In this era of information, we often hear all kinds of voices. Among them, there are some derogatory and negative remarks. These remarks sometimes come from strangers, sometimes from familiar people, and even sometimes from people we consider to be friends.
These voices can make us feel frustrated, lost, and even doubt ourselves. Whenever someone encounters this kind of thing, I will think of the sentence of teacher Li Xiaoyi: "Don't believe too much in the words that belittle you". Because a true friend will objectively point out our shortcomings when we make mistakes, rather than denying our character altogether.
Putting you in a demeaning way could also be a deliberate attempt to undermine your self-confidence. We have to believe in our own abilities and values, everyone has their own uniqueness and brilliance, and these strengths and traits cannot be easily denied by others. Even if others don't think highly of you, it doesn't mean that you are worthless. Instead, be more courageous in pursuing your dreams and goals. Only in this way can you show the brightest light on the stage of life.
Your value is not defined by other people's evaluations, and even if we are taught from an early age to learn to accept other people's evaluations and suggestions, we should not let them dictate our self-perception and values.
Let's all remember this saying: "Don't pay too much attention to demeaning your words, because your worth is not defined by others." "Let us meet every challenge with confidence and courage on the road of life, and walk out of a wonderful life of our own.