Middle age is no longer the frivolity and ignorance of youth, but the wisdom and calmness precipitated by the years. Say goodbye to the ignorance and impulsiveness of your youth, and begin to look at the world with a deeper gaze, and measure the path of life with a firmer pace. At this stage, what is pursued is no longer flashy appearance, but more attention is paid to inner abundance and spiritual abundance. Many people have learned to cherish, understand gratitude, and understand the importance of responsibility and responsibility. Instead of losing yourself in order to please others, you should be brave enough to be yourself and live as you are. When people reach middle age, they are like a glass of aged wine, exuding a mellow aroma that attracts people to savor it. When people reach middle age, the biggest gain is to understand that they should stop being cheap people. 
01.No more lowly to ask for the favor of othersWhen we are young, in order to eat or to be liked by everyone, we may often have to bite the bullet to please others. But when you reach middle age, you have to be a little backbone, don't cater to others so bottomlessly. The more you are like this, the less people take you seriously. In middle age, we should learn to say "no" and learn to stick to our principles and positions. Knowing how many pounds and taels you have, refuse when you should refuse, and insist when you should insist. In this way, others will respect you more and feel that you are a principled person with a bottom line. 
02.No more passing the time with boring thingsTime is such a thing, if you cherish it, it will give you a reward; You waste it, and it's gone. Middle-aged people's time is even more precious, stop swiping your mobile phone, watching TV, and playing mahjong all day long. It doesn't do much additional good other than making you emptier and more boring. Instead of spending time, find something meaningful to do, such as learning something new, working out, watching a movie with your family, and visiting the park. In this way, you can not only enrich yourself, but also let your family feel your warmth and companionship, and life will be delicious. 
03.No more dealing with feelings in a childish wayFeelings are complicated and complex, and simple is simple. But no matter what, middle-aged people should learn to be mature and stop using pediatric methods such as cold war, evasion, and lying to solve problems. This will only make the problem worse and worse, even to the point of being out of control. Learn to communicate, understand, tolerate and cherish. If you have anything to say, say it clearly, don't hide it; If there is something wrong with the other party, try to understand and tolerate it; It is more important to cherish the time and affection with each other. In this way, the relationship can be more stable and long-lasting. When people reach middle age, they have to live a little "extravagant", don't be so "cheap" anymore. Have a little bit of your own principles and bottom line, and know how to cherish time and deal with feelings. This kind of life is more interesting and worthwhile. Middle age is not the end of life, but the beginning. With the understanding of the past, move forward bravely, and you will definitely gain more.