My father has six brothers and sisters, my uncle, third uncle, fourth uncle, and eldest aunt and second aunt. Father is the second in line.
Listening to my father, my grandfather is the accountant of the production team, and he can do calculations, especially the abacus that dials three times and divides five by two. The production team's accounts rarely go wrong. The people in the village called Grandpa "Count the Sky".
Grandpa not only calculates his accounts well, but also has more accurate foresight than ordinary people in some unpredictable things. For example, if the two families are not suitable to be in-laws, there will be conflicts in the future, and the general situation will not be right.
When my uncle went to school, people thought that reading was useless, and no one paid attention to reading. The students went to work in the fields every day. Today the first team will take it away, and tomorrow the second team will take it away, and there will be three days of labor in a week. The uncle did not read a book, but became an expert in cultivating the fields in the village, and no matter how difficult the land was, he ensured that it was smooth and tidy under his hands.
My father was born with a love of learning, not only did he learn how to plan with my grandfather, but he also had to read the newspaper carefully when he took it back. Grandpa saw that he was a scholar, so he devoted himself to cultivating him. When it is said to be cultivated, it means that when he sees some books in other people's homes, he borrows them from his father to read.
In 77, the college entrance examination was resumed, and my father was admitted to the teacher college without much effort and became a college student.
The third uncle and the fourth uncle inherited the grandfather's genes of being able to pinch and calculate, especially in mathematics, they all studied science and engineering and were admitted to good schools. Two aunts, the eldest aunt is beautiful, her studies are average, she went to an ordinary university, and the second aunt studied very well and was admitted to a nationally renowned university.
The grandfather has six children, and although the uncle lives in the countryside, he later became a village cadre for a few years, and his cousins are all promising.
The remaining five children all have stable jobs, and most of them sit in the office. Although the dead wages earned are not very rich, they are all living in peace.
In comparison, my father's financial strength is not good. After graduating from the teacher's college, my father became a math teacher in the No. 3 middle school in the county. When I just graduated, my salary would not be more than 100. It is generally difficult for a teacher to marry a wife.
People know that teachers are poor, and there is a saying for a long time that "poor teachers, hungry students". Although grandpa's family is better than the average family, it is only limited to food and clothing, and there is no spare money!
The father was able to marry the mother because of his talent and his eloquence. His father had thick eyebrows and big eyes, a strong body, and a particularly humorous speech. That's why it's very popular with teachers and students.
My mother and father go to the same school, and my mother is also a college student from the countryside. Don't look at her mother's family in the countryside, but she is very romantic, likes to watch "Dream of Red Mansions" and "The Story of the West Chamber", sentimental and empathetic.
In the married life of father and mother for more than 20 years, they rarely quarreled, and if anyone was angry with each other and felt uncomfortable, at most they talked less and fought coldly for a few days. Maybe the father would make the mother laugh at something, and they would be reconciled again.
We have two brothers and sisters, and my younger sister was quietly born by her parents, and she was placed at my aunt's house for five years, and she was picked up when she was in school. paid 3,800 yuan for the superbirth, and only then did he justify the name and dare to appear in our family openly.
I am playful by nature, but after all, my parents are teachers, and my words and deeds have created me, a naughty ghost with a not too stupid head, and my studies are not so bad. Often, the small test is not very good, and the big test is not as good as people expect.
In the end, I went to a 985 in the province, and my father was not very satisfied, but my mother said it was okay.
My scumbag girl, I don't know whose genes I inherited, what I won't learn. Since the beginning of elementary school pinyin, I can't figure out bdpq, after my mother taught her three times a day, let her spell again, and she just spelled it randomly.
I'm in the third grade, I can't memorize the ninety-nine tables, and I have to count my fingers in math. The angry parents took turns to fight, and they lost one by one. When my mother was very angry, she cried loudly, saying that she had done something wrong in her previous life and gave birth to such an elm head.
The father comforted the mother, the girl reacts slowly, you take your time, maybe one day you will open up, don't be angry. Be careful with your body.
I remember that year, my mother took two classes of junior high school math classes, and there was evening self-study every day, until more than ten o'clock. Every day when she comes back exhausted, she has to worry about her sister's study, and for a while she was not in good spirits, she always said that she seemed to have a breath in her chest and back, and she was stuffy.
We all said that it was my sister's anger, and it was caused by the heavy teaching task, so we suggested that she put down the teaching task of a class. First of all, the school disagreed, and it was taboo for the graduating class to change teachers, so let the mother insist on it. Secondly, my mother herself was unwilling, and she immediately got her grades from the first year of junior high school to the third year of junior high school, saying that she would have to persevere to the end.
During a self-study class, my mother fainted on the podium. Sent to the hospital for a comprehensive examination, we never dreamed that our 49-year-old mother had cancer, or liver cancer, which had spread.
After receiving my father's **, I quickly got up and went home, and I didn't care about writing after graduation**. In the hospital, my father squatted outside the ward with his head in his hands. I ran over in two steps and hugged my father, and the two of us big men were silently sobbing in the hospital hallway.
It took only three months from the onset of the mother's illness to the time she left. Surgery, chemotherapy, my father was exhausted, my mother lost her hair, and the person was thin as a piece of paper.
She finally let go of everything and left the world she still missed.
I lost my mother when I was 22 years old, and my father lost his wife at 54. My sister is 16 years old, and when she is in high school, the man who scolds her while teaching her math leaves her forever.
The moment I picked up my mother's urn, I cried loudly, and from then on, I lost the mother who loved me. My sister fainted several times, saying that she was angry with her mother.
Father Mu Mu, dumb, in great pain, made him seem to have not yet understood that his mother had left us forever.
After his mother's death, his father became reticent, his humor seemed to disappear with his mother's death, and he commuted to and from work on time every day and smoked when he had time. In the days of his mother's death, cigarettes had become his companion.
Another five years passed, and the year before my father retired, I brought back my girlfriend Xiaoli. I didn't inform my father in advance, for fear that he would be uneasy again, so I prepared a lot of food. When I opened the door and entered the house, I saw my father and Aunt Zhou from our building sitting on the sofa chatting, and my father was actually smiling happily. Seeing us come back, my father welcomed us warmly, and although he was smiling, his face was not so stretched, and even a little embarrassed.
Later, I learned that Aunt Zhou's husband was a colleague of my father, and he had a cerebral hemorrhage the year before last. She has only one child in Beijing and is married. She often gave some steamed buns and dumplings to my father, and I heard rumors earlier that she seemed to be interested in my father and wanted to live together.
I asked my father if he was interested in Aunt Zhou, and he said seriously, who are you listening to nonsense. Your Aunt Zhou, as the wife of her father's colleague, is just a wife who has left, and she is just sympathetic. You just have to put your marriage with Xiaoli on the agenda.
The old father said so firmly, thinking of his feelings for his mother, I didn't want other women around my father, so I planned to finalize my marriage with Xiaoli in the spring of next year, and we could work and live in the same city after graduation.
Two years later, Xiaoli and I got married. My father is retired, and he does tai chi every day, watches the news, and has a fulfilling life.
Six years later, my sister also graduated from college, and I settled in the South. My sister found a nice unit and we were all happy for him. There was bad news from my father's side. He got up in the morning to exercise, accidentally fell and didn't feel half of his body.
When I came back, the teachers and neighbors had already sent my father to the hospital, and the doctor was consulting.
My father was half-paralyzed, and he didn't speak as well as he used to. The doctor said that this disease can only be raised, and there is no obvious cure. Usually do ** training. I just went to the company and didn't turn regular, I didn't dare to ask for leave, my sister said that she would accompany my father, and I went back to the south.
Half a year has passed, and although my father's illness has improved, he is still unable to move and needs to be taken care of. My sister and I discussed hiring a babysitter for my father. Both of us don't have a high salary, but my father's own pension is sufficient.
My sister gave up her well-paid job and made a special trip back to the county to take care of her father's diet and daily life.
My sister found a flexible job in the county, hired a live-in nanny, and took on the responsibility of caring for her father.
Unexpectedly, my father changed a nanny a month, either because the nanny was not delicious, or because the nanny was unhygienic, so he changed three nannies in three months.
Later, I found an acquaintance and worked for a year, helping my father to go down slowly, but this nanny was an acquaintance, and often left my father alone at home, and he went out to do his own business. I had no choice but to resign again.
Later, four were used one after another, some fathers disliked the change of clothes and were not diligent, and some fathers disliked the rough movements, and the water was fed like irrigation, and the pants mentioned ** didn't matter.
My sister cried to me that she was going to be paralyzed. My father is too capable, and I suddenly remembered Aunt Zhou, giving people more wages to see if they are willing or not.
On the weekend, I went home with my sister and went to Aunt Zhou's house to explain the situation and asked her to take care of my father. Aunt Zhou said let's see what your dad is doing.
The next day, Aunt Zhou came to our house, and when she saw that her father was already able to move with a cane and spoke a lot more easily, she said that she was willing to try.
Father was clearly pleased. Since Aunt Zhou became my nanny, my father never proposed to change the nanny. She often praised Aunt Zhou in front of us for cooking, washing clothes cleanly, talking, and moving lightly ......
We all understand what the old man is thinking about now.
Wait for the old man's illness to improve further, let them be there for a while, this is my sister and I's idea.