First of all, I understand your feelings very well, because relationship issues are very complex and personal. If your husband doesn't love you anymore, you will definitely feel a lot of pain and confusion, and you can't bear to have children, which makes you even more entangled and helpless.
In this case, I recommend that you take the following measures:
1.Calm thinking:First of all, you need to think calmly about your marital status, clarify what you want, and how to deal with your relationship with your husband. Don't rush to a decision and don't take drastic actions.
2.Communication:If you feel the need, try sitting down with your husband and having a good talk. Get to know his thoughts and feelings and see if there's anything that can be solved. In any case, maintaining communication is the key to solving problems.
3.Seek professional help:If you feel that your emotions cannot be effectively controlled, or if you need professional advice and help, you can consider seeking help from a psychological counselor or marriage and family counselor. They can provide you with more specific advice and support.
4.Thinking about the future:Whatever your decision is, you need to think about your child's future. You can think about how you can protect your child's interests and how you can prepare for yourself and your child's future. This may include financial considerations, residency arrangements, etc.
Finally, I advise you not to let emotions influence your decisions. Stay calm, think rationally, and seek appropriate support and help. Whatever your decision is, trust that you will make the right choice for your future and that of your children.