!
In fact, most men are steered by the wind and observe words and feelings, so they will definitely not reveal the slightest hint of privacy matters. If you're curious about this, not only will you not be able to get a peek into what he's thinking, but you'll probably ruin the relationship between the two.
All in all, women often feel emotionally uneasy because they are unable to adapt to the protective mechanisms they have formed. Women's sense of security mainly depends on the careful care and concern from men; On the other hand, a man's sense of security comes more from the unconditional trust that women have in him. Only when we both truly love each other can we provide each other with more security, which in turn makes our relationship stronger.
February**Dynamic Incentive Plan 3See through the secrets of his heart.
Are men unhappy? What was he thinking? Maybe the female compatriots really can't get a child from his mouth.
Why? Most boys are two different things from what they say and what they think! For example, when he verbally says to you, "I don't need you to buy me clothes", he is actually full of expectations deep down.
Also, when you tell him that you don't want to eat with him, maybe he really wants you to eat with him; Furthermore, he may still want you to take him to meet your friends and participate in your activities.
Men, when it comes to romance, they usually don't reveal their true thoughts or needs at will, unless he thinks that you are the right person, and if you can't, then he won't hide it in front of you.
If you want to say that men all over the world, who will show themselves unreservedly in front of the girls they like? After all, it is also the nature of boys to protect themselves, and in the end, the person they love the most is still themselves.
So, whether in married life or in love, we must not expect that every time we can let a man take out his heart to show you, and listen carefully to those true answers.