When we talk about love, we always have expectations and fantasies. I long for a beautiful and lasting relationship, and I hope that my sincere efforts will not be in vain. However, in this fast-paced, ephemeral era of love, simply investing in it does not guarantee a true emotional return.
A man's cheating can be divided into two situations: one is that a good man temporarily loses himself, and the other is that he cheats in a fun life. In either case, betrayal is intolerable in the world of love, especially for women with good hearts, and the betrayal of an intimate partner can be like a fatal blow. Men who are prone to relationships usually possess the following three characteristics:
Only talk about ambiguity and not feelings
Venus once said: "If you love, you will love deeply, and if you don't love, you will give up." These words reveal the illusion and pain of an ambiguous relationship. Ambiguity may be the starting point of love, but the person who really likes you will not let the relationship stay ambiguous, let alone easily get involved with others. If a man only talks about ambiguity and not feelings, he does not love you, and is likely to maintain a similarly ambiguous relationship with others, or even have a relationship.
I have a friend who has a story that is very revealing about this. She met a handsome guy on the Internet, quickly developed a crush on each other, and started chatting. When the boy celebrates his birthday, he carefully prepares gifts every year, and he gladly accepts them, and the two eat and watch movies together like a couple in love. However, when trying to advance their relationship, the boy avoided it with the excuse that he had just broken up and hadn't come out yet. Despite continuing to date, when asked about the relationship between the two again, the boy suddenly lost contact and deleted her WeChat friends.
He Jiong once said: "Whether a man likes you or not, you can see from his eyes, he is eager to tie you, how can he be cold and hot, near and far." "If you take ambiguity as true love, you will only gain more than you lose in the end. Love is a one-way street, and people who truly love you don't look left and right.
Lack of responsibility and responsibility
They always pass the buck and never take responsibility for their actions. complaining about your partner's incompetence when work is not going well; When you are in a bad mood, blame your partner for not being able to meet your demands; Even simple household chores are disliked. These men tend to be in the majority of cheating groups. They focus only on their own happiness, have no sense of responsibility for the family, are unwilling to take on obligations, and often neglect their wives and children.
Chen Daoming once said: "Marriage will inevitably have ups and downs, but the key is whether you can take action and have self-control." "Everyone has the right to pursue true love when choosing a partner, and after entering marriage, in addition to love, it is more important to be responsible and faithful. We need to stay away from those who are not responsible for their families and only pursue their own desires and interests.
I just want to make a profit, and I don't want to pay
A man who really likes you will spontaneously be good to you and give selflessly, instead of weighing the gains and losses and calculating the benefits. To like someone means to be willing to give for her, not just to be courteous when it is profitable and to disappear when it comes to self-interest.
In the play "Thirty Only", Wang Manni met Liang Zhengxian, a wealthy businessman. Leung Ching-yin cared for her, created romance, and even gave her generous gifts, which made her fall for it. However, when she proposed marriage, Liang Zhengxian refused and declared that he did not believe in marriage. She later realized that the love she threw herself into was just a game in the hands of Liang Zhengxian. Liang Zhengxian only cares about his own satisfaction and interests, and does not care about her feelings and thoughts.
True love is not about how much the other person has done for themselves, but how much they are willing to pay for the other person. If a man really likes you, he will treat you well regardless of everything, not just in front of interests. True love means giving, not reciprocating.
True love is about giving the other person freedom and peace of mind.
Love is like water, cold and warm self-knowing.
Whether we harbor beautiful fantasies about love, or experience betrayal and pain, we should remain vigilant and not easily get hurt. In these fast-paced and ever-changing times, true love is precious, and we should have a truly balanced and respectful relationship.