After 12 years of study, my daughter was admitted to the ideal Zhejiang University, and my youngest son is also in the top class of junior high school, and he is expected to rush to the provincial key high school next year. In the eyes of the seven aunts and eight aunts, my family is a petri dish for scholars, and they all let me go home for the New Year and talk about what tricks I have. Recently, I took the time to carefully recall that after 12 years of studying, the harvest in primary school was the greatest. At the beginning, I didn't know how to tutor and how to take the child to study, so her grades were not top-notch before the third grade, until I slowly found the way to the back, and the child rushed directly into the top five of the grade like opening up the second pulse of Ren Du, and never fell off the back. I summarized all the things that my child did during elementary school, which ones were "not lost", which ones were not only not lost, but also earned", and which ones were "not done", and what should be done in advance. The first is ancient Chinese poems and English words, which should be memorized in advance. Since my child's first grade, I insisted that he recite an ancient poem every night. Considering that I have to be exposed to a lot of new subjects at the beginning of junior high school, and it is difficult to memorize them, it is better to memorize them now, and get familiar with them first. In the second grade, students memorize the necessary ancient poems for primary school students, a total of 155 poems (75+80, 75 in class, 85 outside the classroom), and accumulate the author's life, poems and poems in the process of memorization; In the sixth grade, I memorized the ancient poems and texts necessary for junior high school, and finally memorized the 8 most famous classical Chinese texts in junior high school, including the four major travelogues (The Story of the Drunken Weng Pavilion, The Story of the Peach Blossom Spring, The Story of Xiaoshitan and The Story of Yueyang Building), as well as a treatise, a preface and two chapters (Cao Di's polemic, sending Dongyang Ma Shengxu, 12 chapters of the Analects and 3 chapters of Mencius), if there is a place that cannot be translated, the child must take the initiative to turn the dictionary. 7-8 years old: Primary school students must memorize ancient poems (75+80 poems) 9-10 years old: Junior high school must memorize ancient poems (138 pieces) 11-12 years old: junior high school must memorize classical Chinese (16 articles) Share a**Reading method: Use the 337 morning reading method to punch the clock, not only remember quickly, but also remember prison. Memorize early to save more time in junior high school, and children will be very relaxed in junior high school and high school. 
Add ** annotations, no more than 140 words (optional) Don't regret not memorizing words early until junior high school, the vocabulary in the textbook is simply not enough. When you reach junior high school, you will find that many children have memorized more than 1,600 words in elementary school, and junior high school people are reviewing them. Therefore, it is recommended that you memorize 1600 words for your child in advance, and it is best to memorize them in elementary school, because junior high school has no time to memorize them. Speaking English is 6 again, and it is better to know a few more words when you go to the exam room.
The second "do not lose" is to do a lot of calculation training for children in their spare time.
The most direct benefit of this training is to improve the child's math performance, and the most important thing is to cultivate the child's good calculation habits, which has played a great role in junior high school.
This training is deliberately arranged for the child's loss points, there are about 1500 questions in a semester, the topic is very simple but the child feels bored, so I convert the learning content into the ladder goal of the game, so that the child's learning becomes the game's monster upgrade.
For example, in the first grade of mathematics, addition and subtraction within 20, there are carry and non-carry, addition and subtraction, and then addition and subtraction mixing, addition and subtraction, carry and abdication mixing, a total of six levels. Addition does not carry, subtraction does not carry, addition carry, subtraction carry, addition and subtraction mixed do not carry do not abdicate, addition and subtraction mixed carry abdication, and then develop 6 ladders, each ladder printing mouth arithmetic problems practice separately, children complete a ladder, give a clearance reward, although it seems that there are a lot of topics, but scattered to every day on the "senseless", plus the clearance reward, the child is very happy to learn.
Add a **comment of 140 words or less (optional).The third thing that "does not lose" is error correction. At that time, a rule was set for the child:
1.If you find a wrong question, you will be rewarded with two dollars. (Why is the money awarded, the reason is later).
2.If he wants to buy something, he must first write the wrong question in the correction book, fully understand and correct the error carefully before he can get it.
3.In addition, on the last day of every weekend, I will check the questions in the error correction book, and once I make a mistake, I will be fined 4 yuan directly, so the child is very careful in doing each question.
4.On the last day of each month, I will rearrange the questions in the correction book twice and then test them. If she makes a mistake, she will be fined 6 yuan directly, because she has no ability to draw inferences. We must always keep in mind that no matter how many questions we brush, the goal is to find the wrong questions, which means that the child has not mastered them, and if we want to eliminate all the wrong points, we can get infinitely close to the full score. You can eliminate each mistake by following these steps: 1 The cause of the error (formula, concept, cause. 2. Knowledge points investigated; 3 Write down the standard answer to the question. 
Add**Annotation, no more than 140 words (optional) After two or three years of accumulation, she can not only draw inferences, but also develop the habit of fully understanding every knowledge point, which has been of great help to her junior high school studies, and I still keep the wrong question book, and now she will joke and say to others: "I was deceived by my dad into 985." ”The first thing I earned was reading.
When my daughter was a sophomore in high school, she scored 127 in her monthly Chinese exam, which is due to at least 90 minutes of free reading time every day. In addition to the recommended books in the textbooks, I will supplement her with other types of books, including literature, society, history, geography, and so on.
When you reach junior high school, you will find that reading is the cornerstone of Chinese performance, and most of the content on the Chinese test paper has nothing to do with textbooks, all of which need to be "understood" by children themselves. In fact, to put it bluntly, reading ability is equal to comprehension ability, and comprehension ability is equal to academic performance. As your child's reading increases, his reading comprehension and grades will naturally improve. As for what to read and how to read, I arranged it for the baby like this: the first and second grades are mainly picture books and pinyin stories; In the second and third grades, a lot of popular science is read to develop the habit of independent reading; In the fourth and fifth grades, students transition to reading history and literary masterpieces, combining reading and thinking. (Remember to let your child stick to writing reading notes, and your child's Chinese grades will be full of stamina.) I've put together two book lists:
One is 254 World Award classic picture books, 15 themes, including 60 Caldecott Gold Medals, 105 Dick Silver Awards, 10 Greenaway Awards, and 79 classic picture books, covering all ages. The other is a list of 100 books recommended by Tsinghua University. Just as the winter vacation is coming, it is a good time to increase the amount of reading and establish the accumulation of the bottom, and parents hurry up to use it.
The second thing I earned was watching documentaries.
In the first two years, I originally wanted to take her outside more often to take her around while the child's study pressure was not so great, and even reported her to the study camp. As a result, I didn't expect to catch up with the epidemic and didn't go anywhere. In order to make up for a little regret in my heart, and in order to let my children see more of the outside world, I deliberately made a few documentaries, and I watched them with my children at home when I had nothing to do. At first, it was just a simple talk about animals and plants, until later the child began to take the initiative to discuss with me: why are zebras black and white striped? How do elephants have such long trunks? I realized that watching documentaries is a very good learning opportunity for children.
Later, I consciously went to the children to do the four primary enlightenment, and carefully selected 100 documentaries related to the subject, covering Chinese, mathematics, English, science, history, geography, physics, chemistry, biology, not to learn specific knowledge points, but to cultivate children's interest in the subject. At first, I only came into contact with simple common sense through documentaries, but when I was older, I would prepare corresponding books and magazines according to the children's areas of interest, so that the children could read and explore in depth.
The direct benefit of this process is that when children reach junior high school, they regard the four subjects of history, geography, biology, and zheng governance as interesting courses to "help them improve their knowledge structure". These are based on the accumulation of her elementary school years, and she can get very good scores without spending extra time. If you are interested in history, you can watch "The Rise of Great Powers", if you like geography, you can watch "Aerial Photography of China", and if you are interested in physics, you can watch "My Newton Coach"...
Add**Annotation,No more than 140 words (optional)The above content resources are packaged and placed on my homepage,Enter qun to get it yourself。 Keywords: [Elementary School Scholar Cheats] is inside, take advantage of the winter vacation to use itThe first is the ranking that places too much emphasis on results.
When my child was in the first and second grades, I was very concerned about whether she got a perfect score and ranked first in each exam. At that time, the child's grades were not outstanding, most of the time in the class 2 3 position, I once thought that my child was a stupid child, until I entered junior high school I found out that she hidden huge energy, learning self-drive is very strong, into junior high school immediately brought a different academic performance, monthly exams, midterm exams often ranked first in the class.
As for the grade of primary school, I can see the quality of children's grades, I will give you a reassurance: primary school grades are deceptive, parents should not take it too seriously, and junior high and high school will show the potential of academic masters. At the elementary school level, the amount of knowledge in the classroom is only 3%, and it takes 6 years to learn. In junior high school and high school, it only takes 3 years to learn 3-4 times the knowledge of elementary school. Many children may have become primary school students in primary school for various reasons, but their learning methods have some problems and are not sustainable. When they were in elementary school, they should have invested a lot of energy and time in learning, but in junior high school, the number of subjects increased, the difficulty increased significantly, and the children's time and energy were so small, there was no way to increase them, and their grades would naturally decline. Therefore, at the beginning, parents should not be disappointed and do not give up, and parents should not be complacent if their children have poor grades.
The second thing you shouldn't do is to enroll your child in too many interest classes.
Piano, dance, small host classes and other popular ones are just as declining. Money and time are not spent, but unfortunately, none of them have persisted until now. I conclude that there are two reasons:
First, too many children don't have time to learn and can't learn well, after all, few children can become pianists and dancers; The second is that there will definitely be some to give up later, so it depends on the child's talent. Instead of spending a lot of time practicing these, it is better to save the same amount of time and go to reading and outdoor activities, which is the most cost-effective investment for the average person.
Write at the end: You are not ahead, you are not behind, each child has a different flowering period, there is no need to worry that someone has it ahead of you. Life is not a short run but a marathon, and in your own time zone, everything is on time.