Looking back on "Zhu Bajie" Ma Dehua married "Chang'e" in reality, why did he have no scandals in 49 years of marriage?
In the classic masterpiece "Journey to the West", Mr. Ma Dehua vividly interpreted it with his superb acting skills"Zhu Bajie"this role. In real life, he found it even more"Chang'e"A comparable companion. Although he has played the role of someone else's husband many times, he has always only identified with one partner in his heart.
Mr. Ma Dehua was born into a wealthy family in Beijing, but his growth path was not as smooth as the outside world imagined. Since he was a child, his parents have resolutely sent him to a martial arts school, expecting him to learn a skill. During his days at the martial arts school, he had a boring time, and he didn't have much love for martial arts, so he was always absent-minded in class and was often criticized by the teacher by name.
Once, the teacher asked him to answer the question again, but Ma Dehua's answer obviously did not satisfy the teacher. After being severely reprimanded by his teacher, he became even more dislike martial arts and eventually chose to drop out. After dropping out, he switched to the Peking Opera Company to study Peking Opera. After graduating, he successfully entered the Peking Opera Troupe.
With the passage of time, Ma Dehua reached the age of marriage, but his love life was a blank. The family began to arrange blind dates for him, but he always refused on the grounds that the show was busy. Until one day, when he came home, he saw his mother making dumplings, and a beautiful and virtuous woman was chatting with her while helping. At that moment, he decided in his heart that she was the person he wanted to spend his life with.
This woman's name is Hou Yumin, although they have only met once, Ma Dehua knows that she is his destiny. With the blessing of both parents, they successfully entered the palace of marriage. The married life is simple and happy, and the two support each other and grow together, which has become a beautiful story. Hou Yumin gave birth smoothly, and the birth of the child made Ma Dehua feel a great responsibility, so he worked harder.
By chance, he got the opportunity to play "Monkey King Havoc in the Pipa Cave" at the Northern Kunqu Opera Theater, which was his first time playing the role of Zhu Bajie. Unexpectedly, his performance was a huge success, earning a round of applause. Even Yang Jie, the director of "Journey to the West", praised him and invited him to play Zhu Bajie in "Journey to the West".
Ma Dehua was invited to star in a TV series for the first time, and he didn't want to miss this opportunity, so he discussed it with his wife Hou Yumin. His wife gave him full support in his career. For the filming of "Journey to the West", Ma Dehua resolutely packed his bags and embarked on the journey of the crew. However, the actual shooting was far more complicated than he imagined, especially the role of Zhu Bajie.
During the shoot, he had to wear a heavy hood and a large fake belly, which was filled with a lot of cotton. In the cold winter months, this also helps to keep warm, but in the hot summer months, the heat is almost suffocating, and when he takes off his hood, his face is often red with heat, and his makeup becomes mottled as a result.
In order to perfectly interpret the role of Zhu Bajie, Ma Dehua has made great efforts. There is a scene in the play where Zhu Bajie betrays his daughter-in-law, and he is worried that his wife will misunderstand because of this, so he carefully asks for his wife's consent before filming. During the filming process, his wife Hou Yumin often visited the class and gave Ma Dehua support and love. "Journey to the West" was filmed for several years, and despite the difficult conditions of the crew, Hou Yumin has always been firmly by Ma Dehua's side. Everyone in the crew knows her very well and regards her as Ma Dehua's wife. Despite financial constraints that sometimes required Ma Dehua to make multiple cameos to maintain the filming, the relationship between the couple was always the same.
"Journey to the West" was a huge success in the end, and Zhu Bajie played by Ma Dehua was also widely loved by the audience. Although Zhu Bajie in the play is lustful and flowery, Ma Dehua outside the play has always been loyal to Hou Yumin, and there has never been a scandal in his 49 years of married life. In his heart, Hou Yumin is his only "Chang'e" and the love of his life. The two have been married for many years and have a stable relationship, but occasionally they have quarrels.
Hou Yumin can't drive, so Ma Dehua is responsible for driving every trip. However, Hou Yumin gets nervous when Ma Dehua is driving and often directs him. For example, when another vehicle approaches, she will slow him down; She reminds him when she sees a junction that needs to be turned. Ma Dehua began to feel that Hou Yumin's words were too much, which made him feel irritable. He tried to calm his anger by telling Hou that he could handle the problems while driving.
Later, Ma Dehua found that Hou Yumin was not nervous when he was in someone else's car, but only felt nervous when he was driving. He realized that it was because Hou Yumin cared about his safety and that she really loved him. Ma Dehua often gathers with friends, and drinking alcohol is an essential activity. Hou Yumin didn't let him drink, but he couldn't restrain himself. Once, he got drunk again and his friends sent him home. The next morning, Ma Dehua woke up to find himself lying on the floor, his hair disheveled, his face still stained with something, his clothes crumpled, and he looked like he hadn't taken a shower in days. Hou Yumin tried to make him sleep on the sofa, but he always insisted on sleeping on the floor.
Hou Yumin didn't want Ma Dehua to drink because he was worried that he would make a fool of himself in front of his friends. She thinks about him everywhere. The two also "agreed on three chapters", such as Ma Dehua's promise not to swear in front of Hou Yumin. Once the two quarreled, Ma Dehua was angry and said a dirty word, but Hou Yumin cried. Seeing this, Ma Dehua's mother scolded him, and then went to comfort Hou Yumin. Ma Dehua felt overwhelmed, he only said something like that because he was too angry. I never thought I'd bring her to tears. After a fierce quarrel, Ma Dehua sincerely apologized to Hou Yumin: "I admit that I was wrong, and I promise never to swear again." This sincere remorse made Hou Yumin choose to forgive him.
Since then, Ma Dehua has really fulfilled his promise, and Hou Yumin has never said excessive words in front of him. They respect each other and take care of each other with their hearts. Now, the two have walked hand in hand for 49 years, and their love story is enviable.
In the face of all kinds of ** and questions from the outside world, Ma Dehua always replied firmly: "Among the many co-actresses, I only have a soft spot for Hou Yumin. "This single-mindedness and affection are touching.
Their son has also grown up and become a handsome and dashing young man. In Singapore, he successfully started his own business. Seeing their son's outstanding performance, Ma Dehua and Hou Yumin's hearts were full of pride and relief.
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