is accustomed to all kinds of scandals in the entertainment industry, and most of the endings are avoided or silent. It's rare to see a woman who can talk openly and honestly about her exes and invite her ex to her show.
Lai Zhishan is such a person, you may not know her, but you must know her predecessors, Leung Ka-fai, Cheung Dalun, Ekin Cheng, Chen Xiaochun...
Li Zhishan even said bluntly: "My ex and I are friends, and those who have been in love with me are all on fire!" Maybe I'm more prosperous."
But she doesn't have a charming temperament, nor does she have a terrifying peerless appearance, so why is she so popular?
Lai was born in Macau, her great-grandfather was a notary public in Macau, and her aunt was the gambling king's original wife, Lai Yuen-wah.
Although she was born in a prestigious family, her parents' marriage did not last long, her father's busy work, coupled with the departure of her mother, made Li Zhishan start to become independent early.
At that time, she followed her cousin He Chaoqiong to line up to receive red envelopes during the New Year, and her cousin often took her out to play, she had a cheerful personality and could become friends with anyone, and over time she got to know a lot of handsome men and women in the entertainment industry.
often listens to friends talk about acting and singing, and she gradually became interested in the entertainment industry and aspired to become a star.
With an idea, she decided to act. She went to sign up for a singing competition, and was successfully selected for her excellent performance, and she collaborated with Chen Huixian and Chen Lemin to launch the record "Girl Magazine".
It's a pity that this ** didn't make her soar. The next year, she and Chen Lemin released a new album "Girl Declaration, Absolute Love", but the response was still mediocre, perhaps fate did not arrange her to take the road of singing.
Just when she wanted to continue to change the track and chase her dreams, the hemp rope was broken in a fine place, and the bad news suddenly came.
Her father died of a heart attack and was in a coma when he was taken to the hospital, she was not able to see him for the last time, and at the age of 18, she also lost her breadwinner.
Fortunately, her uncle took good care of their family and gave her a chance to be selected into the TVB children's program "430 Shuttle".
However, most of the time, Li Zhishan still relies on her own efforts to make her debut to participate in art training, and when she is short of money, she plays tricks.
After hosting "430 Shuttle", she also had more opportunities, and gradually began to participate in film and television dramas.
But her appearance was not favored, her appearance was not outstanding among the actors at that time, and she did not have many opportunities to be selected, and most of the roles she could receive were small roles.
She began to think about her strengths, she thought: "I don't look outstanding, but I have a cheerful personality and I know a lot of people, and the host I have done before should be the most suitable for me." So, she rejected many film and television invitations and began to focus on hosting her career.
Since then, she has continued to participate in large-scale programs such as "Hong Kong Morning", "Lightning Fax Machine", "Legend of Seven Million People", and "City Chase", gaining opportunities to show her face and gaining experience for herself.
After constantly upgrading and gaining experience in fighting monsters, she launched a personal hosting show "Best Actor", with good popularity, her interview guests include Andy Lau, Tony Leung, ** Yun. A lot of superstars.
With this show, she also won the Best Program Host Award.
's career is smooth, but her love has always been full of variables, and she has never found that fate.
At the age of 16, she met Leung Ka-fai, who had just joined the artist training class at that time.
They are nearly ten years apart, but she is obsessed with Leung Ka-fai's elegant and steady temperament, Leung Ka-fai is also attracted by her cheerfulness and vitality, and the two soon fall in love.
Leung Ka Fai would pick her up from school at the gate of her school and take her to the beach to watch the sunset together, and they opened their hearts and talked about their personal hobbies, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign.
But age has always been an unbridgeable gap between them, and the two eventually broke up.
30 years later, she invited Leung Ka-fai to her "Best Actor" program. Despite being an ex, they still get along well, and when talking about their relationship, she suddenly asked: "You definitely didn't think I was back then, did you?" ”
Liang Jiahui paused for a few seconds: "I have thought about it, but no, you are too young." ”
She turned that relationship into a beautiful memory, let go of attachment and entanglement, and became free and easy.
After breaking up with Leung Jiahui, she met Ekin Cheng, and the two got along at work and were attracted to each other little by little, so they naturally got together.
At that time, the two young and vigorous people didn't know how to tolerate each other, and they often quarreled, and every time they quarreled, the whole building heard the sound, and almost every colleague knew it.
As Ekin Cheng became famous, the agency asked the two to separate, and the noisy three years consumed the relationship between the two, so they broke up.
When they met at their most frivolous age, they didn't know how to cherish them, and maybe separation was a foregone conclusion.
Later, Lai Zhishan also said to Ekin Cheng's wife: "You are very happy, you can meet Zheng Yinjian during this period, I hope you will always be happy." ”
Life is a river that always runs forward, on the way you will encounter all kinds of scenery and passers-by, and the most important thing is not to remember the past and enjoy the present.
They are still comfortable seeing each other now, and she often goes shopping with Ekin Cheng's wife.
After breaking up with Ekin Cheng, she fell in love with Shao Chuanyong, who was unknown at the time, for eight years.
She never gave up on Shao Chuanyong, who was almost paralyzed in a car accident, and took care of him for half a year until he got better, but she was so affectionate that she finally proposed to break up.
She once revealed that in the eight years she was in love with Shao Chuanyong, she cheated on Chen Xiaochun.
At that time, Chen Xiaochun was still young and had a ruffian aura, and this little ruffian smell hooked her heart.
But soon she found that this boy was very different from her habits, she was looking forward to surprises, but Chen Xiaochun's surprise was to sit on the stage with someone else on a date, she liked bars and dance halls, but Chen Xiaochun liked newspaper morning tea.
Their habits were so different that the spark only lit up for a moment, and then disappeared after a short time.
Not suitable for couples, but they have always been friends.
After that, Li Zhishan fell in love and broke up one after another, she was fully engaged, but she could afford to let go.
The man who impressed Li Zhishan the most, I think it must be Zhang Dalun.
They have been dating for nine years, which is her longest relationship, and at one point the outside world thought they would get married, but she eventually chose to separate.
The reason is simple, because she wants to fulfill Darren Chang's desire to have children and a stable family.
When she was a child, the unhappiness of her parents' marriage and the problems in her aunt's marriage made her lose her trust in marriage, and she became a staunch infertility activist.
Zhang Dalun's family is very traditional, although Zhang Dalun accepted that she was not married and infertile, and even said to her: "It's okay, I can have no children." But these can't hide the longing for children and a complete family in his eyes.
So Li Zhishan thought: "I can't delay him", she chose to let go and give him the happiness he deserved.
Later, Zhang Dalun got married, but they are still the closest relatives, and they often meet with friends for dinner.
After breaking up with Zhang Dalun, she never fell in love again.
The impact of the unhappy marriage in her family when she was a child made her relentlessly pursue love and want to find the sense of security that belongs to her.
Now that she has finally reconciled, she has allowed her life to be loveless.
She follows her heart and will live the present to the fullest. When a person learns to live freely, a unique journey begins.
She is like a blooming flower that begins as a seed of discontent and gradually blossoms into a beautiful, resilient spirit.
Her free and easy attitude towards life makes her free, like clouds in the sky, drifting with the wind, unrestrained.