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The dust settled on all this because of a Weibo post by Guo Xiaodong. On this day, he just returned to the hotel from filming, and swiped his mobile phone casually to see the news that his wife Cheng Lisha was eliminated in the reality show she participated in. 
Guo Xiaodong's desire to protect was overflowing in an instant, he reached out and picked up his mobile phone, and said, "Hurry up and go home and cook", and send. This was originally just a joke mixed with concern, and Guo Xiaodong didn't take it to heart. However, this Weibo stirred up a thousand waves, "Guo Xiaodong asked his wife to hurry home to cook" instantly appeared on the hot search, and a large number of netizens attacked him, scolding him as a "typical machismo" and "full of daddy". Female friends in the circle of friends are also scolding Guo Xiaodong, and only Cheng Lisha is protecting her shortcomings. She decisively commented, "This is humor between the two of them, everyone who understands me understands", and she looks like she is invincible. This makes passers-by even more confused, and at the same time casts a shadow over the couple's love life. 
Cheng Lisha was born in a typical intellectual family, both parents are university professors, and the family is well-off. She grew up in a greenhouse, with no worries about food and clothing, and her parents and grandmother took care of her as an only daughter. She grew up in a very privileged environment, was well educated, and developed an elegant and generous character. Guo Xiaodong, who was the same year as her, grew up in a remote and poor rural area. His parents were ordinary farmers, working hard to support their families, and they could not afford to let him go to school. Guo Xiaodong has been helping to earn money since he was a child, and he dropped out of school to become an apprentice before he finished junior high school. This became the source of the inferiority complex in his character. 
The two can be said to be people who grew up in two worlds. Cheng Lisha was successfully admitted to the best drama school in Shanghai, and soon became a well-known actor and Hua Dan after graduating from university; And Guo Xiaodong went north alone to the unfamiliar city of Beijing, and began a long and arduous life in Beipiao with the dream of being admitted to Nortel and becoming a star. The stark contrast between the living environment and upbringing of the two has buried a lot of problems for their future love life. In 2002, a movie called "Northern Wind" allowed Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong to have their first collaboration. The crew scene is hard, and the two have many rival scenes. Cheng Lisha has high requirements for her acting skills, and is not satisfied with the details of Guo Xiaodong's performance, and often hears her shouting "How can I shoot if you don't have this" on the set. Guo Xiaodong felt that she was rude and willful, and did not take her to heart. More than a year later, a class reunion brought the two back together. Maybe it was time to polish edges, Guo Xiaodong took the initiative to say hello to Cheng Lisha, the two chatted, and their image of each other changed greatly. After that, they gradually upgraded from friends to lovers, and Guo Xiaodong began to passionately pursue Lisa. However, this relationship did not go well, and Guo Xiaodong's inferiority complex and sensitivity became an obstacle. He comes from poverty, has no success in his career, and has long suspected that he is not worthy of Cheng Lisha, a rich girl. The two often quarrel over trivial matters, and Guo Xiaodong often disappears without contact for no reason. Cheng Lisha begged bitterly, retreating and compromising again and again, hoping to cross this hurdle, but Guo Xiaodong's inferiority complex was always in her throat. After several splits and mergers, Cheng Lisha finally chose to let go. 
In 2007, Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong reunited. Guo Xiaodong invited Cheng Lisha to dinner, and the two hit it off at first sight and rekindled their love. Perhaps it is because of the tempering of the past few years, Guo Xiaodong finally has new thoughts about love and marriage. He began to take the initiative to express his apologies and love for Cheng Lisha, and directly confessed and proposed marriage after a dinner. Although her friends were persuading, Cheng Lisha did not hesitate and agreed to enter the palace of marriage with Guo Xiaodong. The two chose to hold a simple village wedding in Guo Xiaodong's hometown, but their hearts moved Cheng Lisha. Guo Xiaodong carefully arranged the venue for her, filled with roses, although not luxurious, but sincerely conveyed his intentions. 
After marriage, Cheng Lisha gave up her acting career and devoted herself to her husband and children, and Guo Xiaodong also worked hard to support her family. With the consistent support of his mother-in-law, Guo Xiaodong felt a long-lost sense of security, and the marriage gradually stabilized. After marriage, with the success of Guo Xiaodong's career, life became happy. He is no longer as inferior and sensitive as before, and he is more pampered and considerate to Cheng Lisha. Cheng Lisha has become the softest place in his heart. In order to make his wife live a good life, Guo Xiaodong began to choose more commercial films to make money, and his schedule was so full that there was no respite. When Cheng Lisha complained that he was too tired, he realized that she didn't know how much helpless exhaustion he had to endure outside. In order to have another child, Cheng Lisha took more than 100 injections and took hormones and other drugs for a long time to increase the chance of conception. Her physical and mental state has been greatly affected. 
But she never complained to Guo Xiaodong, because she knew it was for the sake of two people's children. In places that outsiders can't see, behind the happiness hides too much forbearance and grievances of women. She didn't care about any women's status or rights, she just wanted to grow old with Guo Xiaodong. Although in the eyes of outsiders, Cheng Lisha has paid too much for this relationship, she and Guo Xiaodong themselves don't think so. Guo Xiaodong is also guarding this relationship in his own way, and he doesn't feel that Cheng Lisha owes him anything. Now that he has a successful career, he hopes that Cheng Lisha can pursue his dreams and become the person he likes. Cheng Lisha also returned to the entertainment industry, boldly showing herself in the show and chasing passion. 
With more than ten years of ups and downs, they have managed this relationship in a two-way way, although it is hard but what they have gained is a deep mutual understanding. What's right for you is the best. Maybe Guo Xiaodong is not considerate enough in the eyes of others, but Cheng Lisha knows it. It is difficult for outsiders to judge what happiness is in a person. She can now face the world confidently and comfortably, and laugh at life with Guo Xiaodong, this is the simple happiness she wants. The story of Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong is not uncommon in the entertainment industry, and many traditional Chinese family-style couples also get along like this - the wife gives up her career and teaches her husband and children wholeheartedly, and the husband works hard outside to support the family. By today's social standards, this may be labelled as "machismo", and the wife will be seen as "**."
But in fact, in the eyes of these couples, it is a two-way dedication and dedication. The woman does not feel that she has suffered or lost anything, because she has also obtained the happy life she wants - her husband's career and relationship are both reaped and the family is harmonious. This long-term and stable marital relationship may be the best interpretation of happiness in their minds. Therefore, the so-called "feminism"* cannot be simply labeled, and the most important thing is to fit your own lifestyle. We don't have the right to judge what happiness is in a person. Lisha Cheng is the best example.