My husband went out to earn money, and my boss asked me to be his girlfriend, and I made a condition, and he forced me to resign
My name is Gao Juan and I am 35 years old this year. I have been married to my husband Zhao Fuhai for ten years, and we have a son and a daughter.
Our love story is quite simple, and Zhao Fuhai once pursued me for three whole years. He first touched my parents, and with their persuasion, I finally agreed to spend my life with him.
After a year of love, we entered the palace of marriage. After marriage, life was plain and stable, and we worked together to support our children and the elderly.
This year, Zhao Fuhai was recommended by a friend and was transferred to work in other places. Actually, I'm very supportive of that. The family's financial situation made it difficult for us to make ends meet, and it was wisest for him to go out and earn money.
At the same time, the longer we spent together, the more we got along with each other. He needs my care like an uncle, and he hardly cares about household matters.
As soon as he was gone, my life became more peaceful. There is no longer a need to serve him, household chores are much easier, and daily meals can be simpler. On top of that, his friends who drank and drank meat would never visit his home again.
Every time he brought his friends home for a drink, I was so busy that I couldn't lose my temper, I was so tired!
I work as a clerk in a local private company, and although my income is not high, I can barely afford to take care of my children and the elderly.
The friends around me, except for my husband who is still guarding the iron rice bowl locally, everyone else has chosen to work hard in other places, and there are relatively many women who stay behind. In desperation, the local industry is limited and wages are low, and if you don't go out to earn a living, the pressure of life will become overwhelming.
After my husband left, I spent more time with my children in addition to work. Life is simple, but it is also boring. Family and company, but the two places are the same line, which constitutes the picture of my life today.
At nine o'clock in the morning, I was called to the office by the company's manager Wang, and he said to me: "Gao Juan, there is a party tonight, you can go with me." ”
I did not hesitate to refuse: "Manager, there are a lot of young colleagues, and it may not be appropriate for me to go." ”
Manager Wang looked at me and said with a smile: "You are good at socializing, you know how to deal with occasions, you are also good-looking, and you are married, so it is very beneficial for us to talk about work together to participate in this entertainment." ”
Actually, I wasn't interested in the proposal, because to socialize meant drinking, so I tried to explain: "Manager, I'm just an ordinary clerk, and I'm not very good at socializing." ”
Manager Wang said mercilessly: "There is no room for negotiation, wait for me after work, let's go together, otherwise your salary will be deducted." ”
In desperation, I could only reluctantly nod in agreement. In the workplace, sometimes it's really involuntary.
After work, I took Manager Wang's car to the hotel.
The customers arrived quickly, and after the greetings, we began to eat and drink.
Business negotiation is all about pursuing the greatest benefit, and both parties take what they need. That's all that has been said, what should be said has been said, what should be conceded has been given, and the negotiations are basically over.
In order to make my customers feel valued, I kept toasting and saying good things, but luckily I was still a good drinker, otherwise I would have collapsed long ago.
After a meal, the customer left satisfied, and the contract was signed.
After sending off the customer, Manager Wang praised me: "Your ability to entertain is really amazing, follow me to socialize in the future!" ”
I know that this is not my personal credit, because the two sides have agreed before, and I am at best the icing on the cake.
Manager, you're so rewarded, and it wouldn't have been possible if it weren't for the hard work of you and other colleagues. I don't have credit for it, and I'm not very good at it. ”
No, you will have to socialize with me in the future, and your salary will be doubled. ”
My heart was moved to understand that in this society, money is indeed crucial. So I responded with a smile: "Manager, once you say it, it's hard to chase the horse." ”
When I got home, I drank a glass of honey water to sober up. Life is a long road, because of money, I gradually see through the warmth and coldness of people.
When wealth rolls in, it is always crowded with family and friends. But when you are penniless and borrow money from others, you realize the impact of money on your feelings.
In this process, Manager Wang became my regular social partner, always present to block my alcohol, so that I would not be too drunk. Our relationship also became more and more intimate, and I had the impression of him as a personable and decent gentleman, albeit a little fat and greasy.
My family members are aware of my frequent social interactions, so they help me take care of my children, and my husband is always concerned about me, advising me to drink less alcohol and emphasizing my health first.
Even though I had a lot of money, I thought it was very good, and I didn't have much physical problems. After a social meeting, Manager Wang invited me to a teahouse to chat over tea. He said, "Gao Juan, you have talked about a lot of projects for the company during this time, and I am grateful to you. As you know, I am in a long-distance marriage and lack someone to take care of me. ”
Although I was aware of Mr. Wang's family situation, he suddenly mentioned this, which made me feel a little confused.
Manager, why don't you bring your sister-in-law over and make it easier for the family to be together. ”
Manager Wang shook his head: "No, there are too many contradictions together." ”
He suddenly took out a card and handed it to me: "There is 100,000 yuan in this card, you can use it." ”
I was quite surprised: "Manager, the commission you gave is already very high, I really can't ask for this money." ”
You take it, this is a welcome gift, and there will be more of them together in the future. ”
I roughly understood what he meant, so I said, "That's not good, we're all married, and we should have a bottom line." ”
Manager Wang said with a smile: "In today's society, how many people really have a bottom line, and there are many people who step on multiple boats. In contrast, I'm at least above board. ”
There is something bad in my heart, although society has changed, I still stick to the bottom line of marriage.
But I can't offend Manager Wang, I can only say: "Manager, I like to be above board." If you really want to be with me, then divorce and marry me, the house, the car, the bride price is the same, and you should treat my children like your own. ”
Manager Wang was a little embarrassed: "You are breaking the rules." ”
I said, "Manager, it's you who can't do it, it's not that I'm rejecting you." I'm willing to take the risk of infamy and homelessness, but you'll have to take care of my worries. ”
Manager Wang glanced at me angrily: "I hope you won't regret it." ”
Watching Manager Wang leave, I knew he was angry. But people are always selfish, and in order to fight for their own interests, I defend myself, what's wrong?
Although my relationship with my husband is uneventful, I have children and parents, and for me, the bottom line and dignity of marriage are untouchable. If my family breaks up because of financial interests, how will I deal with my children and parents?
The next day, my job was restructured and I became a small staff member of the archives.
As time went on, I experienced a change of position again, from a small employee to a front desk in the company lobby.
Of course, this was followed by a sharp drop in salaries. I know very well that this is deliberately done by Manager Wang, and I hope that I can recognize the predicament and comply with his requirements.
Although I didn't take the initiative to go to Manager Wang, he didn't give up, but asked me to work as a cleaner or resign voluntarily.
I never expected that he was so narrow-minded and short-sighted, and the reason why the company could not grow was because of his handiwork. Although I am unemployed, I know in my heart that I am in a particularly happy mood to stay away from this villain.
The moment I walked out of the company, it was as if I was relieved of my burden. Although he is temporarily unemployed at the moment, he is free from the entanglement of villains, and his heart is relaxed and happy.
To my surprise, some of our clients contacted me when they found out about my departure and invited me to join their companies. It made me feel so happy that life didn't seem to give up on me.
Society is changing, but the essence of humanity remains the same. We should uphold a certain bottom line and dignity in dealing with people, especially when it comes to marriage, we should stick to the principles of marriage and not destroy our own and others' families. Even if the relationship is weak, we can choose to break up with dignity instead of becoming a much-criticized "little three".
When we are unfaithful to our marriage, we lose our dignity and trust in the eyes of others. Others may have a relationship with us for a while, but this relationship cannot last long, because our fault makes everyone worry that we may make mistakes again. When dealing with relationship issues, keep your bottom line in mind so that you don't regret it for life.