In emotional relationships, a man's badness is often seen as an attractive trait. This badness can be a challenge, a thrill, an irresistible charm. But how do you make it just bad enough to make a woman inseparable from you? In the following six places, the more "bad" a man is, the more a woman may be inseparable from you.
1. Humorous ridicule.
Women like men with humor because humor brings happiness, eases the atmosphere, and makes people feel relaxed. Appropriate humor can break the awkwardness and coldness and bring each other closer. However, if your humor is always about attacking others or being overly self-deprecating, it can be uncomfortable. Therefore, humor must be appropriate, and it must be able to show your intelligence and humor.
Second, not according to common sense to play cards.
Women like men to have unexpected moves, which will make her feel funny. Playing cards out of common sense doesn't mean you have to do something outrageous to get her attention, but rather have some unexpected thoughts and actions. For example, you can give her a special gift for her birthday or arrange an unexpected date. However, there is also a degree to playing cards that do not follow common sense, and behavior that is too outrageous can be offensive.
3. Create small surprises.
Ordinary life needs some surprises to break up. Women especially like men who are able to create small surprises to surprise and delight her. A small surprise can be buying her a small gift she's always wanted, arranging a romantic date out of the blue, or writing her a love letter to show your love for her. Of course, this kind of surprise doesn't have to cost a lot of money, it's all about the heart. But be careful, the surprise must also be timely, and you can't surprise the other person out of the blue, which may be embarrassing or uncomfortable.
Fourth, a little "black belly".
The "black belly" here does not mean that you have a dark heart, but that you use some ingenious ways to make women feel your unique charm at certain times and on certain occasions. For example, when you are chatting with a woman, you can deliberately sell some guanzi to make her curious; You can also show your "wildness" in moderation when getting along with a woman and let her feel your courage. Of course, there must be a degree of "black belly", not to be used too often, and not to hurt others.
Fifth, good at "doing things".
"Doing things" here does not mean making trouble out of nothing and stirring up trouble, but refers to the fact that when you get along with women, you should be good at creating topics and guiding topics, so that women can feel happy and fulfilled in communicating with you. For example, you can introduce some interesting topics when chatting with a woman to make her feel that you are funny and knowledgeable; You can also arrange some fun activities when dating a woman to make her feel your creativity and action. Of course, "doing things" should also be moderate, not too frequent or too out of line, otherwise it will cause women to get bored.
Sixth, if you leave.
In the relationship between men and women, men cannot always stick to women, but must learn to leave each other and give each other a certain amount of freedom and space. The right distance can make a woman cherish the time with you more and get to know you more deeply. Of course, "if you leave" must be grasped well. If you don't grasp this degree well, "if you leave" may turn into cold violence or simply a manifestation of ruthlessness and unrighteousness. Therefore, "if if you leave" must be flexibly used according to the actual situation of both parties.
In short, the "bad" that a man behaves just right in these six aspects will not only not disgust the woman, but will stimulate her curiosity and desire to explore, making her appreciate and infatuate you more. However, this "bad" must be moderate, and the bottom line of morality and respect must not be crossed. Men should learn to express their personality and charm in a unique way when getting along with women, so as to make love more beautiful.