My name is Liu Ping and I am 53 years old. We are four sisters and have two younger brothers, and I am the third. There are two older sisters on it. There is a fourth sister and two younger brothers.
It is not difficult for everyone to see that my parents just wanted a son back then, and after giving birth to our four daughters, they finally waited for my younger brother, who was still two.
I heard my mother say that my father was a single transmission for three generations, and my grandmother saw that my mother gave birth to four daughters in a row, and none of them had a handle, so she pointed at Sang and scolded Huai all day long, saying that her mother had cut off the roots of their old Liu family.
The mother felt that if she could give birth to a daughter, she would be able to give birth to a boy, and she decided to give birth to a boy to show her grandmother and block her mouth. So one a year, the body did not have ** and became pregnant again.
My father worked in the township credit union, and our family was in a small village fifteen miles away. My mother took care of all four of us by herself. Before my eldest brother was born, my grandmother told my mother that she had to work in the fields to earn a job, and she had no time to take care of the four of us.
In fact, when the farm was not working, my grandmother never came to our house to help my mother. The father did not earn much, and the mother fed pigs, chickens, and sheep in order to subsidize the family, as long as she could supplement the family, she raised them.
There were several of us, all of whom were a year older than the other, and they were very tired, and my mother had no time to breathe. But there are also benefits, as the saying goes, the children of the poor are in charge early. When my sister was seven or eight years old, she was able to take her younger sister, the older one took the younger one, and before she knew it, the four sisters would grow up.
When I was 5 years old, my mother became pregnant again and gave birth to her eldest brother, followed by a second brother the following year. Mother was tired and happy.
My father had a smile on his face, and my grandmother often ran to our house. Looking at the two belts, the eldest grandson Naoraku.
Grandma is also getting older, and she has her two eldest grandchildren, and my mother can also take time out to take care of our crops.
My father was not at home, and our ten acres of responsible land also made it difficult for my mother. In the spring, when I plow the land and sow seeds, I don't have cattle at home, so I often ask for help, and when I sow seeds, I scatter seeds and fertilizer, and I can't be busy, so I have to ask for help. Therefore, my mother said that she owes people a lot of affection debts, and as long as she has the time, she will either repay this family favor or repay that family favor. Others have the space to rest, and she is spinning.
The six of us brothers and sisters all left her for eating, drinking, and Lazar, so my mother's body had been hollowed out due to childbirth, and with the spring planting and autumn harvest in the field, she was getting thinner and thinner.
is 1.7 meters tall and only 90 pounds. The waist is always in pain when the weather changes, the legs are also limping, and the hand joints are seriously deformed.
Despite this, she insisted that the eldest sister and the second sister finish high school, the eldest sister learned tailoring, and the second sister learned barbering. Resolutely not let our sisters farm with her. In her words, I have been like this all my life, you can't follow my path, you should have a different life.
My father didn't have any requirements for our sisters, we could do whatever we could, the most important thing was to marry a good family.
I failed the college entrance examination, I was disheartened, my father did not support me to repeat my studies, I didn't want to take the exam again, I thought about it and had to get up early and fight hard for a year, I didn't want to suffer that hardship.
But my mother wouldn't let me go. She said that the eldest sister and the second sister don't have that condition, now that life is better, and there are conditions to pursue a better life, why should you give up?
My mother couldn't help but say that she asked someone to register for me, paid the fee, and I had to study for another year, and finally was admitted to the Agricultural University in this province.
In the following days, my fourth sister and I went to college, and my two brothers went to junior high school. My mother got up early and took care of her two younger brothers. I often say that I have abdominal pain, and when it hurts, I go to the barefoot doctor to buy a few painkillers, and when it doesn't hurt, it's over, and I never have a good examination.
I graduated from college and returned to the county agricultural bureau.
The elder sister and the second sister married one after another. They all have their own craft. The people I am looking for are all in this bank.
Soon, I also had my own home. I am busy with work, but I am not busy with work and have things at home, and I have less and less time to go back to the village to visit my mother. Only occasionally**, ask about your mother's status and your younger brothers' studies.
In the second year of my marriage, my daughter was born. Both younger brothers went to college. My father retired at home. The mother insisted on showing me the baby. It is said that I don't have my mother-in-law's care, and I work hard alone.
My mother not only took care of the children for me, but every day when I came back from work, I was able to eat a hot meal on time most of the time. My husband was also very grateful to my mother, saying that if it wasn't for my mother's help, he wouldn't have been able to concentrate on his work, and he wouldn't have been promoted so quickly.
Mother is an idle person, she doesn't sleep when the child sleeps, sweeps here, wipes there, or makes dumplings, steames buns, and changes tricks to improve our lives.
Several times I found her pressing her abdomen and asked her if she was uncomfortable, and she always said that it was not tight, a pain-relieving pill. Seeing what my mother said was light and light, I didn't care, just asked her not to be careless.
Unexpectedly, on the twentieth day of the lunar month in 89, my mother had severe abdominal pain, and went to the county hospital for a check-up, talking about stomach cancer. We didn't believe it, my father was anxious about my mother's illness for the first time, and went to Beijing for a check-up, and the results of the examination were the same as those of the county hospital, and he was diagnosed with stomach cancer.
In the following days, my mother was either in Beijing, or on the way to Beijing, a person who had not even turned around the county seat of his own county, often laughed at himself, and almost became half a Beijinger.
When she was 71 years old, my mother left us forever. Six of us brothers and sisters wept into tears. The two sons she misses have not yet started a family, how can she bear to leave us!
Six of us siblings have become motherless children. In front of my mother's coffin, I fainted several times, thinking of my mother's hard work all her life, for the six of us reluctant to eat and wear, we eat thick and she drinks thin, we wear new and she wears old. never complained about his father, always said that his father was a staff member, and he couldn't pull his hind legs, and he carried everything weakly.
Especially in the three years of my family, she did her best to serve us, save water, electricity and gas as much as possible, and did not let us waste a single grain, obviously she had been tortured by the disease, and she had already told us with a smile that it was okay and missed the best time ......
I took it out of the closet, and the three stacks of clothes that my sister had bought for my mother over the years, she folded them neatly, and the tags were all there. We are angry and distressed, our mother has been frugal all her life, and she doesn't like new clothes, but she is not used to wearing them. She always said that she didn't have to look at the place when she wore old clothes, and she didn't have to worry about getting dirty when she got things done.
Some of the aunts and aunts suggested that the clothes be burned, and some suggested that the clothes be put in the coffin, and I decided to leave my mother's clothes in the cabinet where my mother put them, and keep them as a memory.
My mother was buried in the pit where she didn't see the light of day, and from then on we were separated by yin and yang. I put her clothes in the cupboard and locked them, and hung the key on the nail under the mirror, keeping my mother's habit alive. Pretending that the mother is still ......
My father's pension is about 7,000, and his life is enough. The two brothers have good jobs themselves, and they don't have to worry about their father. Because my father was not in the habit of worrying about us. He drank two taels a day, and he drank dizzily, and he didn't ask us what happened to our family.
On the 96th day of my mother's death, my father told us all to go home. The six of us brothers and sisters were all at a loss for words, and we didn't know what kind of medicine my father was selling in his gourd.
As soon as we got home, we saw that our cousin was leading a woman in her 60s, dressed neatly, and obviously the quality of the clothes was not very good. The age does not match the face, and it is much older. He sat on the edge of the kang with his legs drooping.
No need to ask, the six of us, you look at me, I think you already understand what's going on.
The cousin said that this aunt is from the mountains of her mother's family, and a son has already married and is willing to live with his father. My cousin also said that the people in the mountains are poor, the requirements are not high, the people are honest, and there are not many hearts, so let's think about our father, and there will be no such shop in this village.
Before leaving, she made a special statement that she was a nanny for her father, with a salary of 800 yuan per month, responsible for cooking and washing clothes for her father, taking care of her father's diet and daily life, not the kind of marriage.
After the cousin left, the eldest brother watched his father stand up and said angrily: "Do you still want to get married?" What do you dream about? My mom hasn't been 100 days yet, why did she come out like this!
My father tried his best to defend it, saying that his cousin saw that he couldn't cook by himself except for drinking every day, that is, instant noodles, and he didn't know how to cook.
Our six brothers and sisters, all of them are angry, angry with their father, they can't wait, their mother's bones are not cold, you want to find someone here, how can we accept it!
My father smoked cigarettes, and we were in the same mood, how could we not think of the mother who had worked hard for us all her life. The room was unusually dull, and no one wanted to talk.
Angry is angry, I thought about it, my mother is gone, leaving my father who can't cook, it's really not the same thing, how can I drink wine every day and make instant noodles?
Because of the death of our mother, the six of us were so sad that we forgot about our father, who didn't care much about us, and only immersed in the longing for our mother. No matter how good my mother is, she is gone, and we still have to think about our father's future life.
I coughed, cleared my throat, and said, "Don't be angry, let's listen to my father's opinion and make a decision?" The eldest sister first asked her father if he was willing? My father didn't say yes directly, but he said that it was better to have someone to take care of him, and I had my own pension, so I didn't need you to post money.
Listening to his father's tone, it goes without saying that he is willing. But we asked the father to wait until the mother had passed 100 days before talking about it.
The father agreed. The four of us sisters cooked a lot of food for our father and put it in the refrigerator. Let him drink less and eat more. Replaced instant noodles with somen noodles.
The next day, we left one after another.
After 100 days for my mother, I returned home and felt that something was wrong, so I took advantage of the weekend to go back to my hometown.
As soon as I entered, the yard was cleaned, and my father was smoking under the eaves, and when he saw me come in, he got up and asked me why I came back?
Hearing that there was movement outside the house, the mountain aunt last time, while patting the dust on her body, walked out of the house with a smile, and was obviously a little surprised to see that it was me.
I looked at my father in amazement, and my father hurriedly explained that my aunt had come to cook for him, and when he had cooked the meal, he went back again. I'm not embarrassed to poke my father: she replied to **? And there is no home for her?
When I sat down in the house, I found that the house was much cleaner, and the glass was clean. I looked back at the woman who had relied on my father, and suddenly I saw that she was wearing the fuchsia cashmere sweater I had bought for my mother last year, and a golden necklace around her neck. In an instant, I had mixed feelings and couldn't say what I felt!
With a kind smile on her face, my aunt poured water and fruit for me, and it could be seen that she was also accompanied by 10,000 careful.
I held back the sourness in my heart and didn't let the tears flow. Hold back the anger in your heart and don't burst out. I took a sip and said, pretending to be something, and fled in a hurry!
My dear poor mother, the home you have run all your life has been occupied by others, and some people have taken the mango and kiwi fruit you have never seen as ordinary fruits, and some people have already worn the cashmere sweater that you are reluctant to wear......
On the way home, I cried all the way. Angry mother's worthlessness, angry father's affection. We can't guard what belongs to our mother.
Guard? Thinking of the word "guard", I stopped crying, turned the car around, and decided to go back to my father's house.
The car was driving fast, and my mood was very calm because I had an idea.
When I returned to my father's house, my father and aunt looked at me puzzled, and then asked me if I had left something behind. I motioned for them to come back to the house with me and sit down, I had something to say to them.
I sat cross-legged on the kang, looked at my father and said word by word: Father, we have no objection to you finding a nanny to take care of your life, but my mother's things, I turned my head and pointed at my aunt and said: She can't move! My mother's stuff, that's what our brothers and sisters think, and we can't let others spoil it.
The father muttered: It's a pity that your mother has so many clothes, for others to wear, people are still unlucky, your aunt doesn't dislike it, she just wore it, so she wore it, what is this?
What's there? I shouted loudly: In your heart, my aunt can replace my mother, but in our hearts, no one can replace my mother!
With that, I went straight to the ground, opened the cabinet, packed my mother's clothes, carried them into the trunk under the watchful eyes of my father and aunt, and walked away.
I just burned it, and I didn't give it to anyone else. I ran wildly, and the car was bumpy on the mountain road. I thought of the glaring gold necklace around my aunt's neck, and my hatred for my father deepened a little. Mother has worked hard all her life, and she has never bought a scarf for her mother, but now, just a nominal nanny for more than ten days, he is actually willing to spend five or six thousand yuan to please others!
Is it tolerable or unbearable!
I'll hit ** and let the five siblings go home next weekend.
Over the weekend, all six of them came in unison. I have decided to announce an important decision. Everyone looked at me and waited for me to speak. Didn't ask what it was. Because I have reported my father's crimes to them one by one, my proposal has been approved by them.
When I made the decision that my father's monthly salary would be taken over by my eldest brother, and then I would give my father 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses, except for my father, all five of them were expressionless and expressed their approval in silence.
After that, I added: My father's other money, saved up, and prepared for the marriage of the two brothers. I asked everyone if they had any opinions, and they all said it was reasonable.
After a long time, my father raised his head and said, "You are just afraid that I will give the money to my aunt, and I am not stupid, people serve me with all their heart, what do you want?" You can't be a man with a bad conscience!
With that, my father slammed the door and left. Leaving the six of us looking at each other. But none of us want to change our minds.
After that, my father's salary card was in the hands of my eldest brother, and my father was unwilling and couldn't help it, and we felt that the living expenses of 1,000 yuan per month should be enough for them to live.
A year passed quickly. My aunt and father lived as they could, and none of us wanted to go back to that motherless home. I heard from relatives that my father was red and in good spirits. We are all relieved, too.
One day, the fourth sister went back to the village and had something to do, so she had to pull me back with her. To be honest, I also want to go back and see for myself what kind of life my father lived.
After less than two hours of driving, we returned to the village, and the first time we stepped into the courtyard, we were stunned: the small courtyard was divided into a dozen vegetable beds, planted with all kinds of vegetables. Even the brick cracks back to the house were not spared, and the bean seedlings were high and full of beans. The whole yard is full of purple eggplants, red tomatoes, green peppers, rape, bok choy, cabbage that has not yet been rounded, cucumbers with small yellow flowers, and all the vegetables we see every day. A patch of greenery, swaying in the summer breeze.
My aunt came out to greet us with a smile on her face, and my father followed suit, looking in good spirits. When we entered the house, the old furniture was polished and shiny, and the whole home felt very warm.
We sat down for a while, and my aunt took a big bag of vegetables from the vegetable garden to me and my fourth sister each, and we said we couldn't eat it, but she said let's take it, and my father also signaled us not to shirk anymore, because there were too many vegetables at home to eat.
Later, every two weeks, my father called us to go back, and every time the trunk of the six of us brothers and sisters was full of red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and purple.
After that, we don't need to be called by our father, we drag the family back every week, and after eating the authentic hometown meal made by my aunt, we play with the children in the yard, the breeze blows, and the garden is full of green ripples, which is called a pleasant.
When I left, the trunk was either vegetables or various beans, or fresh corn on the cob, and it was full anyway. Gradually, our innermost view of Auntie is quietly changing.
After a few years, when we went back, the trunk was: milk, eggs, meat, and when we came back, it was millet from the year, beans from the year, and tomato sauce made by my aunt in the autumn, dried beans, and pickled cucumbers.
Finally, one day, I took back my mother's big bag of clothes and handed them to my aunt, who smiled and didn't say anything and put them in the cupboard.
When I came home again, I saw that she looked much younger in her mother's dark green coat. The busy figure in the courtyard of her home made me feel like my mother was back again.
The six of us brothers and sisters took turns to go home, and we got together on holidays, and the house was full of our laughter. My father sat on the side, hehe, he didn't seem to grow old for a few years.
The two brothers married and had children one after another, and at the wedding banquet, she came to the stage as our mother and spoke. None of the six of us brothers and sisters felt inappropriate, but felt that if there was no aunt there, the wedding banquet of the two brothers would not be so perfect.
Conclusion: Losing our beloved mother, each of us will be somewhat hostile to another woman who appears next to our father, consciously or unconsciously.
Facts have proved that those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed.