Marriage is like a tune, which contains high-pitched and gentle, intertwined with joy and sorrow, with happy moments and emotional troughs. Not everyone's marriage can end perfectly, and sometimes even love is not a necessary factor. In many marriage stories, we find that existing couples gradually develop each other's feelings after they have become married. Similar cases abound, and every man may have a woman in his heart who was once deeply crushed, which may be his first love in his early years, or his current spouse.
However, in the rolling torrent of marriage and life, reality often makes people change. Even a seemingly perfect marriage may face a breakup, even if the emotion is deep, the woman may choose not to enter the palace of marriage, and the possibility of the man remarrying is more significant. For men, what is the weight and significance of ex-wife, current or first love and spouse? Next, let's hear from these men.
Mr. Wang said: "My ex-wife is also my first love, and I paid almost everything to her in my youth. Our past is full of beauty, but after marriage, we still go our separate ways. In my heart, I had a sincere love for her. Now he has entered a life of remarriage, and he has almost no emotional communication with his current wife, and more often spends his days together. My first love has always occupied all of my heart, and if she is willing to return to her old friendship, I will give it all up, but she has cut off her way back. ”
Mr. Niu has a completely different feeling: "The days when I parted ways with my ex-wife really made people cry. Two years have flown by, I have met my current love, and my current life is full of happiness and joy. She knows the way of life and understands my heart deeply. The current wife is more mature and knows how to maintain her relationship and marriage. She is a romantic companion who always surprises me on special occasions and makes me feel more at ease and free. ”
And Mr. Gu's experience seems to make people reflect: "Whether it is my ex-wife or my current wife, both of them are similar in dealing with daily life, and they don't spend their money on the knife, and they don't consider my hard work to make money." When I return home from work, I still have to do the housework myself. My enthusiasm for marriage has faded a lot, especially the second marriage, which is even more difficult to manage. Doing all this, I'm just doing my duty. In comparison, the ex-wife seems to be more nostalgic, and her married life is more calm. ”
What about your attitude towards your predecessor and your current one?
Of course, if you spend time with one person all the time, that sweetness is undoubtedly precious.
May your happiness remain.