Have you ever thought that there is actually a "** monster" lurking around us, which is cunning and cruel, staring at those who have dreams and pursuits? The name of this monster is "Habitual Avoidance".
Imagine that your friend Xiaoli is always looking forward to an unforgettable love. However, whenever a boy with good conditions showed her affection, she quickly fled the scene as if she had been electrocuted. She clearly wants it in her heart, but she is always avoiding it in action. It's like she's put an invisible cage on herself, preferring to be alone and lonely rather than face the risk of possible injury.
In the workplace, this "monster" is even more pervasive. Some people are afraid of the expectations of the leader and the consequences of failure, so they choose to deliberately retain strength in something that can be done better. They would rather hide in their comfort zone than take a step out to meet a challenge. But can such an escape really give them peace of mind?
Escape is like a chronic poison that slowly erodes our psyche and makes us timid and cowardly. We always console ourselves with all sorts of excuses, telling ourselves that running away is a wise choice. However, this kind of self-deception will only lead us further and further down the path of evasion, and eventually fall into a situation from which we cannot extricate ourselves.
Remember, running away won't solve the problem, it will only make our problems more intractable. When we choose to escape, we are actually giving up on our own growth and progress. We miss out on the opportunity to exercise ourselves and to make deep connections with others. This kind of evasive behavior not only deprives us of the opportunity and possibility in front of us, but also makes us regret it in the days to come.
Friend, have you missed anything because of this? Let us know in the comments section so that everyone can avoid repeating the mistakes of the past.