My name is Han Jing, I live in the city with my parents and a family of three, and my grandmother is not in good health, so she has been living with us all these years.
When my grandmother was young, she worked in the family farm, and she suffered a lot, and when she was young, she didn't pay attention to her body.
Some time ago, my grandmother went to the hospital again, but this time the condition was not as simple as before, the doctor told our family that my grandmother's body was very critical this time, in fact, there was no need for surgery, my grandmother was too old, and the organs of the body were not so energetic.
According to the doctor, even if my grandmother was hospitalized in the hospital, she was only better maintained by machines and medicines, and she could go home to recuperate.
My father always felt that my grandmother's condition would improve, and I insisted on letting my grandmother continue here, and I felt that I had no bottom when I went home. Grandma actually kept clamoring to go home, one because she didn't think it was interesting to lie here every day, and the other because she felt that it was a waste of money.
Seeing that the Chinese New Year is coming soon, the amount of ** in the hospital is much less than the original, everyone has finished the illness before the year, but our family is still here every day.
Grandma really couldn't lie down, so she told us that she didn't want to be in this ward for the New Year, so would our family have to spend this year in the hospital?
After discussing it with my father for a long time, my father finally agreed to let my grandmother go home from the hospital.
Grandma was very happy when she knew that she was going to be discharged from the hospital, and her appetite was greatly boosted at noon that day, and she had a full meal, which turned out that grandma couldn't eat anything at all.
In this way, our family packed up and went home, after my grandmother returned home, I saw this bright and transparent big house, and my heart felt much more open, my mother quickly settled my grandmother, and learned some health recipes, and changed my grandmother's tricks every day to make and coax my grandmother to eat.
I also walk twice in the yard at the door with my grandmother every day after work, my grandmother has been lying for so long, her legs and feet are not good, and now she needs someone to accompany her to travel.
Grandma kept saying that this illness had caused so much trouble to the family, and that her daughter-in-law and granddaughter were so kind to her, it was really worth it.
After returning home, my grandmother's mental state is getting better and better day by day, and after coming back for a few days, I don't need help to walk, giving us a feeling that we have never had this serious illness.
On the twenty-ninth day of the Lunar New Year, my mother and I were preparing vegetables, and my grandmother had to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables for us.
We all smiled happily when we saw grandma like this, but we still didn't worry about grandma going alone, so our family happily drove grandma to the supermarket, and by the way, we took grandma out to have a look.
We walked around all morning, and my grandmother didn't say she was tired and was refreshed all the time.
My father said that looking at my grandmother's current spirit, it is not like what the doctor said, grandma's illness is even better, it seems that the mood is still important, and we will go to the hospital for examination and examination after the New Year, it should be fine.
On the day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, many relatives had a holiday, heard that grandma was discharged from the hospital, and they all came to visit grandma, and everyone said that the spirit of going home was good, and said that grandma was in a good mood when she went home, and the whole person had strength.
Everyone came to see grandma go back to her hometown one after another, and they all made an appointment to come to grandma to pay New Year's greetings after the New Year, and it was so lively at the end of the day.
In the evening, my mother and grandmother were making dumplings in the living room, and I stayed in front of the TV for a random movie, waiting for the start of the Spring Festival Gala.
At this time, my grandmother suddenly felt a little weak, and my mother also said, you see that the Chinese New Year has been so busy in the past two days, so I am tired, I knew that I would not let them come today, so that you could talk for a day, and now I am bored.
Grandma smiled and said that it was okay, and she was happy to see them, and told her mother not to worry.
With the beginning of the Spring Festival Gala, my mother also brought out a plate of dumplings from the kitchen, many of which were boiled, and my grandmother said that she was a little tired in her hands, and some of the dumplings were not pinched tightly, and they were all scattered, and she kept blaming herself.
At the dinner table, we chatted, grandma said that her life is worth it, her son is so promising, her daughter-in-law is good to herself, her granddaughter studies well and works well, the only thing I don't see is that I am not married.
I saw all my relatives again this afternoon, and I don't feel like I have any regrets.
My mother kept saying that grandma would be able to meet in the future, and that I would have to be in good health in order to see me get married, and my grandmother smiled and agreed.
Grandma said that she didn't expect to be able to spend another year with us, because she felt very bad every day in the hospital, and now she is very satisfied, and she must have a happy end of this year.
After grandma finished speaking, she said that she was going to go into the house to rest, she talked too much today, and she felt too tired, so let's eat well and watch the Spring Festival Gala happily.
My father and mother also asked my grandmother to go back to the house to rest, but we didn't expect that what my grandmother had just said was the last word for us.
After two hours, my father planned to go into the house to see my grandmother, but when I entered the house, I saw that my grandmother was half outside, and hurriedly wanted to cover my grandmother with a quilt, but I didn't think that my grandmother's hands were already cold.
When my father came out, his face was pale and his eyes were red, and he told us that his grandmother had left quietly.
I didn't stand still, I collapsed on the ground.
The mother also looked at the father incredulously, and the tears in the corners of her eyes couldn't stop falling.
On the day of family reunion, the Spring Festival Gala program was colorful, and the actors sang and danced very festively, but our family was silent for a while.
It was not early that night, and my father said that since my grandmother felt that she was not good, she immediately went back to the house to sleep, because she didn't want us to be sad for her on this New Year's Day, and my grandmother kept saying that she wanted to spend the New Year with us, and we would spend the New Year with my grandmother tonight.
Saying that, my father covered my grandmother with a quilt, closed the door as if nothing had happened, and said to us: The year is going to be as usual.
The three of us sat at the dining table like we had lost our souls, and my father numbly picked up the dumplings and put them in his mouth, but when my father caught the broken dumplings that were not pinched tightly, he still broke down and cried.
My father began to complain that he was too busy with work over the years and had too little time to accompany the elderly, saying that he had not accompanied his grandmother to go out for a walk all these years, thinking that it was good for him to take the old man to his side, but in fact, he had not done enough.
I also feel guilty, my parents are usually busy, but I haven't thought of taking my grandmother out for a trip all these years.
On this night, our whole family felt the pain deeply.
It turned out that grandma was holding herself up these days, accompanying us through the happiest time, seeing all the people she wanted to see, and then leaving safely in a familiar home.
It took two days for my father to inform his relatives at home, not wanting everyone to have a sad atmosphere during the New Year.
Grandma is a kind person, who has been kind to others all her life, and many relatives have been helped by her grandmother when they were young.
Everyone in the family has special respect for her, everyone didn't expect that the hurried side of the year ago was the last meeting with the old man, and some were glad that they came to our house to see their grandmother before they went home.
Grandma's business is not a big deal, we all think that it is good to be good to grandma when she is alive, there is no need to go through the formality after death, and my father does not want to face so many people.
My father didn't close his eyes these days, and finally fell asleep peacefully after everything was done.
After experiencing this pain, I woke up even more, and I have always said that "children want to be raised but not relatives", but we can do our best to be good to our relatives while they are alive, and we must not wait for our relatives to leave and live our lives in regret and pain.