What is the most disgusting way for girls to pick up a conversation?
The most disgusting ways for girls to pick up people are often those that seem too direct, abrupt, and disrespectful of other people's privacy or space. These behaviors can make girls feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, or even threatened.
1. Ask for *** directly
When many boys are accosted, they will directly step forward and ask for the girl's ***, which often makes the girl feel that her personal space has been violated. Asking for *** without the other person's consent not only seems disrespectful, but it can also make the girl think that you are a person who is not good at handling interpersonal relationships.
2. Excessively abrupt language.
Some guys may use overly direct or abrupt language when accosting them, such as "You're so pretty, can you get to know you?" This kind of opening statement may make the girl feel that you are judging her aesthetically, rather than genuinely trying to get to know her. In addition, overly abrupt language can also make a girl think that you are a person who lacks manners and culture.
3. Lack of respect for privacy.
When accosting, if the boy does not respect the girl's privacy, such as insisting on asking even when she clearly says she does not want to disclose personal information or take pictures, then this behavior is likely to turn the girl off. Respecting other people's privacy and personal space is the foundation of a good relationship, so it's important to pay attention to this when picking up people.
Fourth, there is a lack of sincerity and common topics.
Girls may also be offended if they appear insincere or have no common ground in the conversation they are accosted. For example, if a guy just compliments her on her appearance or keeps asking for her personal information, without showing his true personality and interests, it is easy for the girl to think that you are trying to perfunctory her. On the contrary, if the boy can show his sincerity and common topic, such as sharing some interesting experience or asking the girl about her interests, then the success rate of the conversation will be greatly increased.
5. Disrespecting the wishes of girls.
When accosting, if the boy does not respect the girl's wishes, such as after she clearly says she is not interested or refuses, then this behavior is likely to cause the girl to feel distressed and upset. Respecting a girl's wishes is an important prerequisite for building a healthy interpersonal relationship, so you must learn to be observant and respectful of your choices when talking to them.
6. Lack of self-confidence and expressiveness.
Although self-confidence and expressiveness are one of the most important factors in attracting girls, overconfidence or lack of self-confidence can be off-putting for girls. If the guy is too nervous or unnatural when accosting you, the girl may think that you are a person who lacks self-confidence. And if the guy is overconfident or even arrogant, then the girl may think that you are an arrogant person. Therefore, boys need to maintain a moderate amount of confidence and expressiveness when accosting them, both to show their charm and to respect the girl's feelings.
To sum up, the most disgusting pick-up styles for girls are usually those that appear too direct, abrupt, disrespectful of others' privacy or space, lack of sincerity and common topics, disrespect for the girl's wishes, and lack of self-confidence and expressiveness. In order to avoid these situations, boys should be polite and respectful when accosting, look for common topics and interests, respect the girl's wishes and choices, and show moderate confidence and expressiveness. Only in this way can we build healthy, equal and respectful interpersonal relationships. At the same time, we also need to realize that pick-up is only the beginning of the relationship, and the real key lies in the subsequent interaction and communication. Therefore, after a successful conversation, the boy needs to continue to work hard to establish in-depth contact and interaction with the girl in order to truly win the favor and trust of the girl.