Zhang Yimou said: "I don't want to be a star hanging in the sky, but rather like a meteor, although it is fleeting, it radiates all its scorching light." ”
As an ordinary person, if you want to solve problems such as mental deprivation, emotional deprivation, and lack of wealth, you must focus your energy on enhancing your cognition, improving your skills, and enhancing your influence.
When you focus on improving yourself, you will be focused and engrossed, and there will be no extra time and energy to dream and be anxious.
When you continue to improve your skills, the whole person will glow with a different style, and it will also produce a huge attraction, naturally shine and shine, and can successfully attract many people of the same frequency as you, around you.
When you reach a certain level, the channel of value exchange will be opened, and you can treat others as equals, live in peace, communicate with each other on a reciprocal basis, and achieve personality transformation.
Therefore, the growth of a person is very important, he determines what kind of person you will face, what kind of path you will take, and what kind of fruit you will bear.
The sign of a person's maturity lies in being able to face everything in front of him correctly, not to be carried away by victory, not to be hindered by failure, and not to be affected by temporary setbacks to the confidence and courage of struggle.
Many times, we don't want to believe that our suffering is self-inflicted. We are all making excuses for ourselves, thinking that the world owes us nothing and that we are not happy.
Because we don't get happiness, we blame the person closest to us, and we blame the failure and all the bad things on the others, but we don't look for the cause from ourselves.
This is a typical human weakness and the biggest stumbling block to our success.
Life is very flavorful