As a parenting specialist, I often encounter parents who ask for help from them who are worried that their children's lack of reading will affect their learning and future development. So what if the child doesn't study? How to cultivate a good habit of reading in children? I have summarized a few experiences on this issue, hoping to help more parents.
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Let's talk about what to do if your child doesn't study? Should you start with **?
1.Understand your child's interests
Every child has their own interests and hobbies, some children may prefer sports, some may prefer drawing, and not every child is interested in reading. Parents should respect their children's interests and guide their children's learning in a variety of ways, such as choosing books related to their children's interests or teaching them in the form of games.
2.Create a good reading environment
Family is one of the most important learning environments for children, and parents should create a good reading atmosphere. You can keep a selection of books at home and tell your child stories or read them together on a regular basis to stimulate your child's interest in reading. In addition, parents themselves should also set a good example and read more books in order to influence their children.
3.Pay attention to the cultivation of reading skills
Some children may not be bored because they don't like to read, but because they lack the skills to read. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of children's reading skills, such as teaching them how to quickly find the content they are interested in, how to extract key information from the article, etc. This makes it easier for children to read and become interested.
Start with the books you're interested in
I once tutored a family whose daughter had no interest in reading and would get bored every time she mentioned reading. After talking to parents, I suggest that they try to choose books related to their favorite topics based on their children's interests, such as animated characters she likes or science knowledge that she is interested in. After a period of trying, children gradually begin to become interested in reading, not only can they take the initiative to find books to read, but also can take the initiative to share their reading experience with their parents.
5.Parents lead by example
As parents, we must first understand and respect our children's interests, and we cannot force our children to read. Secondly, we need to create a good reading environment for children so that they can feel the joy of reading. Let's put down the phone first. Start with your child holding a book and reading it with your child. Share and tell interesting stories about the book together. Finally, we should focus on cultivating children's reading skills so that they can read more effectively, so as to enhance their interest and motivation to read.
At the end of the day, what if your child doesn't study? This question is not a question with an absolute answer, the key is how parents guide correctly. By understanding children's interests, creating a good reading environment, and focusing on the cultivation of reading skills, I believe that children will gradually develop a good habit of reading. Let's cheer for our children's reading journey!