I'll tell you an amazing truth: listen well, strong people will not tolerate the disrespect of others, whether it is parents, wives and children, they will let go of those feelings and stubbornness, stand at the top, and be the master.
2. To be honest, it hurts. In fact, our relatives are no different from strangers, depending on how capable you are. If you have the ability and earn more money than them, they will be polite to you and smile; If you are weak, even if you mix all your life, you will be poor, they don't take you seriously, and even want to step on you to show superiority.
3. Only the strong can talk on an equal footing.
Equality for all? Joke. If you don't have enough strength, your parents will want to manipulate you and make you a soulless puppet just to please them and meet their expectations.
Children in this land are always framed by their parents' expectations. They like to say that in order for you to go to school, you have to study hard and live up to our expectations.
When the child is 18 years old, when he takes the college entrance examination, if he can't get into a prestigious school, his parents will say, look at how good other people's children are, you make us lose face, it's really a waste.
The favorite trick of garbage parents is emotional kidnapping, packaging their incompetence as an emotional burden and imposing it on their children.
I didn't divorce for you at the beginning, otherwise I would have had a better development, you have to understand my good intentions for you.
In fact, they do this because they are too weak, they have no strength and ability at all, and they have nothing to do, which is waste.
They don't have the conditions and resources to give their children, and they don't have the ability to let them grow up freely, so they put a burden like shit on their children and force them to grow.
After a while, don't worry, parents will worry about other things; When you are unhappy for a while, you say, I will provide you with food and drink, how can you repay me?
Smart people understand that this is a naked exchange of interests, and there is no family affection at all, only dirty emotional kidnapping.
So, you don't have to please them, only the weak will do what they do. Just follow your heart, respect yourself, and be rational.
4. The weak are always manipulated by others and bound by morality.
For children from poor families, they are born vulnerable, and the poorer they are, the more parents interfere in their children's lives. In this way, we are trapped in a vicious circle of poverty, poverty for generations.
If your parents are at the bottom of society, they are poor, and you want to change your fate, don't follow your parents' plans.
It's not that your parents mean to harm you, they are too low, they basically don't have any useful advice, they will only teach you how to continue to be poor.
A true life coach can only be someone who is higher than you.
When I say this, I don't mean to blame my parents, they are also affected by their parents when they are poor, and we understand and respect the fate of others.
5. Bravely go to the road of the strong.
Now, reflect on the cancers you come into contact with, whether it's a disadvantaged culture or a poor circle, and then be brave enough to abandon them. Otherwise, even if you talk about benevolence, righteousness, morality, and filial piety to your parents all day long, you have no money and no income.
Parents are also human beings, relatives are also human beings, human nature is like this, you are strong and he is weak, you are weak and he is strong. If you don't want to be controlled, you have to take the initiative.
In short, either you press him, or he presses you. I chose to press him.
6. Full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, the result is not delicious.
Some people say, is it necessary to be so absolute? They are all relatives, and it's okay to be wronged.
Over the years, how your relatives have treated you and manipulated you, don't you know in your heart?
When you want to show your strength, they trap you with kindness, but pull back. Have they considered being a loved one?
I wanted to buy a car and a house, but they said they wanted to be self-reliant, but they didn't help. Is this still a relative?
What relatives? It's all an exchange of interests, don't mention feelings, it's too dirty.
Benevolence, righteousness and morality are to drive you at will when you are needed; Abandon you at any time when you are not needed or when your interests are violated.
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