On the evening of October 5th, at the end of the square dance, my friend Cao Limin informed me that on October 6th, her grandson had a full moon banquet and invited me to the banquet.
I didn't even think about it and said, "Oh, it's so unfortunate, I'm going to help my mom wash her clothes tomorrow, and I've promised her." ”
It doesn't matter if you change the date and do the laundry." Seeing that I was refusing, Cao Limin hurriedly gave me ideas.
This time it really doesn't work, you also know that my brother and daughter-in-law are not the fuel-efficient lamp, this time she asked me to go, I don't want her to misunderstand me. "Seeing Cao Limin chasing after me, I had to move my mother's brother and daughter-in-law out to block it for me.
My mother's brother and daughter-in-law are powerful, Cao Limin knows. I saw that she still wanted to give me advice, so I said directly: "Sister Limin, although I can't go, but I can't save the courtesy, I'll transfer the money to you, you can just take it for me." ”
Filial piety comes first, and I can't delay your filial piety because of my own affairs. Seeing that I was going to transfer money, Cao Limin said sharply.
Sweating all over, I went home to drink tea and take a shower. Before going to bed, I transferred the 200 yuan.
The mobile phone shows that the payment is received, and it is estimated that Cao Limin is waiting for the mobile phone with her mobile phone.
I'm also waiting, waiting for the "thank you" and a smiley face after she receives the payment. But I didn't wait, and that's to be expected.
Cao Limin met me eight years ago when I was dancing in the square, she is four years older than me and lives in the neighborhood next door.
8 years ago, I fell in love with square dancing, I spent 680 yuan to buy a stereo, and used the time to get up early in the morning and not rest at noon to learn one trick at a time on my mobile phone, and then I taught what I learned to dance friends in the evening.
After a tiring day at work, a few old sisters chatted and danced together, which was very enjoyable, and I enjoyed it.
Cao Limin is the kind of person who gets acquainted quickly as soon as they meet. With the increase in personnel, I want to add two lead dancers, Cao Limin, who learned the news, recommended herself, and the other one was unanimously recommended by the big guys.
In the second year of acquaintance, her son got married, so she asked me and a few other dance friends to attend his son's wedding, I thought that I had a good relationship together, and I was embarrassed to shirk it, so I wrapped a red envelope of 500 yuan.
Next, her daughter-in-law gave birth to two children in three years, and I paid 500 yuan. A few sisters asked me how much I had packed, and I honestly said that I had 500 yuan. They said they were all 200 yuan. This kind of gift is all based on personal will, and there is no uniform standard.
Another leading dancer, Lianhua Mei, told me that in private, everyone has opinions about Cao Limin, and that the people who originally danced the Cantonese dance were all people of a certain age, and they had no foundation, and they all came for exercise and entertainment, and everyone's situation was different. But Cao Limin either thinks she's stupid and can't learn, or she's fat, and her dancing looks too ugly; is also suspected of being in the limelight and picking fault with her, such as a wrong movement, a dance point that cannot be stepped on, and the order of movements is reversed, etc.
And usually, these old sisters who want to buy a dress and shoes like to find someone to go with, let them be a staff officer, and help choose. After buying it, it was time for the meal, and I invited the sisters who came with me to have a meal, buy a bottle of water, fruit, or something.
Whenever she encounters this, Cao Limin bears the bruntAnd when eating, I also pick a restaurant, and always choose an expensive point.
But she was good, when her son got married and she bought a dressDragged a few sisters to follow her to three shopping malls, let them help choose clothes, half a day down, one by one tired panting, thirsty and tired can't lift their legs, just when they were eating, she said that the home appliance came to **, waiting at the door of her house, leaving a few old sisters, and slipped away. Afterwards, the sisters who lived in a community with her said that there was nothing wrong with it, and their home appliances had been delivered a few days earlier.
Look at how she usually talks about how her family's food and clothing are high-grade, and how generous she is, I didn't expect it to be such a person.
Last year, my son got married, I didn't want the old sisters to break the bank, I never spoke, so I also specially told our sisters in the same community, don't show the news.
Despite this, the news still didn't go away, and the big guys all wrapped red envelopes, ranging from 200 to 300. I keep all of this in mind, and when something happens to their family, I'll add some rewards to the past. After all, this is a part of the big guy's heart.
But Cao Limin took a red envelope of 200 yuan, to be honest, I felt a little uncomfortable, you said it wasn't for money, it was a bit fake, if you want to say that it was completely for moneyIt doesn't seem to be that way.
Her son got married, a grandson and a granddaughter ate happy noodles and a daughter got married, I always took 500 yuan, but the first thing my son did, she made this one.
So this time, when she told me to eat her grandson's noodles, I didn't want to go, (in fact, I have time, and it's just an excuse for me to wash my mother's clothes).
Unexpectedly, since I also gave her 200 yuan,When she saw me, her attitude took a 180-degree turn, and she ignored me, I ignored her, and she shook her face to show me. I don't stand in front of me to lead the dance, but run to the back. I also called me stingy among the old sisters and slammed the door.
The old sisters said, you say that we don't know about others, you want to say that Huijuan is stingy and knocks on the door, who will believe it. She was stingy and slammed the door, but she spent 680 yuan to buy a stereo, charged the electricity every day, and learned to teach us in advance.
But some people are really generous, they do things by themselves and receive 4 gifts of 500 yuan from others, and when it is their turn to do things, they give 200, and their faces are really big enough. If I had found a place where there was no one and plunged headlong into a dry well, I would have come out and hurt people. I really answered that sentence:People have no face, trees have no bark, and it is difficult to cure in all directions.
Cao Limin was humiliated by everyone, and put the account on my head, saying that if I don't tell the 200 yuan, how will they know.
For this kind of person, I don't want to talk to her, a word, and never interact with her again.
Tell me, am I going too far? Have you ever met someone like that?