I just saw the news that there is a woman who has been married for 15 years and has been celebrating the New Year with her own parents.
I would like to say that I have been married for 26 years, and I have been spending the Chinese New Year with my parents, younger brother and sister-in-law at my parents' house.
We are all in the same city, very close to each other, why should I celebrate the New Year at my mother's house? Because I went to my mother's house for the New Year, I made my own provincial arrangements, and I could eat ready-made!
I'll go back to my home in my city after I've eaten Chinese New Year's Eve Chinese New Year's Eve at my mother's house!
When I first got married, the two sides celebrated the New Year together, and after my mother-in-law's family finished eating, I went to my mother's house to eat, because the distance was very close.
Later, because my ex-husband was good at gambling and domestic violence, I left with my son.
After the second marriage, the current mother-in-law has no conditions to let us celebrate the New Year, because she rented a house to live in after the house was sold, and it was inconvenient to cook food, and the mother-in-law was in her daughter's house for the New Year.
My mother-in-law didn't want to live in the house I bought myself, and my mother asked us to save some expenses and let us go to her to eat ready-made, so we have been eating Chinese New Year's Eve at my mother's house.
The happiest thing is that I feel valued in my mother's house, although they are all in the same city, but the customs and habits in the countryside are more simple, and the rural people are more polite, and the one in my family also likes to go to my house for Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, because my family is very good to him.
The difference between mother-in-law and mother-in-law is that mother-in-law treats daughter-in-law as an outsider, and mother-in-law treats son-in-law as son, although she also has a son, but she is not bad for her son-in-law, even if this son-in-law is a dime, but the mother-in-law in the countryside will not look down on him, but the mother-in-law in the city looks down on the daughter-in-law in the countryside, so she has been celebrating the New Year in her mother's house.
The son-in-law in the city even said that he would take his mother to my house for the New Year next year, and I had this idea at first, but now I firmly disagree, why!