In life, don't care too much.
The Argentine writer Jorge Borges famously said, "Excessive hope naturally produces extreme disappointment."
This sentence speaks to a truth of life, that is, people, in fact, are most afraid of having too high expectations, but encountering a cruel reality.
Life is actually full of variables, and life is also full of challenges.
Only by learning to lower expectations and know how not to care can we have an open-minded attitude and a calm attitude to face the present.
In the end, we can truly live our lives, cherish the moment, and enjoy life. 
Don't be nosy
People, don't meddle in your business. Because once you meddle in your own affairs, you will not only waste your time, but also easily get into trouble.
Everyone's time is precious, everyone has their own life, and if you are always nosy, it will interfere with your quality of life. If you want to live your life well, you must learn to focus or stay focused.
For example, only by devoting time and energy to our work and career can we achieve higher results and achieve higher progress. In the end, I became more capable, and I was able to reap satisfactory results in related careers.
On the contrary, if you always scatter your time and energy on others, meddle in things at every turn, and even worry about things that cannot be changed and people who cannot be understood. Then, meddling becomes a habit, and it is more difficult for us to get rid of it, and it can even be said that it is out of control. People have to be able to do it, selectively remember, and at the same time selectively forget.
Only in this way, when we can be open-minded, broad-minded, and broad-minded, we will naturally not meddle in things, but pay more attention to our own quality of life.
Don't pay attention to idlers
A person only becomes truly open-minded, optimistic, indifferent, or even cares about anything anymore, is the time for him.
We all have the experience that the more a person wants something, the less he gets. On the contrary, when you learn to let go, know how to let go, and even become no longer caring, the opportunity comes.
In fact, we can also imagine that when a person is in a hurry, or even only staring at the result, he will not spend time and energy in the process, and even if there is, the efficiency is very low. Only by maintaining a relaxed state, whether it is success or failure, you will not have fluctuations, but be prepared for it fairly smoothly.
Then, in the process of implementation, ignore the idlers, do not care about the gains and losses, and concentrate on the work at hand wholeheartedly. Eventually, we will be able to create a miracle on our own. Society is changing, people's hearts are changing, for important people, we should indeed learn to cherish, need to maintain the relationship with each other, and even when necessary, desperately protect, it is also a kind of happiness.
However, for those idlers, for those who take advantage of small advantages, for those who perfunctory themselves, ignore them, ignore them, and even communicate with them as necessary.
Learn not to care, not to have expectations, and there will be no unnecessary disappointment.
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Learn not to care
In life, for things that you can't control, you have to learn to accept and let go.
Similarly, for those who can't love, they should also go with the flow and let go. There is no way through unless your heart is blocked. A lot of times, learn not to care, try to make a change of mind, make yourself brave, turn away, and everything will be relieved.
The biggest problem of people is that they are too easy to care about this, too easy to care about that. In fact, accept your own ordinariness, but also tolerate the ordinariness of others, let go of all dissatisfaction, and be unwilling. Only in this way can our minds be truly at peace, quiet, stable, and balanced.
Just like Mr. Yang Jiang once said: We were so eager for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart.
We have been so anxious for recognition from the outside world, only to realize in the end that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.
Learn to let go, learn to lower expectations, and even learn not to care and ignore them, so that you can walk your own path and live your own life. -end-
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