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How many men say they love you, but they don't give you an actual future, they don't work hard, they don't work hard, they are so unmotivated.
Maybe he doesn't want to give you a future at all, maybe he just enjoys the present, and he doesn't have a long-term plan.
Does such a man really love you? Is this kind of love really love?
Not necessarily, if there is no plan for the future, and a family will not be operated, such irresponsible love is not worthy of love.
Therefore, please cherish the man who is responsible for your life, this man will run the family with his heart, and will also promise you a down-to-earth future, this kind of love is true love.
When a man treats you like this, it is often true love, don't know.
1. Plan you into his life, whether you are healthy or not, he will silently protect you.
What is the saddest couple like? Probably you spend yours, I spend mine.
Maybe you want the other person to buy you something, and the other person will buy it for you, but afterwards complain that you spent his money.
To put it bluntly, he didn't plan you into his life at all, don't you have to spend money on her if you marry a wife? If you marry a wife, can't you show your heart with your money?
There is a saying that money is not necessarily love, but those who refuse to spend money on you must not have you in their hearts.
In fact, it is not that you don't want to spend money, but that you are stingy with money, in fact, this man has not planned you into his life at all, and thus will not allow you a good future.
Not to mention that when you have a physical problem, such a person who has no responsibility and no responsibility will often end up with a mess.
On the contrary, the man who plans you into his life and silently guards you whether you are healthy or not, this is true love.
Second, manage your relationship with his family carefully, which will not make you embarrassed, let alone wronged.
How many men are like that? When there is a conflict between his wife and his family, he does not stand by and watch, but resolves each other's resentment.
Because in his heart, he wants you to integrate into his family, and he will not treat you as an outsider.
When there is a conflict between the wife and the family, if the wife is there, she will first take into account her feelings, and then tell the truth and reason with the wife.
What women want is actually very simple, that is, a clear attitude, if you can't rely on yourself at any time, then what do you want?
As a man, he shouldered this responsibility at this time, not as a deserter, but to solve this problem with his heart, to be a peacemaker, he will do his best not to let you be wronged, not to make you sad.
Promise you a real future, such a man's love is true love, because he is brave enough and wise enough.
3. Willingly hand over the financial power, what he earns is yours, regardless of each other.
There are some men who are very generous to you when they are in love, but they are not willing to put the financial power in your hands when they get married.
The living expenses are not paid, as long as you are stupid enough, as long as you are stupid enough, as long as you are stupid enough, as long as you are not caring enough, he will not be like that.
Does this kind of man really love? This kind of man doesn't love you at all, to put it bluntly.
Many women are reluctant to leave because they have a common concern for children.
chooses to open one eye and close one eye, but only a woman's heart knows that such a relationship has no future.
Therefore, when a man willingly puts the power of property into your hands, he must manage the family well.
Because he has put all of him in your hands, not only with his heart, but also with his full love.
So to see if a man is your true love, to see what he has done for you?
Fourth, be yourself, seek inwardly, repair yourself, and a happy marriage will run to you.
You may say that when I have to adjust the tone of my voice with the other person, it is actually when my heart dies.
Of course, this is a pessimistic idea, if you don't live with this person in this life, you will live with another person, if it's the same day, why don't you choose to change yourself?
If you're destined to face all kinds of relationships, why don't you learn from the pain and start changing now?
We ask inward, we are ourselves, we do not expect to be loved by the other person, but because after we do this, the love of the other person will naturally come to us.
We don't take it seriously, we don't drill the horns, we live transparently, our own life will be more and more beautiful and happy, of course, including marriage, of course, including all kinds of relationships.
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