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Chen Xu is a special existence in "Thirty Only".Doing the work with the least salary, living at the bottom, obviously very humble, but can make everyone like it. There is only one person who doesn't like him, because Chen Xu pried away Zhong Xiaoqin, who he had finally caught up.
Zhong Xiaoyang didn't take Chen Xu in his eyes, because he was Zhong Xiaoqin's ex-uncle, firstly, Zhong Xiaoqin had no feelings for him, and secondly, Chen Xu didn't seem to be as serious as Zhong Xiaoyang, and it was understandable that he didn't get attention.
But such an inconspicuous outsider is actually a third party who destroys his relationship with Zhong Xiaoqin.
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Very attentive
Although Chen Xu is a rough man, he is actually very careful. Chen Yu didn't tell him about his divorce from Zhong Xiaoqin, but he went to Chen Yu to borrow moneySeeing the marching bed in the fish room, it was clear that the two husbands and wives were at home, but the wives were neatly dressed, so he guessed that Chen Yu and they were divorced.
If it is replaced, it becomes Chen Yu asking Chen Xu and his wife to borrow money, but Chen Yu will not be able to detect it.
Don't think that people who hang around all day long are the most heartless, in fact, they are more careful and soft than anyone elseThey notice changes in the outside world more than anyone else.
Thanks to Chen Xufa's early feeling, and he also understands his brother's personality, his mouth is a little poisonous, but his heart is good, so he is willing to help him recover Zhong Xiaoqin.
The carefulness is also reflected in the fact that although he does not live with Zhong Xiaoqin,But he understands that women want not only the expression of their husband's actions, but also the expression of words.
Chen Yu just thinks that doing is better than talking, which will make the contradiction between him and Zhong Xiaoqin bigger and bigger, and finally end in divorce. Chen Xu only told Zhong Xiaoqin what Chen Yu had done, and let Zhong Xiaoqin change his mind.
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This is not because women are auditory animals, but because good words are warm in three winters. Don't think that the love you say is very superficial, you are even willing to resist the wind and rain for her in the future, why can't you say a mere sentence of I love you?
But many men are Chen Yu, especially honest menThey think that the scumbag who talks about love every daySo subconsciously reluctant to open your mouth to say love.
My husband is the same, even if I repeatedly ask him to say I love you every day, he finds it difficult to speak. Later, for a while, I often expressed my love to him and made him get used to confessing every daySuddenly stopped, he actually began to lose and asked me if I didn't love him!
I told him that love is mutual, and that I tell you every day that I love you, and you have to tell me that you love me. Not saying it doesn't mean not loving, but people who can't hear it still feel lost.
Men like to hear my lover I love you every day, why should you be so stingy with your wife, and you won't even say three words.
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High emotional intelligence
The most direct manifestation of high emotional intelligence is that it will come to things, and it will not be said to be broken. Look at him and Wang Manni to find out how Xu Huanshan cheated and dealt with it.
Wang Manni saw Xu Huanshan and Lin Youyou hugging, first took pictures of the evidence with her mobile phone, and then discussed with Zhong Xiaoqin and Jiang ChenThis means that two more people know about Xu Huanshan's scandal all of a sudden. She felt that this was a "family ugly" and should be handled by Gu Jia herself, but she "publicized" it again.
Chen Xu is different, since he is a family ugly, he should not publicize it, he didn't tell anyone, and quietly knocked on the side to remind Xu Huanshan.
If Xu Huanshan can pay attention to what he said, and cut off the spark that collided with Lin Youyou as soon as possible, he would save his marriage.
Zhong Xiaoqin was overheard about Zhong Xiaoqin's pregnancy, and he guessed that Chen Yu and they didn't want this childTo change their minds, they could only move the "mother-in-law" out, so he acted as a big mouth and told the mother-in-law.
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If it weren't for the mother-in-law to drive them to the hospital to set up a file, Chen Yu would not have had a chance to hear the fetal's heartbeat, and he would not want this child. Including the final matchmaking of Chen Yu and his wife, he also used his lifelong skills to pick up girls.
Nowadays, many times emotional intelligence is higher than being able to speak, and not being afraid to say more good things and never mentioning bad things is the best way to get along with people. Getting along with people with high emotional intelligence is like bathing in the sun, warm and comfortable.
If you can't learn high emotional intelligence, then before every time you speak and do things, think more empathetically, if others treat you in the same way, will you be happy?
Zhong Xiaoyang's marriage proposal failed in the end, also because he did not learn to deal with problems with high emotional intelligence, he would only blindly give romance simply and rudely, but he did not pay attention to whether doing so would embarrass Zhong Xiaoqin.
Again, when you meet someone you like, leave more eyes to your heart and think more empathy. Making her comfortable is the best way to capture her heart, how can she not chase a girl like this? Boys, do you think so?
About the Author:
Yonano: I like to chase dramas, write some drama reviews, and make a salted fish.