The four major challenges of the rural singles problem, the true story reveals a sad scene
Unravel the mystery of the country bachelor.
Bachelors are a long-standing social problem, especially in the countryside. Single men are on the rise, and they feel lonely, anxious, and lack a sense of belonging. At present, China's "three rural" problems have not been effectively solved, especially in China's "three rural" problems, there are three "strange phenomena".
1. The difficult situation of rural women in China to get married.
The difficulties faced by rural women in marriage are a serious problem. As a large number of young men go to work in other places, it is becoming more and more difficult for rural women to choose a mate. For a long time, rural women have been in a situation of running away from home, unstable marriages, and some have even fallen into the dilemma of "fake marriage". In the process of pursuing happiness, women bear too much psychological burden and suffering. At present, the living conditions of rural women in China are not optimistic, and their rights and well-being should be paid more attention to and protected.
2. The loneliness and helplessness of the left-behind elderly.
As a new generation of migrant workers moves to the cities to work, the elderly left behind are gradually ignored by society. They are not cared for by their children, and they encounter all kinds of difficulties in life. The lack of peers makes left-behind children feel even more lonely, and they also face both physical and psychological challenges. This situation is painful for us, and it also shows that we do not care enough about the elderly.
3. The development of rural education is relatively backward.
There is a big gap between the development of rural education in China and that in urban areas, and this is a problem that cannot be ignored. The poor quality of teachers, poor school conditions, and the inability of traditional education concepts to meet the requirements of the times are the main factors restricting the development of rural children. There is a large gap between their educational attainment and that of urban children, which further deepens educational inequality between rural and urban areas. This not only has a great negative effect on the healthy development of rural children, but also has a great hindrance to the overall development of rural areas.
The connotation is extended, and the questions become richer and more vivid. 1.Situation of rural women who have difficulty getting married:
Rural women are limited in their choice of mates, which is related to their own happiness and to the stability and future of society as a whole. They have to bear the pressure of getting married and the criticism from society. There was a country girl who, with her pure ideals of love, had to give up her happiness in the end. As she walked to her distant and unfamiliar in-laws' house, her eyes filled with tears of helplessness and sadness. This is a sad situation, and we need to fight for more autonomy and choice for them.
2. The loneliness and helplessness of the left-behind elderly.
The left-behind elderly, in the torrent of time, is a silent passerby, shouldering the glory and burden of a family. Whenever the sun sets, the old people in the countryside will stay at home alone, looking back on the past days, always with nostalgia and expectation for their children. However, the busyness of young people, and the lack of social interaction, make the elderly more and more distant from themselves, and this loneliness will only get stronger. In order to enable the left-behind elderly to have dignity and warmth in their old age, we must care more and accompany each other.
3. The level of rural education is backward
The backwardness of the countryside has deprived a large number of rural children of the opportunity to receive a better education. Some of them are in humble classrooms, with a tattered textbook in their hands, looking forward to using their wisdom to light up their future. However, due to the lack of high-quality teaching resources, they are struggling to pursue their studies. We should pay attention to education in rural areas and provide them with more opportunities and expectations so that they can have the same opportunities for development as children in cities.
Personal Summary. Through the analysis of the "four difficulties" of "bachelors", we can see that China's rural areas are currently in a dilemma. A series of peculiar problems, such as women's marriage difficulties, difficulties in raising the left-behind elderly, and lagging rural education, highlight the major difficulties faced by the development of rural society. It is hoped that the whole society will give more care and support to this, and jointly make its own modest contribution to rural construction. Only by working together will the future of the countryside be brighter.