This is the most terrible, the more people who regard love as their own, the less they can get love.
The premise of learning to love is to learn to love yourself.
Being alone is the best time to prove that you love yourself.
As the saying goes, if you can withstand prosperity and loneliness, there are actually a lot of things that a person can do.
Let's not talk about chasing dramas and lying down, let's focus on a few things that are beneficial to endure loneliness and exercise perseverance, such as:
Fishing] Find a quiet lake, the breeze, the green forest, the sun is dappled, especially in late spring and early summer, the best time to go outside, go fishing by the lake, and feel the fresh air by the way.
If you have the conditions, you can also try sea fishing, don't think that fishing is just the preference of old grandfathers, young people fishing is also super cool!
Dancing] Practicing dance alone, hip-hop dance, trendy and cool, not to mention who to show it, that is, when I practice by myself, I can feel a pure concentration, and there is a feeling that I am alone and beautiful.
Not only to keep fit, but also to enhance your sense of beauty and tolerance for loneliness.
Plus, if you practice it well, it's still a rare talent.
Of course, if you don't like hip-hop, you can also try yoga and Pilates, which are good for your physical and mental health.
If you are purely fitness, I personally prefer Pilates a little more.
Cooking] One of the joys of my solitary life is to cook by hand and be self-sufficient.
After practicing this is a lifelong skill, there is no one who doesn't eat, only someone who can't cook.
If you can, you can live well without others, and even you will be the person that others need.
Of course, I'm talking about the person in love.
Walking] You read that right, yes, walking.
The older you get, the more you experience, when you are confused, upset, or don't want to talk, especially when your heart is blocked.
Go out for a walk, walk for a long time, until you are so tired that you don't have any thoughts, and you are so tired that you just want to lie down and sleep for two days and two nights.
Then, the whole person was calm and open again, as if all the toxins in the body and heart had been emptied.
When you fall out of love or despair of life, just walk alone and try without spending money!
It's just that a person who is alive and finds that many things can't be done, where can he have time to fall in love?
It's just that after being alone for a long time, I'm afraid that you won't be used to love anymore......
There are many kinds of life, and love is just one of them.
Experience more, feel more, don't be attached to one person and one thing, you will find that the world is wider and your heart is freer.
Walking through prosperity, walking through barrenness, walking through love, walking through loneliness, this life is in vain.
If love becomes the whole of your life, once you lose it, you will have nothing, you will not live, and you will only lose yourself.
As for the person you once loved, eat and drink spicy food as usual, and wake up as usual, and the sun rises high again.
So, why should you spoil yourself and think about it, just take a trip and then come back and find that it is better not to go.
In the final analysis, there is still a lack of love, or your life circle is not big enough, so, make up for your shortcomings, grow up, move forward, don't look back, if you bloom, butterflies will come!