Since giving birth to Erbao, our husband and wife have begun to sleep in separate beds, until now.
In the past, when Dabao was here, we slept together as a family of three. Before going to bed, I often talk a lot to my husband, and he rarely talks about everything. He said I was dumping it in his trash can like garbage. He's also a very strong ninja sometimes, and I don't stop when I don't see him angry, and he complains and complains all the time. Because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, long-distance marriage, step-son relationship, etc. I know my husband is uncomfortable, but I can't help but nag when I see him. Now he quickly dodged away when he saw that I was in a wrong mood, and if he had avoided it like this before, I would have made it even worse. Because in my consciousness, there is something that the husband and wife can't say, and they can discuss and solve the problem by saying it, but they can't solve the problem by avoiding it. A lot of times it's me who talks a lot, and the decisions are made by himself, and sometimes the disagreement will be even worse.
When we meet often, we talk a lot, Dabao sleeps with us, and sometimes it is inevitable to see pornography. Erbao is different, I don't know what's going on between my parents. Children are too young and exposure to yellow can affect brain development. Parents should also pay attention! Although it is said that sex is open now, it is also necessary to pay attention to avoiding those that affect children's physical and mental health!
Couples sleeping in separate beds have more privacy with each other. Sleeping in the same bed must have more intercourse, maybe more intimate, but the body is definitely weaker, the more energy to replenish during the day, and the rest time will also increase. If you sleep separately, you will see less faces, and there will be less verbal disputes, and two people can think of earning money to support their families.
I have children to take care of at home, and my husband needs his own space when he comes home after a tiring day. The child and I would disrupt his thoughts.
Sometimes my child is asleep, and if I am not sleepy, I will go to him. He always thinks I can't satisfy him. I said that the money you earn can't satisfy me?!
When you are a father, you have to set a good example for your sons, so that their sons will have a good future!