Xiao Mo:
Hello, I am 41 years old and found out almost half a year ago that my husband was cheating on a colleague in their company.
I deduced from the chat logs that the two of them had been together for at least a year.
Although I was angry and wanted to scold him, I finally put up with it and didn't stab him.
Because at my age, in fact, I don't care so much about love and love, and I now focus all my energy on my children.
My child is in his third year of high school this year, and he will be admitted to college next year, and I don't want to distract him at his most critical time.
But yesterday my husband suddenly asked me if I knew everything, of course I was pretending to be stupid, but he told me not to pretend.
He also said that since I know everything, then he doesn't have to be so tired anymore, he said that he has had enough of me a long time ago, but he has not mentioned divorce for the sake of his children.
Now he didn't want to bear it anymore, so I asked me to go and go through the formalities with him.
I still pretended to be stupid, so he went straight to the showdown, saying that no matter whether you knew it earlier, anyway, I just don't love you anymore, I cheated, and now that the other party is pregnant, I want to marry her.
Rao is that I don't have much affection for him anymore, but when I heard that the other party was pregnant, I still couldn't calm down, we had a fight, I scratched his face, and he left with his luggage.
The child asked me yesterday why my father was not at home, and I lied that I was on a business trip, but I don't know how long I could hide it.
What should I do now?
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Hello, after reading your story, I feel very uncomfortable, I can imagine how painful and uncomfortable the other party was during this period of betrayal of marriage, but you still endured it for the sake of your children, you are a good mother.
Now that the other party is not a person, if he has to tear his face, then it has nothing to do with you, you have done enough for your children.
And the child is in the third year of high school, and he is not a child, he has the ability to think independently, can distinguish between right and wrong, and he will understand and understand you.
As for what you said about being afraid of affecting your child's college entrance examination, hasn't it been broken yet?
You can make a time difference and talk to your husband to see how you can get him to help you keep the child from you.
For example, if you divorce and don't leave home, for example, if you threaten him with the woman's pregnancy, after all, they are the same company, and they definitely don't want to make a big fuss.
Of course, it is not excluded that a woman will quit her job when she is pregnant, but your husband is not still in that company, you can still make trouble.
It's not that you really make trouble, it's that you threaten him and tell him what will happen if he doesn't cooperate.
I think there's a good chance he'll be scared.
If he is really stubborn, that is, the negotiation is unsuccessful, then you can start from the woman.
Everyone has weaknesses and cares, so you can take care of her weaknesses and let her persuade your husband.
Anyway, in a word, for the sake of the child's good, we can do anything, the rabbit is in a hurry and bites, they want to bully us so bottomlessly, let's take out our attitude.
Come on!--Hello!