We often hear parents sigh: "Why don't children like to read?" Xiao Wang, a 15-year-old junior high school student, has a different view on this. He said bluntly: "Actually, it's not that we don't like to read, but that we don't play enough, don't see enough widely, and more importantly, parents don't know how to play." ”
Xiao Wang is an exploratory child who is obsessed with all kinds of new things and likes to try different activities. He believes that the reason why today's children have lost interest in reading is largely because their lives are too monotonous and lack of diversified experiences. He said: "We go back and forth between school and home every day, except for studying, watching TV and playing with mobile phones, how can we have the opportunity to experience the colorful life? ”
Xiao Wang mentioned that many of his classmates have lost interest in reading, and they prefer to spend their time on electronic products. And he thinks it's because they haven't found a way to read that works for them. He said: "Everyone's interests are different, some people like to read, some people like to listen, and some people like to draw. If parents can understand our interests and guide us to find a way to read that suits us, perhaps we can rediscover our passion for reading. ”
Xiao Wang also pointed out that parents' attitudes and methods are also important factors affecting children's interest in reading. "A lot of parents only care about our academic performance, but they ignore our inner needs," he said. They always force us to read books that we are not interested in, how can such a reading experience make us enjoy reading? ”
Xiao Wang believes that parents should know their children better, respect their interests and hobbies, and guide them to discover and explore the unknown world. "Parents should be our playmates, try new things with us, and experience the joy of life together," he said. Only in this way can we discover new interests, find new goals, and strive for ourselves in the process of playing. ”
Xiao Wang called on parents to give their children more freedom and space, so that they have the opportunity to experience the colorful life and discover their own interests and hobbies. "It's only when we really know what we're fighting for that we can truly love reading, because we understand that reading is an important way for us to achieve our dreams," he said. ”
In this age of information, children face unprecedented challenges and opportunities. As parents, we should pay more attention to the inner needs of our children, guide them to discover and explore the unknown world, and let them find their own goals and motivation in the process of playing, and strive for themselves. Only in this way can we truly cultivate a new generation that loves reading and life.