Text: Zhou Peng. Life in the world, loving the right person is like entering a romantic dream world. Loving the wrong person is tantamount to experiencing a great disaster.
When a man encounters true love, he will gradually become softer, more considerate, and more sensual. When encountering things related to you, you will be less rational and less shrewd than before.
It's just that love often makes people can't see it clearly, and they don't know his true face.
As a woman, I am most afraid of paying my heart wrongly and living in a quagmire. In fact, to judge whether a man loves you or not, you can see it clearly by doing one thing.
I have a girlfriend who broke up with her boyfriend because of money.
Originally, they seemed to have a good relationship, but they never thought that they would become vulnerable in front of money.
Her father was sick and needed a lot of money to replace his kidney. My girlfriend took out all the money in the family and still didn't have enough, so she borrowed it from relatives and friends, and asked her boyfriend if he could help her find a way to borrow some money.
My boyfriend said that the surgery was very risky, and it was very likely that it would be a loss of both money and money.
Not only did she not borrow, but she also said that she didn't think about the future of the two of them, and the two had a big quarrel and broke up.
This blow made the life of the girlfriend even worse. At that moment, she saw clearly: it turned out that he really didn't care about her as much as he imagined.
Whether a man loves you or not, money can be measured.
If you ask a man to borrow money, he is afraid that his interests will be lost, and he does not want to share the responsibility with you, and he does not want to face problems with you.
When you are most vulnerable and helpless, choosing to leave can only show one thing, he doesn't love you that much.
Therefore, when you ask him to borrow money, he will consider the pros and cons, and will calculate the gains and losses.
People who truly love you don't want you to be embarrassed by any kind of life, and they don't want you to be trapped by money. When you need money, he will definitely help you without hesitation and face difficulties with you.
Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy" originally thought that Qu Lianjie really liked her and wanted to date her. She felt in her heart that she had found a backer.
However, when she explained that her father was sick and hospitalized and wanted to borrow money from him, he replied in a playful tone. He was not willing to lend her money at all.
Moreover, he broke off relations with her as quickly as possible. Fan Shengmei was so angry that she scolded, but to no avail.
Man, love you or not, through money, you can see his attitude.
In the book "Buying Intimacy", it is said: "Money and emotions are mutually reinforcing. ”When borrowing money, a man's attitude towards you is his attitude towards feelings.
If a man is in fake love, when he falls in love with you, he behaves very generously in the process of chasing you, but if he really encounters something that requires him to pay more for you, he will escape and retreat.
People who love superficially, when they encounter difficulties in life, will choose to stay away from you and are unwilling to spend any money for you.
People who love deeply will be willing to give you charcoal regardless of personal gains and losses.
The more you love your man, the stronger he will be for you.
Writer Su Gengsheng said: "Some people say that it is normal for people to encounter love and money in their lives, and only understanding is valuable." I find it ridiculous, understanding is invalid, while love and money are real. ”A man who really loves you will be happy to hear that you are going to borrow money from him.
Because when you are in trouble, you will think of him because your relationship is very close, and your economic strength is also recognized.
If he easily helps you solve problems, it can bring you a great sense of security, and you will feel that you will not be financially wronged with him in this life.
If he doesn't have much money, he will borrow it from other places for you, trying to help you solve your problem.
Such people are serious about their feelings and treat you as the most important person in their lives. Together with them and working together, we will also have a lot of expectations for the future.
Moreover, men will work harder from now on to give themselves strong economic strength and protect you.
The more people who love you, the more they can grow. Because, he wants to be your protector.
On the road of life, love someone who deserves your love.
It doesn't matter if the man who loves you can help you get through it and become nothing. He only sees you and doesn't think about what he will do in the future.
If he is still rational and objective when you borrow money, questioning whether you can repay it, and calculating the risk factor of the money, then he loves himself more.
On the road of life, there must be a man who dares to talk to you about money and loves you more than the sky. Cherish such a man, don't miss the beautiful fate.
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.