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Since the debut of Huawei's second princess Yao Anna, the comparison between her and her sister Meng Wanzhou has not stopped. Sister Meng Wanzhou has been praised, and her sister Yao Anna is frequently cold in the entertainment industry, and the recent TV series "Ice Hunting" starring her and Zhang Songwen has made countless netizens criticize her acting skills, but the author of this article believes that the parents themselves are the origin of our birth and the backer of resources, and each of us is standing on the shoulders of our fathers before we move towards a difficult or easy life, even if some dreams are not realized in the end, those roads are brave.
An old friend who has been following me for many years angrily complained about the new "conspicuous bag" in the office: the little girl has average ability, but she has a sweet mouth, fast legs, and high emotional intelligence. The old friend was very unconvinced: "I have been working for more than 10 years, diligent, dedicated, conscientious, not as good as a yellow-haired girl who has not dried up?"Later, when she inquired, she learned that the yellow-haired girl had an unusual background, her father was the second-in-command of a certain bureau, and her mother was the director of the office of another bureau. At this moment, the old friend suddenly realized: No wonder, the little girl is so scheming and so likable, and the co-author has a backer behind her!This is a terrible world!Since then, the old friend has become more and more unpleasant to look at the little girl, and from time to time he wants to make things difficult for her at workThe little girl didn't care at all, she was still generous, shouting "sister" one by one, and she couldn't find fault with her work. In this way, it seems that she, the eldest sister, is narrow-minded. The old friend is still unbalanced: "I just can't get used to her, if it weren't for her father and mother, she would be so good in water?."I'm going to be angry, the world is so unfair!”
I understand her sour psychology mixed with grievances and jealousy, but that doesn't prevent me from telling her the cruel truth: "If you compare yourself to a little girl, your mentality will inevitably be unbalanced." Because you came from a poor family, you have worked hard all the way to today, although you are very hard-working and excellent, but because you only care about working hard in business, never take the initiative to socialize and accumulate contacts, plus you have no foundation and no backer, at critical times, such as evaluation, promotion, appointment and dismissal, you will inevitably suffer. But, if you treat the little girl as your child, you will be balanced in an instant. You are so diligent and capable, even if you are ranked by seniority more than 10 years later, you have mixed into the middle level of the unit, and it happens that your children will begin to enter the society. If your child has also been admitted to the public examination and entered the system, the identity and position of his parents in his original family will soon be known by his leadership colleagues, if he has a sweet mouth, fast legs, not stupid IQ, high emotional intelligence, and acceptable ability, he will naturally become a popular new employee in the love of his colleagues. AbsolutelyIn his colleagues' love for him, there is also respect for his original family, that is, you in the middle of the unit- You must know that those children whose parents have status and status are not only naturally self-confident, but also naturally looked up to by others. This is not only the intergenerational inheritance of the original family, but also the nature of human nature. So, as an old mother, are you proud of your excellent and popular child? Do you rejoice in the glory of your two generations? ”
As soon as I finished speaking, my old friend immediately replied: "It's because I'm too small." "That's right. Don't always feel that the world is unfair, think about it from different perspectives, and you will understand that many unfairness have multi-dimensional rationality. Got it,can understand why Yao Anna, the second princess of Huawei and Ren Zhengfei's youngest daughter, was scolded
In the past few days, with the hit of the TV series "Ice Hunting",Yao Anna was scolded again and again on the hot search- The acting skills are too poor, the expression is stiff, the general physique is bulky, and the female number one is played into a stunned joke ......
Many people are not convinced that the male number one who plays with the heroine Yao Anna is actually the top-notch Zhang Songwen. So, it was rumored in the rivers and lakes that in order to be the number one woman, Yao Anna brought capital into the group and "bought" Zhang Songwen to cooperate. was so frightened that Gao Qunshu, the director of "Ice Hunting", had to stand up and explain: When this drama was first filmed in 2022, "Hurricane" had not yet been released, and Zhang Songwen had not yet become popular. Because Director Gao's previous award-winning works and shooting habits were to make good use of amateurs, use fewer stars, and do not need plastic surgery, he chose Yao Anna, who had just debuted, had no traces of performance, and was simple and immature. "Ice Hunting" is a low-cost production, the whole drama was only filmed for four or five months, and it cost thirty or forty million, there are investors, Huawei did not give money, and there is no such thing as Yao Anna "bringing capital into the group". I've watched two episodes of "Ice Hunting", and to be honest,Even if Zhang Songwen takes the lead, this drama is not good-looking, and Yao Anna's acting skills are indeed not good, in the words of netizens: "In the play, Zhang Songwen has no traces of performance, and Yao Anna really has no traces of performance." ”
You taste, you taste, this broad and profound Chinese. However, objectively speaking, as a graduate of Harvard University majoring in computer engineering and data statistics, Yao Anna, who debuted halfway through in 2021, performed the real level of a real newcomer. Just like the director of "Ice Hunting" said:
Sincere, hard, hard-working, very sincere, a little stupid and silly, reckless and funny, but it is also in line with the character of a reckless female policeman who switches from internal to external service in the play. Yes, Yao Anna's acting skills are indeed immature, but as a newcomer, she should not be scolded in all kinds of cynicism. If you have to say, if it weren't for her father Ren Zhengfei, which crew would want her, I won't refute you. I'm just reminding you like my old friend at the beginning:Parents themselves are the origin of our birth and the backer of resources, and each of us stands on the shoulders of our fathers before we can lead to a difficult or easy life. Yao Anna's father is Ren Zhengfei, which is the starting point of her gloriousness, and it is also the pressure she must endure - she enjoys her father's wealth, fame and traffic, and will inevitably accept the onlookers, criticism and scrutiny of the world. However, enjoying the blessing and support of the fathers is not the meaning and value of breaking through the encirclement and forging ahead bravely from generation to generation? This is true of Ren Zhengfei and Yao Anna, we and our children, and even more so of our parents and my generation - to create a higher starting point, a bigger platform, and more choices for the children of the family and the country.
Taking a step back, even if Yao Anna relies on the resources and glory of her father's generation, but she has average appearance, average acting skills, and average ability, shouldn't she be an actress? Shouldn't you have your own dreams? Or perhaps, this kind of "should" and "shouldn't" is just our excessive expectations for her wolf-warrior fierce and tiger-like father, her rose-like sonorous and warrior-like brave sister, projected onto the girl Yao Anna, thinking that she is not like a father or sister, but she is not doing her job, she is willing to fall, and she deserves to be scolded?!
There are no "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" in dreams, and dreams are not high or low. Whether it is Meng Wanzhou who becomes a hero who inherits her father's business, or Yao Anna who becomes a clumsy and funny self, or you and I trek in the wind, frost, snow and rain just to support a fireworks......These dreams, big and small, are all great and should not be ridiculed. At the same time, as the youngest daughter who was rich and pampered by her parents, Yao Anna did not sit back and lie in the mansion drunk to death, or constantly get into trouble. Instead, she knew that she would be controversial, but she was still willing to throw herself to the shooting scene and throw herself to the cusp of fearful words, which shows that she is not as timid and shy as ** reported, but has a clear and strong self. And doesn't this just prove that Mr. Ren has a good education? The eldest daughter has become a hero who inherits the family business and serves the motherland, and the younger daughter has become a brave self who pursues her dreams and is firm in herself. His daughters have inherited his bravery, tenacity, self-discipline and positive side, as well as his hard-working, diligent, firm and optimistic family education. Thinking back to a few years ago, when Ren Zhengfei was interviewed and mentioned that Yao Anna wanted to engage in literature and art, she had already predicted her youngest daughter's acting career: the child must rely on her own efforts and not block her road, otherwise she will not go well on other roads, and she will blame her parents.
In Siddhartha, Hesse wrote about everyone's growth path: what parents say is the truth, and the path they have traveled is the truth. I think the reason why Yao Anna has to escape from her father's empire and find herself on another track is precisely because she not only wants to be Ren Zhengfei's daughter Yao Anna, but also to become a different girl Yao Anna. Therefore, even if there is no father like Ren Zhengfei, a girl like Yao Anna should be respected. Even if some dreams are not realized in the end, those roads are brave. After all: we all stand on the shoulders of our fathers before we go into the distance. We all have to go through our own ups and downs to be able to thrive. Be grateful for the blessing of your parents, respect the dreams of others, and live your own life. No jealousy, no meanness, no contempt. Speculation, awareness, compassion, sobriety. In this way, it's good.