When a man says to you, "You've changed," you might think, what does that mean? If this person is someone you like, you may be more curious. In this blog, we'll dive into the psychology of a man when he says, "You've changed." We will also discuss his possible intentions, and how to deal with the situation.
When a man says to you, "You've changed lately," you may feel a little nervous. He didn't explicitly say that ** has changed, just that you have changed. This may indicate that he has the following kinds of psychology:
He might like you:When a man says you've changed, it's probably because he has a crush on you. Noticing changes in the person you like isn't just for women. While it is generally assumed that a man will not notice subtle changes, he may notice them if he likes you. Even if he hasn't developed a relationship with you yet, he may find you attractive.
He cares about how you're doing:Even if he doesn't like you, he might be curious about what happened to you lately. A man who says you've changed may simply care about how you're doing. In this case, he may not notice that you have changed, but that your hairstyle, clothing, etc. have obviously changed.
He thinks you've gotten cuter :Even if he's not in a relationship, he may find you cute. He may think you're cuter than before, but just saying "you're cute" might make him feel shy, so he uses expressions like "you've changed" to indirectly convey his feelings.
He knows you have a boyfriend:If you just got a boyfriend before he was told "you've changed," then he probably knows about it. Whether he has a crush on you or not, he probably wants to hear the "I have a boyfriend" message from your mouth. He may feel like asking you directly, "Did you have a boyfriend?" "It can be mistaken that he has a crush on you, so he may find it embarrassing to do so.
He didn't know what to say well:Some men may feel speechless when they are alone with you. He may not be able to stand the silence and want to say something, but he may not be able to find the right topic. As a result, he may choose to say something inconsequential, such as "You've changed lately."
In fact, if you've just had a boyfriend, you may have noticeable changes. But this is not always the case. When a man says you've changed, what exactly has changed? In most cases, it's probably not your appearance that changes, it's your heart. Here are some of the possible changes:
You might have a crush on someone:People change when they're in love. Women, in particular, may begin to change themselves in order to make the person they like feel cute. These efforts and changes in emotions may manifest themselves in your temperament. You may want to be cute more, you want to show your strengths more, and these may become your temperament.
Your smile increases:When it comes to interacting with people, some people are always smiling, while others are not. Especially when busy or tired, it can be difficult for people to smile. When a guy says you've changed, he may notice an increase in your smile. When you laugh, people will think that you look happy, as if something good has happened to you recently.
Your attitude has become gentler :When a man senses that your attitude has changed, he may say that you have changed. He may have noticed a change in your words and actions, that is, your attitude has become more gentle. He may have found it a little difficult to talk to you and a little embarrassed to talk to you, but now he feels like he can talk to you.
When a man says to you, "You've changed," you may feel nervous. If this person is someone you like, you may wish that he liked you too. Here are the signs that a man may be showing fun and uninteresting:
Interesting signal:
lHe looked shy :Talking to someone you like is a nerve-wracking thing. It's okay even to talk to someone who isn't important, but talking to someone you like can make you feel shy. When a man says "you've changed" to you, you have to pay attention to his attitude and expression. If he seems a little shy, then he probably has a crush on you.
lHe only says when the two of you are alone:The expression "You've changed" is not the same as "I like you" or "You're cute." However, saying such things to someone he doesn't care about can be bothering him. If he likes you, he will definitely say this to you when the two of you are alone. He may want to convey his feelings and hope that you can understand his feelings, so he will say this to you when the two of you are alone.
lYou guys had a great conversation :People want to talk to their favorite people for a while and communicate more. It's the same for you and for a man. Therefore, if a man starts talking about other topics after saying "you have changed" to you, then he may have a crush on you. This is because he wants to stay with you a little longer, which is a sign of his affection.
Uninteresting signal:
lHe said this to everyone:When a man says to you, "You've changed," does he say that to you alone? Or did he say that to other women? If it's the latter, then he may just be because there is no other topic to talk to you about, or he just wants to say hello to you. He didn't say this to you because he liked you.
lHe doesn't talk to you anymore:When a man says to you, "You've changed," you reply, "Yes?" ”。And then, will he still talk to you, will he still say anything to you? If he likes you, he will want to talk to you a little more, so he will continue to chat with you. However, if he stops talking to you after saying "you've changed" to you, then he probably doesn't like you.
lHe only says this to you in the workplace:You want to be aware of occasions when a man says to you, "You've changed." If he only says this to you at the workplace or where there are other people around, then he may just be acting as polite or he just finds it easier to work with you. In this case, unfortunately, he may not like you.
When a man says to you, "You've changed," how should you respond? Your feelings for this man may affect your response, so first you need to be clear about your own feelings. Here are some possible responses:
"Really? ”：If something good has happened to you lately, or if a man says to you, "You've changed," you can smile and answer "yes?" ”。Whatever feelings you have for this man, answer "Yes?" "There will be no problem. You may not know how he will respond, but it is a recommended way to respond regardless of whether he has a crush on you or not.
"Thank you":It's not a bad thing to be said that the temperament has changed. Even if you don't realize what's changed, being said like this doesn't make you feel uncomfortable. In this case, you can start by saying thank you. This man may not mean anything deep, or he just wants to say hello to you. In this case, a non-offensive response is best.
"Do you think I've changed? ”：If this man is your friend, or if you talk a lot, you can ask him if he has changed. Even if you like him, you can ask him "Do you think I've changed?" ”。Through his response, you can roughly judge how he feels for you.
"Actually, I fell in love with someone":If you are not interested in the man who says "You have changed", but you are in love with someone else, you can tell him in advance that you are in love with someone else. You may not know why he would say that you have changed. Therefore, you can tell him directly the reason for the change in your temperament.
"Actually, I haven't changed".Also, if you don't realize that something has changed, you can simply answer "Actually, I haven't changed". Especially if you don't really like the man, then answering straight may be the safest option.
When a guy says to you, "You've changed," you might want him to like you too. If this person is someone you like, you may have such expectations. However, judging whether he likes you or not based on this sentence alone can be dangerous. Some men may just say you've changed because there's no other topic to talk to you about, or he just wants to say hello to you. Therefore, you should not judge his feelings based on this sentence alone, but carefully observe his behavior in order to understand his feelings more accurately. February** Dynamic Incentive Program