Text: Zhou Peng. Love, like pen and paper, can be together to give life more meaning.
From falling in love with each other to entering marriage, no matter how good the relationship is, there will be a run-in period.
Because each other has personalities, different shortcomings and habits, we need to slowly adapt to each other, and gradually understand and tolerate each other.
A beautiful relationship depends on the management of two people, as well as the continuous fine-tuning of the mode of getting along with each other, so that love can flow for a long time.
Hayao Miyazaki wrote in "Listening Closely": "Because of you, I want to become a better person, I don't want to be a burden to you, so I work hard, just to prove that I am worthy of you." ”There is no couple that is 100% compatible from the start. They all went from incomprehension to reconciliation, from non-support to compromise, to tacit understanding.
Whether two people can be "tacitly compatible" partners lies in two key points.
Once, my colleague and I were on a business trip and only booked a ticket to get home in the middle of the night.
After getting out of the car, my colleague walked into the 24-hour convenience store.
He said that his wife was **, he had been working the night shift for a week, and he was finally able to sleep well, and now he went home for fear of waking his wife. He ate as much as he could, then found an inn to rest and waited until dawn before going back.
Within five minutes, he saw his wife driving over with a thick down jacket in her hand and some food.
His wife said that she was afraid that he would come back in the middle of the night, and that he would be cold and hungry, and it would be difficult to take a taxi, so she came to pick him up.
The two of them have been married for ten years, and they are still so affectionate, which is really enviable.
To manage love, you must first have a positive attitude.
If two people are together, can empathize with each other, and think from each other's point of view, then they will become more tacit with each other.
"Naruto" wrote: "Life has no meaning, but if you are alive, you may encounter interesting things, just like you met the flower, just like I met you." ”There is a tacit understanding of the couple, you are afraid that he will not take care of himself, and he wants to think about everything for him.
And he wants to give you a better life, taking into account your feelings everywhere.
You are willing to eat and sleep in the open air, run around and work hard to create a more beautiful home for her. She feels sorry for your dedication, cares about your body, and hopes that you will be well fed and clothed, and don't work so hard.
Two people together never skimp on giving.
Couples with tacit understanding are willing to change the trajectory of each other's lives, modify some principles and bottom lines, change plans for him, and let the relationship between two people develop better.
Love is mutual, willing to think about each other, get along tacitly, and live a happier life.
Han Shangyan in "Dear, Loved", he only wants to play, and feels that there is only one thing in this world, and that is to win the championship.
After falling in love with Tong Nian, he regarded her as the most important person in his heart.
Afraid that Tong Nian would misunderstand him and be ambiguous with other women, he would take Tong Nian with him when he went out to train.
And Tong Nian, in order to get closer to him, watch his games, understand his past, and hope that he can reconcile with his past friends and get everyone's support and understanding.
She is more like Han Shangyan's "spokesperson", letting others know that under Han Shangyan's "cold face", she has a fiery heart.
Knowing that Han Shangyan was short of money, she took out all her savings for him. Knowing that everyone is nervous about training, I specially bought a very expensive coffee machine to make coffee for everyone to relieve fatigue and refresh their minds.
It is precisely because they rush to give that their love for each other becomes deeper.
The tacit understanding is the product of the continuous run-in between two people, and it is a proof of mutual love.
Only when we understand each other, respect each other, are willing to give up some pride and stubbornness for each other, and become more and more soft, can the relationship be more stable.
Robert Frost said, "I may tell you, don't get married, unless you can't help it, unless you're fascinated by it." Unless you're obsessed with it, that's what life is all about. ”If you really love someone, you don't think about right or wrong, and you don't think about gains and losses.
I don't have the time to calculate who loves more, but I just subconsciously treat him well, and I am willing to give everything. In this way, love can go a long way.
Love is a "verb" that requires two people to give constantly.
You are willing to share interesting stories in life, and I am willing to soothe your wounded heart with the gentlest words.
I am willing to give all my money in exchange for your inner peace, and you are also willing to give time and effort to make this home bright and clean, full of red dust and fire.
Each other, they are actively giving, maintaining the love between each other.
Then, in the long years, they will get along more and more harmoniously and happily.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.