1.19 Three dispositions.
I have friends all over the Mainland, Hong Kong, Macao, Taiwan and overseas, because I have three dispositions:
1. Be tolerant and generous.
Everyone who deals with me has a unanimous compliment, thinking that it is comfortable to deal with me, open-minded, and sincere, which is indeed one of my dispositions, because I have a philosophical mind: "The brook is murmuring, and the sea is turbulent; The grass is growing and the forest is lush." This requires being kind to others, making good connections, and making friends in our interactions with people. This is related to my worship of Sima Yi: "The minister has no enemies along the way, only the mentor and friends." It is this disposition that has enabled me to face many dangers and have noble people to help me, so as to be reborn.
2. Gentlemanly demeanor.
Gentlemanly demeanor is another of my qualities, and it has to do with the fact that my mother is a teacher. Under the influence of my family, I have developed a gentle, courteous and humble character, and as a practicing lawyer, I have been courteous and gentlemanly in my dealings with people from all walks of life. Among my friends who have dealt with me for decades, I have been unanimously praised for "rarely seeing a time of tantrums and outbursts." This is the ability to control emotions that I have cultivated since I was a child, that is, to always use reason to overcome emotional self-cultivation.
3. Forbearance and restraint.
Whether it is family or career, you need to be patient and restrained, and you need to be patient to do business. My first fight, second boil, third bo, and four have also driven a lot of peers, and they are very prevaricating to my forbearance and restraint This is Sima Yi's corpse tactics in the cemetery, as long as the funds, projects, resources, and technology are not in place, we must be patient and restrained.