You may sometimes wonder why it is always difficult to win the favor of high-quality men even though you are not bad in all aspects.
And those women who are much worse than themselves have been pursued by many men.
In fact, whether the opposite sex is good or not does not mean whether a person's charm is high or not.
Because if all you attract around you are "rotten peach blossoms", it is useless.
I once heard a saying: "Really good people don't have many people of the opposite sex around them." ”
That's because they will have a sense of luxury, and it is this sense of luxury that makes it difficult for low-quality men to get close.
They understand that it is difficult for them to conquer such a woman, only for the sake of appreciation.
So what kind of woman is senior?
1. Self-confidence, calmness, independence
Nowadays, the status of women is getting higher and higher, and everyone has begun to pursue their careers and lives.
Therefore, a high-level woman often has self-confidence and independence.
They don't rely too much on men, but maintain a clean posture to pursue their ideals.
The calmness and grace they show in life make men fall for it.
It's not like the saying goes, "Men like to be challenging." ”
When you don't set your eyes on men and are not interested in them, they will naturally set their eyes on you.
It's like a scale, if you're missing something, they'll make up for it.
Second, the intellectual elegance is rich in connotation
What women are most afraid of is that they only have appearances, but no connotations.
A high-class woman in the eyes of a man must have ink in her heart and be able to navigate easily on all occasions.
It is easy for them to leave a deep impression on people, and in addition to paying attention to themselves, they will also pay attention to literature, art and other aspects.
Their conversation is decent, their manners are elegant, and they make people feel a noble temperament.
In my circle of friends, there is a woman who is intellectually elegant and rich in connotation.
She is a well-known lawyer who enjoys reading, traveling, and gourmet food.
Every time I talk to her, I am attracted to her intellectuality.
She always thinks from different angles when dealing with problems, which brings me a lot of inspiration.
She belongs to the type, which is very enviable and difficult for ordinary people to control, because they are well-informed and have a clear view of many things, including feelings.
3. Be empathetic, caring and considerate
Senior women know how to care and be considerate of others, they are good at reading words and feelings, and they can think from the other person's point of view.
When she gets along with men, she is able to make men feel warm.
In the unit where I work, there is a very popular female colleague.
She always cares about everyone, she will give everyone patient advice at work, and she will care about everyone's life after work, for example, if anyone has a cold, she will give the medicine she bought to the other party; Whoever didn't eat breakfast today, she will give some to the other party and so on.
She is the kind of existence that can be warm to the other party in winter, but her goodness will make people feel that no one can match her, which is also a different kind of sense of luxury.
Fourth, think independently and dare to express
Senior women have the ability to think independently, they dare to express their opinions and opinions, and they do not blindly follow others.
In the process of interacting with people, they understand their own ideas very well and dare to face their own shortcomings.
In this world, there are actually many people who are not assertive, so that it is really troublesome when they encounter problems.
But there are some women who know how to express themselves very well, and the ideas they put forward are always just right.
It's like everyone is like an ant on a hot pot, when she doesn't know how to solve a difficult situation, she suddenly puts forward constructive suggestions, and everyone will think she is very powerful.
Of course, if these people include men, then this man will feel that his ability is not comparable to that of the other party, so that he does not dare to bother too much.
After all, if they want to fall in love with such a woman, they need to pay a lot of costs, and now it is fast-food love, and women are difficult to handle, so they are naturally reluctant to get close.
Although, becoming a high-level woman will not attract many men, but a high-level woman can have a more advanced life, and if she meets love, she will also be a high-quality man.
Because your emotional circle is very clean, if a man comes to pursue you, then he must be very confident.
A person's self-confidence is often linked to factors such as his living environment, life experience, and his own conditions.
If he is of high quality, then your relationship success rate will be much higher.
Women, you should still live a more advanced life, because this is a good way to help you filter out the "rotten peach blossoms".