As a servant of the An family, Sun Ma behaved very loyally.
When An Jie was about to give birth, Jiang Defu considered inviting his sister Jiang Dehua to take care of An Jie.
But unexpectedly, in An Jie's mind, Sun Ma is undoubtedly the most suitable choice.
When my grandmother settled down, she served everyone wholeheartedly and without complaints. When Anjie needed her help, she didn't hesitate.
She is like a brick that needs to be carried, no matter where she is.
Some people think that no matter where you work, you can't be considered a job, but for her, it's the same.
But is that really the case?
When the couple Jiang Defu and An Jie came to work in a completely unfamiliar place, their family backgrounds were very different.
In fact, the situation is indeed quite complicated, as soon as Jiang Defu saw his grandmother, he put forward a condition to her, that is, in the future, she can no longer use the name An Jie to call her "Miss", but should call her Comrade An.
She was in a dilemma when she worked as a nanny at An Jie and Jiang Defu's home, especially considering that she also had relatives like Jiang Dehua at home.
Jiang Dehua and his grandmother performed a grand theatrical performance together.
Jiang Dehua's attitude towards his grandmother is completely like a servant or an old mother, and he regards himself as the true master of the family.
In fact, Jiang Dehua lacks a sense of security in his heart.
Mama Sun has taken over her sleeping space, which poses a serious threat to her social status.
The better Mama Sun's performance is, the more obvious her shortcomings become, and Jiang Dehua is afraid that An Jie will dislike her even more, so she is hostile to Mama Sun.
She repeatedly asserted her authority and let her grandmother eat the egg custard prepared for the children as she pleased, and her real purpose was to tell her grandmother that she was a relative of the family, not a servant of the family.
Despite this, Jiang Dehua still had a fierce argument with his grandmother, and the two had a verbal altercation in the middle of the night.
Jiang Defu reprimanded her harshly, and even picked up slippers and threw them at her, and she rolled in emotion, perfectly showing the image of a rural woman.
However, at a critical juncture, Jiang Defu and An Jie decided to let their grandmother return to their hometown, while Jiang Dehua stayed by her side.
No matter how good Mama Sun is, she is not really a family member after all. Jiang Defu resolutely said that he should not let his grandmother be a servant, but if it involves himself, he will not be soft.
Despite this situation, Sun Ma did not have any dissatisfaction with An Jie.
When you feel wronged, you choose to pretend that everything is normal, despite the deep pain in your heart.
Sun Ma's way of appeasing herself was to unexpectedly call An Jie "Miss".
As the exploited party, she seems to miss the old days more than An Jie.
Sun Ma has lived in An Jie's home for a long time and has become accustomed to that kind of impersonal life.
When she settled to work, the An family paid her for it, and it was a matter of course that there was no need to build too much closeness with others.
When Wang Xiu'e came to her, she clearly wanted to close the distance between her, but she didn't show the same enthusiasm.
Sun Ma is a servant who understands the rules very well, she knows very well what she should do and what she shouldn't do, so she has never been able to get together with Jiang Dehua and Wang Xiu'e.
This act is essentially a sense of distance, and no one can really get into the depths of her psyche.
Mama Sun always kept her distance from the main family and was reluctant to have deep relationships with her, which showed that she was an excellent nanny, but she also had the experience of being taken advantage of.
The way An Jie treats his grandmother depends entirely on his mood.
When her grandmother talked to her about Wang Xiu'e, she said she had never seen such a relative.
When An Jie told me that Wang Xiu'e was a woman that Lao Ding married in the countryside, she was taken to the city in desperation.
Wang Xiu'e praised Lao Ding for always being loyal to his principles, rather than being like Chen Shimei.
An Jie took the initiative to find a place to sit down, mistakenly thinking that Sun Ma was talking about Jiang Defu, obviously she was dissatisfied with this, so she put on the attitude of the eldest lady.
Under the pretext of drinking chicken soup, he severely criticized his grandmother and warned her not to talk nonsense in the future.
When Jiang Dehua had an argument with his grandmother, he scolded her and said: I think you have become less important under the exploitation of her family.
No matter how An Jie treats her, she has always maintained a strong loyalty to the An family, does this mean that An Jie has never exploited her?
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This is not the case.
How much wealth does the An family have?
There is a textile factory, a cart shop, a dye shop, a pharmacy and several small restaurants.
It is quite difficult to work as a nanny in such a family environment, which is why Sun Ma is so cautious, as if walking on thin ice.
The An family believes that she will choose to stay only if she performs well, so the salary and treatment she receives will never be inferior.
In those days, it was already very difficult to be fed and clothed, so how could it be possible to think about exploitation or not exploitation?
The reality was that the landlords exploited the peasants, but the remuneration was not ideal. The peasants worked on the land and were paid wages in the process of labor, while the capitalists were paid for their labor by exploiting the workers. However, the capitalists exploit in a different way, they are actually exploiting people, but this exploitation is incomprehensible to those who follow the underlying logic.
Thus, despite the peasants' strong antipathy towards the landlords, Sun Ma was not hostile to the capitalists, and she was grateful to the capitalists for providing her with the necessary material support for her life.
The exploitation carried out by the capitalists has reached a very high level.
The first problem is the inequality of social status, when the grandmother settled down, she was always just a servant, and she always lived according to the mood of the master.
The situation of the Anjie brothers and sisters is not bad, when they become adults, times have changed, and capitalists have become the object of everyone's contempt, so they are naturally good to their grandmother.
However, their attitude towards their grandmother is more reflected in the subtleties.
For Mama Sun, the salary provided by An Jia is undoubtedly the most crucial.
Even in the context of changing times, the once stable family has disappeared, and Sunma's mother is still dissatisfied with her unemployment.
There are people who, even if they have been exploited, cannot really feel it themselves, because their lives are so hard.
In Mama's concept, money will divide a person into different classes.
A person of great wealth has the right to insult himself as much as he pleases and criticize himself for the inaccuracy of a certain statement.
The desire to earn the wealth of others makes it possible to endure this pain.
Many people may not know that the more people who hold this attitude, the more likely they are to exploit others.
When all those who are exploited take everything for granted, will those who exploit others still be merciful?
When a person becomes weak, he is actually condoning the evil deeds of others.
Because of this, we can understand that everyone is equal.