I often hear some words full of deep meaning:
In love, no man will tell you that a man doesn't need you to be good to him, such as shushing the cold and asking for warmth, running errands, using money to please him, and centering on him in everything. What men need is "value", but what women need is "emotion". ”
In the world of love, men and women are often portrayed as coming from different planets, with very different ways of thinking and needs. This is not to say that one party's needs are wrong or unworthy of respect, but understanding these differences can help us communicate and get along better.
As long as you are happy when you talk to him, go over to be coquettish with him when you want him, be gentle and considerate when you are with him, and ignore him when you don't want him. ”
Girls, when they love someone very much, it is difficult to get happiness from each other anymore, because they will be suspicious, suspicious, and cranky. ”
Men tend to derive satisfaction from a woman's "worth," which means they value a woman's intelligence, talent, independence, and inner beauty more. Women, on the other hand, are more inclined to seek "emotional" satisfaction, and they need to feel cared for, loved and accompanied by men. This difference is not to say that one party's needs are wrong or unworthy of respect, but that we need to be aware of them and do our best to meet the needs of the other.
The deeper a man loves, the more he will control his temper and restrain himself because he cherishes it. The more truly a woman loves, the easier it is to get angry and be demanding because she cares. ”
Men are usually more inclined to deal with problems with silence, and they will choose to take the stress and distress on their own. Women, on the other hand, are more inclined to solve problems through communication and sharing, and they like to pour out their feelings and emotions. This difference may explain why, in love, when one partner has a problem, the other partner may not be able to understand or provide the support they need. Therefore, it is very important to establish good communication channels and respect the emotional needs of the other party.
Don't deny your future because of a person's harm to you, sincerity and kindness are never wrong, what is wrong is that you don't distinguish the object, so you should reflect on your own vision and insight into people rather than your own sincerity and kindness. ”
When one person loves another person in particular, it is easy to become sensitive and demanding. This is because we want the full attention and love of the other person, but this is unrealistic. Everyone has their own life and independence and cannot afford to lose themselves just to satisfy each other.
At any time, we should focus most of our time on improving ourselves, and let the rest take its course, not having excessive expectations for anyone, and if we don't have expectations, we will not be disappointed, and what we can get should be surprised, and what we can't get is the norm. “
In love, we also need to be careful not to rely too much on each other. We all have our own lives and interests, and we can't give up on ourselves just for each other.
Live in fate, not in relationships. Hopefully, we can all do it in the end, going with the flow in other people's worlds and being alone in our own worlds. “
It is very important to understand and respect the differences between men and women in love. We need to learn to better communicate, get along and support each other's needs. At the same time, we also need to be self-aware and independent, and not to rely too much on each other or lose ourselves. Only in this way can we find true happiness and fulfillment in love. I hope that we can all continue to grow and progress in the journey of love, and finally find our own happiness and home.