Women's Responsibilities and Family Values
In the 40 years since the founding of the People's Republic of China, the bride price has not become an issue of marriage. However, we can't help but ask, are these two generations of women really not getting the dignity in marriage? Grandma and grandma, mother's sisters, are they not clothed and eaten because of the lack of bride price? Did these two generations of women grow up begging on the streets? Some women in this era, compared with grandmothers, mothers, and sisters, have evolved breeds, dignified conduct, or paid more attention to female dignity?
Some contemporary women face five soul tortures, one of which is about family ability. Some people question whether they can really be like their grandmothers and mothers, who can go to both the hall and the kitchen. To be able to go to the hall, not only with a face, but also with the ability and deeds of a housewife. However, some women in modern times seem to have deteriorated in their housework skills, and may spend more time on themselves than on the family.
Some people have questioned the ability to take care of themselves, arguing that this generation of women has regressed significantly in basic self-care. For these women, it sometimes seems that they can't even cook a decent meal on their own, let alone cook a decent meal. It seems that the role of providing for their families and giving love has become an unfair requirement for them.
The third soul torture involves the attitude of these women towards their families and children. Some contemporary women seem to be more concerned about protecting their personal interests than about their families and children. Question whether they identify with the family in their hearts, and whether they only position themselves as the function of procreation, rather than the builder and guardian of the family.
The understanding of the sense of security of some women in modern times has also become the focus of torture. In their value system, a title deed seems to give a greater sense of security than a marriage deed. However, we can't help but wonder why the addition and change of name of the title deed is more important to them than the legal security of the marriage certificate. Does this reflect contemporary women's distrust of marriage and their readiness for divorce?
Finally, some people questioned the true original intention of marriage in this era. Today, when divorce has become the norm in marriage, we need to reflect on the true original intention of marriage. If marriage is not meant to grow old together, then who will truly protect this commitment?
In conclusion, the soul torture faced by some contemporary women has led to a deep reflection on women's responsibilities and family concepts. We should not simply criticize, but understand the social environment and values in which they live. In the changing times, we need to share the true meaning of family and marriage in order to establish a healthier, equal and respectful family concept.
As a woman, I feel a great responsibility. An ancient adage echoes in my heart: "Look at whether a society is civilized, and see if women have a clean female style of self-respect and self-love." "I sincerely hope that our generation of women can maintain a sense of femininity, not only to protect the family and the country, but also to protect the warm family. What are your thoughts on this issue? Share your thoughts in the comments section. Women's Responsibilities and Family Values