The ambiguous behavior of the opposite sex is often indefinite.
For example, some people will feel that talking to a different ** is not ambiguous, but in the eyes of others, it is indeed ambiguous.
The ambiguity is very subtle, like a drizzle of moisturizing things, quietly coming, making people unconsciously attracted and unstoppable.
Ambiguous behavior between people of the opposite sex can be a gentle eye contact, casual physical contact, or a long conversation in the middle of the night, or the daily trivialities of caring for each other.
These seemingly insignificant actions can stir up a thousand waves in each other's hearts.
Under the cover of friendship, they are tempted and entangled with each other, but they are unwilling to take that last step.
This kind of entanglement and temptation is the most attractive part of ambiguous emotions.
Ambiguous emotions are different from love, without the vigor of love, but with the delicacy and tenderness of love.
Therefore, many people are always eager for ambiguity, hoping to feel the freshness of being separated in the ocean of ambiguity, but the result of long-term ambiguity is mostly tragedy, once the following ambiguous behaviors appear, we must be vigilant.
1. Gentle eye contact
Sometimes a look is enough to let people know that the relationship between the two is not simple.
The eyes of the normal opposite sex are pure, without any purpose, and even look at each other immediately.
But if two people are more ambiguous, they often look at each other affectionately.
It is said that the eyes are the most undeceivable senses, as long as you find that the eyes between the opposite sex are unusual, then they can basically conclude that there is an ambiguous relationship.
The unnaturalness between them will make the atmosphere ambiguous, as if there are many people together, but they only have each other in their eyes, and the goal is clear, so that people can distinguish it at a glance.
2. Inadvertent physical contact
In the case of a sudden contact between normal members of the opposite sex, both of them will be very embarrassed to say sorry.
But if the two inadvertently make physical contact, and the two don't react too much, but are tacitly shy, then there must be something wrong with the relationship between the two of them.
They do not reject contact with each other, and even enjoy it, indicating that one of them has a plan, and the other allows it.
All ambiguity in the world can only be realized because of the permission of both parties, and casual contact is the best way to create an ambiguous atmosphere.
It's like two people riding in a car together, one helping the other to fasten their seat belts, and the casual contact makes each other excited.
3. Long talk in the middle of the night
Ambiguity starts with chatting, and even if you are a good friend of the opposite sex, you won't talk for a long time late at night.
This happens because both parties have a good impression of each other and want to develop more deeply.
You must know that at night, people's emotions will reach their peak, and when two people talk late at night, it will bring each other's hearts closer together, and there will be a feeling of wanting to be with each other strongly.
And when chatting, it was difficult for the two to tell whether this was an ordinary chat or an ambiguous one.
Some people may just think that it's just a night chat, and it's nothing.
But from his partner's point of view, this is ambiguous, he changed what he should have done with his lover for a person, and gave all the emotional value that should be provided to the opposite sex.
Fourth, the daily trivialities of caring for each other
When the opposite sex is fine, they will not care about each other at will, let alone send daily trivialities every day, even if they are good friends of the opposite sex.
Because in the relationship between people, it can be said that there is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, and they can make daily trivialities every day, which is actually a kind of ambiguity, and one of them must want to develop.
If you are in this situation and still feel that your relationship with a person of the opposite sex is pure friendship, then there is no doubt that there is a high probability that the other party likes you, so they will always care about you.
Especially for adults, they need to work and live, time is precious, and it is a blessing to be able to take the time to chat with you, and if an adult always takes the initiative to care about you, then the relationship between the two must not be simple.
Opposite-sex ambiguity is not advisable, although short-term ambiguity can make two single people feel in love.
can be ambiguous for a long time, uncertain relationship, will only make the relationship lost; There are also those ambiguities that should not exist, which are often only the culprits of destroying the original feelings.
The ambiguous behavior of the opposite sex is actually obvious, and if you are a bystander, you can basically make it clear at a glance.
Maybe they don't want to admit it, but you have to trust your instincts.
Because everyone has their own magnetic field, and their magnetic field already makes you feel different, that only proves that they already have feelings, but they are hidden.