ChinaWhat is the happiness of a female sexless marriage?
Women usually have two favorite topics, talking about money with the poor (because feelings seem worthless); Talk to rich people about feelings (because wealth is not important to them).
Men usually have two favorite behaviors, pulling innocent women into the water, and persuading women to return to the right path. I remember a news I saw last year that told the story of a Ningbo woman.
She has been married for five years, but she has no sex with her husband at all. The story sheds light on some of the inequalities in real life and also makes us reflect on the roles and responsibilities of men and women in marriage.
I have remained a virgin because I have never experienced the sweetness of love. My husband has no feelings for me, and he won't even touch me. However, despite this, we entered the palace of marriage. ”
Five years later, he still ignored her with indifference, she wanted to end the marriage, but he insisted on keeping the house. His actions are shocking and outrageous.
When I saw this news, I was outraged. It's not just the bad behavior of men, it's the weakness of women that makes people feel sad. Sex is a woman's natural right, and in the face of the deprivation of this right, we should not accept it, let alone flatter and flatter without a bottom line.
However, the woman in this case is not the only one who suffers from sexless marriage. According to Pan Suiming, a sexology expert at the Chinese People's University, 21% of women in China are suffering from "sexless marriage".
That's a staggering number.
In China, one in five women is experiencing "asexuality". This phenomenon is not only a family problem, but also a social problem. So, what kind of marriage is considered a "sexless marriage"?
Sociologists believe that if a married or cohabiting man and woman have sex less than once a month, then it can be considered a "sexless marriage". On this topic, we often don't hear much about it because it's hard to talk about it.
However, as long as you go online and visit relevant forums, you will find many real-life examples. One of the most common types is that the husband is sexless and the wife is miserable. Even if the wife is teasing in every way, the husband will find various reasons to refuse, such as: "I'm too tired, forget it!" ”
I still have to work, it's too late! Why are you so self-respecting? ”…The reasons behind these rejections are varied, it may be that the other person has a physical problem, it may be that the sexual orientation is different from what you think, it may be having an affair, it may be too much stress, physical and mental anxiety, or it may be that you have completely lost your sexual interest ......
1. "Either way, it's cruel to the other. One digit ids'Widow'of women said that a mature woman has no sex and feels like life is worse than death.
Another woman said that after giving birth, there was no more. The two face each other silently in the dark, and the marriage becomes hollow. Others say that my husband is like an electric rod.
Alas, it's heart-wrenching to watch. We used to think that marriage was a full moon and a good harvest. But the reality is a mirage, which looks gorgeous and enthusiastic, but in reality it is empty...... nothingIn the morning or at dusk, you can't see the clouds in the sky, and you can't see the lights on the streets.
It's dark and gloomy, and you've made me wait here in a daze, expecting your love, expecting your kisses ......She pinned all her hopes on the arrival of a miracle, hoping that he would return one day, and with spring in her eyes, she said, "I want it!" ”
Then start a passionate fun of fish and water. But this tiny fantasy, in the cold and unforgiving reality, shatters like a cold joke. " 2. "Either way, it's extremely cruel to the other.
One digit ids'Widow'of women say that a mature woman has no sex and feels really worse than dead. Another woman said that after giving birth to a baby, there was no more. Two people face each other in silence in the dark, and the marriage becomes an empty shell.
Others say that my husband is like an electric rod. Alas, it's heart-wrenching to watch. We originally thought that marriage was a full moon and a good harvest. But the reality is a mirage, which looks gorgeous and hot, but in reality it is empty......In the morning or at dusk, you can't see the clouds in the sky, and you can't see the lights on the streets.
It's dark and gloomy, and you've made me wait here in a daze, expecting your love, expecting your kisses ......She pinned all her hopes on the arrival of a miracle, hoping that he would return one day, and with spring in her eyes, she said, "I want it!" ”
Then have a passionate fish and water fun. But this tiny fantasy, in the unforgiving reality, shatters like a cold joke. "
In life, some men participate in PUA training courses in pursuit of marital happiness, hoping to get real skills from them. What they don't realize, however, is that PUA courses teach only how to be a woman and disguise yourself, and in marriage, what couples really need is truth.
This is the most cherished trait of sexual relationships, as it requires people to abandon pretenses and pretenses and be honest with each other.
*, it should be the bloom of life, not the use of tools. When we see ** as a task or proof of value, we are often just performing, ignoring the true self.
This kind of ** is like a never-ending performance in bed, where men play invincible warriors, women play amorous stunners, and their true selves are ignored and suppressed.
Good ** is the encounter between people, the dance between souls and souls. It can stir people's hearts, nourish life, and allow for a pleasant exchange of body, mind and soul.
The real love between men and women is not only the collision of the body, but also the integration of the soul. It allows us to feel joy and abundance, not pain and tragedy. Let's cherish the good times, to welcome a good love, to create one after another human entertainment.
Only in this way can our ** be truly meaningful and truly beautiful.